name calling as an AMOG

[ethnomethodologist]

I've thought about this for a while now, I apologize if I seem rushed.

There is a trend among the top males and females. It is on the most basic form, called name-calling. Have you heard of such a thing?

A Dj should be able to deal with it, in the DJ way.

What do you think, how do you deal?

 

[Bonhomme]

Roll my eyes and treat the name-caller like a little kid.

'Cause that's how they're acting.

What a laugh!

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Hey ass cracker, I wasn't talking about people calling me names and wondering how to handle them... I wanted to know how you guys deal em, as in dealer always wins...

Me and my friends call eachother names to show that we know eachother. Social proof opener, like create a wing practice.

There are AMOG's who use name-calling as a game. We do it just to see what other people respond with. sSome guys are total AFC's and call you a lamer for trying to insult, but everybody at the table knows what's REALLY going on.

How do you guys react to people taht call you names, when they try to AMOG you? I can dish it out, but sometimes I get totally blown away by some people and I bail from the set before I can even get social proof from them.

 

[ShawnLG]

I get this a lot at work since there are many alpha-males working there.

It is basically an alpha-male testing another male. You can view this as two bucks sparring(playfull fighting) to help improve each other's game. You should not back down whats so ever, or you would be viewed as a wuss(beta-male).

Alphas would also test you with unusual questions.

This has happend to me a week ago. Me and this guy almost bump into each other at work.

alpha-male: "You wanna dance?"

Me: "Ok, lets have a dance off!"

I have answered it with suggesting competion, showing my alphaness.

Saying "No thanks" would be beta. You would be backing out of the test.

When returning a comeback, always keep it light and funny. In the long run you will get more respect.

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by ShawnLG
I get this a lot at work since there are many alpha-males working there.

It is basically an alpha-male testing another male. You can view this as two bucks sparring(playfull fighting) to help improve each other's game. You should not back down whats so ever, or you would be viewed as a wuss(beta-male).

Alphas would also test you with unusual questions.

This has happend to me a week ago. Me and this guy almost bump into each other at work.

alpha-male: "You wanna dance?"

Me: "Ok, lets have a dance off!"

I have answered it with suggesting competion, showing my alphaness.

Saying "No thanks" would be beta. You would be backing out of the test.

When returning a comeback, always keep it light and funny. In the long run you will get more respect.

What if you just don't give a damn? Oh no someone called me a name i better retaliate!

There are AMOG's who use name-calling as a game. We do it just to see what other people respond with. sSome guys are total AFC's and call you a lamer for trying to insult, but everybody at the table knows what's REALLY going on.

What's really going on? I don't really respond with anything. Why? You think i'm a loser because i don't want to spar back and forth over something stupid? Oh you got me! I need to compete with random guy to validate myself!

If some guy is like "i'm better at football than you" do you challenge him to a punt/kick/pass competition or say "yeah.... and?"

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by mrRuckus
What if you just don't give a damn? Oh no someone called me a name i better retaliate!

LOL, we're not complaining here! We aren't scared of name calling dude, I'd be asking you guys how do I run away from somebody who just invaded my space, and still look cool?

Originally posted by mrRuckus
What's really going on? I don't really respond with anything. Why? You think i'm a loser because i don't want to spar back and forth over something stupid? Oh you got me! I need to compete with random guy to validate myself!

Alright, here's the scenario.
You walk up to an HB9 and you want to run your game on her. Only problem is there's another PUA there, he just AMOGed you. He called your game flat, and your words weak. What's your comeback?
"whatever."*turn and walk away* won't cut it.

Originally posted by mrRuckus
If some guy is like "i'm better at football than you" do you challenge him to a punt/kick/pass competition or say "yeah.... and?"

How bout nobody's going to walk up to you off the field and say that to you. If they say that, thats going to be WAY out of context, why even care about that, "I bet your a great fudge packer." The guy will be thrown off balance, it's better than doing that and walking away.

What I'm trying to get out of y'all is, where to steer the conversation. I don't want to know how to neutralize the problem, I want to know how you guys would come out on top. Anybody can walk away, or ignore, a DJ will get respect, and a new friend. An AFC will get all defensive, and pretend they don't care...

What is supposed to be happening out in the field, with all the PUA stuff, I mean ALL of it. Is that you are in control, you are interesting, and you are not boring.

When you try to AMOG a male in a 2 set of HB's how's that going to work, when you say "Yeah, and?" I'd look at the girls and take them physically away from you. Or tell you to get out of there, "your boring the girls man, please leave."

 

[Bigworm]

i think its sad that since TD's article everyone talks bout AMOG'ing. I think to be honest its real childish.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by Bigworm
i think its sad that since TD's article everyone talks bout AMOG'ing. I think to be honest its real childish.

If there was any other word, I would use it. It's just a way of explaining a situation you tard. Stop looking back at the works of these guys and giving props, they already know they deserve it.

What if every time we saw a wheel, we stopped to call the person sad for trying to copy their invention? I think it's childish you even bring it up

I should just start calling it exerting masculinity, and than throwing in an alpha male knows how to come out on top of every situation. Than going off into every aspect of what term AMOG fits into, and than in the end coming up with a completely different acronym, that means the EXACT SAME FREAKING THING!

Thanks for that I need to know what to say to someody who starts bashing on intellectual subjects without knowing the context or dynamics behind it

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
An AFC will get all defensive, and pretend they don't care...

Pretend? I really don't care.

When you try to AMOG a male in a 2 set of HB's how's that going to work, when you say "Yeah, and?" I'd look at the girls and take them physically away from you.

