I want to discuss some experiences from real life. Here we are talking about game, neg hits, push-pull, escalation, friendzones, and even things like energy and vibrations (those of us who have familiarized ourselves with the law of attraction).....
I hang out with a diverse crowd, with all types of friends. We're boys so of course we talk about girls lol. This is what my friends shared with me.
1) this friend who looks good and is fairly confident in himself says to me, "Vlad! there is NO GAME" "WHAT GAME??" lol hes been pulling mad *****es since 15 years old and says his behavior, talking, tone, etc does not change when hes around women. He says he is always "himself" just be yourself he says. Says clothes and shoes dont matter. Says he is just laughing on the inside whn i talk about spitting game, or nice clothes, or bling or whatev. .....and here we are (myself and many of u) that know so much more than him about the game chatting online while hes pulling all types of ass.
Now this friend has a good physique, but kind of crude facial features. He cannot dance for ****, has sort of a high pitched voice, isnt particularly smooth. Also has kind of a cold personality. Lol and the funny thing is that girls KNOW that his reputation is that of a player, and they know he will hurt them, cheat on them, or suddenly dump them... but they still jump into relationships with him!!! Im scratching my head like "where is the female intuition" lol
2)This friend... wow where do i begin? he is pretty tall, but out of shape. Works in a pizza place, dropped out of a community college. Has pretty much nothing going for himself. He is 21 and about to get engaged, but hes been having a team of women throughout the past few years. He had girls begging to sleep with him and chicks fighting for him. does he use push pull, negs, and peacocking?
GUYS!! the dude cannot form a coherent sentence!! He can barely read and write, and even though he came from Albania about 10 years ago, it seems like someone that came last year. Furthermore, he is aggressive, violent, and self-centered. One day he told me while we were driving: "Vlad, look at all those *****es walking on the street! THEY ALL WANNA ****. THE SIDEWALKS ARE WET BECAUSE OF THEIR ***** JUICE!!. he turned to me and another friend saying "why dont you guys go and get those girls its not hard".
I thought to myself wow, this guy is closer to the truth than me or 99% of this forum, despite the fact that his IQ is the level of room temperature. Or at the club he can get whatever girl he wants. One time in the club he said how some guy named Alex was banging different girls each night. I was like wtf? where does he get them?? He goes, "theres alot of things you dont know about life. ALL THESE GIRLS AT THE CLUB ARE SLUTS! IF U KNOW HOW TO FVCK THEM AND U KNOW HOW TO ACT AROUND THEM ULL DO GOOD". Again, when it comes to theoies of getting laid, he is more right than Mystery will ever be.
This two are the brightest examples... but there are others. For example an obese guy whose face looks like an a$$ that has 3 gfs; a very nice but EXTREMELY goofy African guy that has 2; an anorexic dude that is extremely dumb and thinks hes jacked (seriously) is gaming this girl like a pro, without any knowledge of the game; a fat slightly mentally retarded dude from stop and shop getting some from a cutie....... and now here we are, many look good, many intellient, educated, with so much knowlegde about not being AFC's... we ARE THE REAL AFC'S!!
Im like wow, the goofiest, weirdest, sketchiest, ugliest, dumbest dudes are getting ***** and I, seemingly better than them in every way aint getting
SH!T.
My question is... where did they go right and we went wrong? How can some people pull girls naturally and others have to spend years reading sosuave? How come we deeply intellectualize something that is SO DAMN NATURAL as getting together with girls. Im not asking for techniques and hints... im asking WHY do we need these techniques and hints in the first place?? Somebody please explain.
I hang out with a diverse crowd, with all types of friends. We're boys so of course we talk about girls lol. This is what my friends shared with me.
1) this friend who looks good and is fairly confident in himself says to me, "Vlad! there is NO GAME" "WHAT GAME??" lol hes been pulling mad *****es since 15 years old and says his behavior, talking, tone, etc does not change when hes around women. He says he is always "himself" just be yourself he says. Says clothes and shoes dont matter. Says he is just laughing on the inside whn i talk about spitting game, or nice clothes, or bling or whatev. .....and here we are (myself and many of u) that know so much more than him about the game chatting online while hes pulling all types of ass.
Now this friend has a good physique, but kind of crude facial features. He cannot dance for ****, has sort of a high pitched voice, isnt particularly smooth. Also has kind of a cold personality. Lol and the funny thing is that girls KNOW that his reputation is that of a player, and they know he will hurt them, cheat on them, or suddenly dump them... but they still jump into relationships with him!!! Im scratching my head like "where is the female intuition" lol
2)This friend... wow where do i begin? he is pretty tall, but out of shape. Works in a pizza place, dropped out of a community college. Has pretty much nothing going for himself. He is 21 and about to get engaged, but hes been having a team of women throughout the past few years. He had girls begging to sleep with him and chicks fighting for him. does he use push pull, negs, and peacocking?
GUYS!! the dude cannot form a coherent sentence!! He can barely read and write, and even though he came from Albania about 10 years ago, it seems like someone that came last year. Furthermore, he is aggressive, violent, and self-centered. One day he told me while we were driving: "Vlad, look at all those *****es walking on the street! THEY ALL WANNA ****. THE SIDEWALKS ARE WET BECAUSE OF THEIR ***** JUICE!!. he turned to me and another friend saying "why dont you guys go and get those girls its not hard".
I thought to myself wow, this guy is closer to the truth than me or 99% of this forum, despite the fact that his IQ is the level of room temperature. Or at the club he can get whatever girl he wants. One time in the club he said how some guy named Alex was banging different girls each night. I was like wtf? where does he get them?? He goes, "theres alot of things you dont know about life. ALL THESE GIRLS AT THE CLUB ARE SLUTS! IF U KNOW HOW TO FVCK THEM AND U KNOW HOW TO ACT AROUND THEM ULL DO GOOD". Again, when it comes to theoies of getting laid, he is more right than Mystery will ever be.
This two are the brightest examples... but there are others. For example an obese guy whose face looks like an a$$ that has 3 gfs; a very nice but EXTREMELY goofy African guy that has 2; an anorexic dude that is extremely dumb and thinks hes jacked (seriously) is gaming this girl like a pro, without any knowledge of the game; a fat slightly mentally retarded dude from stop and shop getting some from a cutie....... and now here we are, many look good, many intellient, educated, with so much knowlegde about not being AFC's... we ARE THE REAL AFC'S!!
Im like wow, the goofiest, weirdest, sketchiest, ugliest, dumbest dudes are getting ***** and I, seemingly better than them in every way aint getting
SH!T.
My question is... where did they go right and we went wrong? How can some people pull girls naturally and others have to spend years reading sosuave? How come we deeply intellectualize something that is SO DAMN NATURAL as getting together with girls. Im not asking for techniques and hints... im asking WHY do we need these techniques and hints in the first place?? Somebody please explain.