Great, go have sex with the sheep women who allow themselves herded across the room. I'll go find the girl who can see that you're being an ass to me for the sake of being an ass to me and/or to impress her. You asked the DJ way - not the PUA way. Those two things are different. I'm there to qualify the two women and if they prefer the ass who beats his chest and challenges other guys for no reason, then thank you for showing me the two women's character flaws early on.

You make it sound like "you got served!" and i have to have a dance off with them to maintain my rep.

Or tell you to get out of there, "your boring the girls man, please leave."

"Am i boring you, girls? I could go and leave you with the cute little chest thumping monkey who thinks he's the alpha male." Then it's done. I'll walk off, and it does not matter what you or the girls think. I guess you won, eh? My goal was never "must have sex at all costs" but to either enjoy their current company or qualify them to see if i wanted to spend more time with them in the future. To hell with the PUA crap.

I'm really happy i'm with a girl who makes fun of those types of ploys. Every time she goes out i get to hear more stories about the retarded crap guys pull trying to hit on her.


In any event, who cares about the "DJ way" or the "PUA way." Do it YOUR way.

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by ethnomethodologist


Thanks for that I need to know what to say to someody who starts bashing on intellectual subjects without knowing the context or dynamics behind it

Do people really take your cutesy little bait when you act like that?

 

[heater528]

I always find myself busting on people and my friends. When i get busted on i take it very well.. and if its a good one i will even have to laugh at it. I have found that sometimes i go to far. Ive had guys get pissed off and walk away. I do it all in fun... and let them know im joking with them. Im not a PUA and do not go out trying to dethrown every alpha of every social group. If i start talking with them its my natrual nature to make fun of something.

 

[heater528]

However i agree with mr ruckus.. i would never approach a group of people with the intent to make fun of a guy simply to impress a girl. If i was out with my girlfriend and some random tool came up and started trying to make an ass out of me I would prolly choke the SOB... I guess tyler durden would say i look insecure while doing so.. but i think the jackass thats looking to start **** looks even more foolish gasping for air

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by ShawnLG
alpha-male: "You wanna dance?"

Me: "Ok, lets have a dance off!"

You should have said "as long as i lead, and you don't step on my toes."

 

[Bigworm]

ethnomethodologisti i would agree with you
if you didnt sound like a fag who needed to prove somethin. look at the title of the post --- it doesnt seem like
these guys r really exerting their masculinity. half the fvck's who'll read the post will probably used it get back the guys who bullied them in high school. busting on people is one thing but calling guys names so u can get ur own lil power trip is another.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

nice responses people, glad this stuff still works... I can tell my game is getting flat around you though

*I'm wiuth the girls again*

DJ level 8 walks up to us, "hey dude, who're the girls your talking to?"

"they're my girls boi! Back up, we want some space"

Girls*in unison* "yeah, we're with ethno"
-=-=-=-=-=-=-
No walking away, and no trying to get intellectual... Or it gets boring

I'm trying to show you guys a different part of the game. Not every girl out there wants everything to be peachy keen, they don't all want a fairy tale relationship. They want to have fun, when they are young...

How do you play along? AMOG, isn't that what TD teaches you? You have to try to tool me? What if I'm all round respected, how do you show the girls you're sexier than I am?

 

[boulepiquante]

I GUESS U R AMERICAN BUDDY SO AS SUCH SELF SUFFICIENT AS A NATION VERGING ON THE ARROGANT
YES THERE ARE OTHER CULTURES
south african literature is rich thru authors like COETZE NOBEL PRIZE FOR LITERATURE ANDRE BRINK AND NUMEROUS POETS WHO CAN RECOGNIZE OTHER VERTUES IN LIFE THAN THE PURSUIT OF MONEY AND PROFIT

YOU R A CONTINENT TO YOURSELVES THAT S WHY YOU RE SO MUCH SELF CENTERED AND IGNORANT OF THE OTHERS

IT S A FACT THAT YOUR ANCESTORS FLED FROM THE PERSECUTIONS OF europe and sought refuge in america hence today a feeling of revenge and wanting to thinlk you re better than the europeans
doing better in what terms? ALL VERY RELATIVE

THINK OF hemingway fitzgerald who lived out their most creative years in PARIS IN THE 40 S

NO HARD FEELINGS
PRINSLOO VAN DER WESTHUIZEN

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by boulepiquante
I guess you are american buddy, so as such self sufficient A nation verging on the arrogant.
YES the are other cultures.

South african literature is rich thru authors like
COETZE, Nobel prize for literature, ANDRE BRINK, and other numerous poets who can recognize other virtues in life (other) than the puruit of money and profit

You are a continent to yourselves. That's why your so self centered and arrogant of others

It is a fact your ancestors Fled from the persecution of europe and sought refuge, in america. Hence today a feeling of revenge and wanting to think you're better than the europeans doing better in what terms? (It is) Very relative.

Think of Hemingway, Hemingway Fitzgerald who lived out his most creative years in Paris in the (19)40's

No Hard Feelings
Prinsloo Van Der Westhuizen

Dude!!!

I know your from South Africa, but what is their method of thought? You have amazing literary skills. Bad English grammar, but the method with which you speak, and the notions of argument are "golden". I apologize for never noticing before.

Your posts are just so annoying and painful to read. I know mine are as well, but learn to turn off the caps lock button on your keyboard. You can type in English, I know you can because of the typing errors you make, and the very immature abbreviations and adverbs you use.

One thing I'd like to say is I am not American. I live in an igloo Arrogance is a way of life here. I grew up unarrogant, extremely well behaved kid, no screaming or yelling. Always saying sorry and thank you. Asking for permission. Never talking back. Always cowering when an adult raised their voice at me. I was like that until I was at least 18 years old.

So you can suck my fat c0ck for calling me arrogant.