Originally posted by Dictatorsaurus
TCU, Your approach seems very effective when it comes to AW on myspace (which most of them are). But lets assume a minority is pretty cool. I'm wondering maybe I'll find a decent one in there.
How do you approach the ones that have a modest profile and cute pictures?
Does the social proof thing always work when you have 50+ people on your list?
What do you mention and what don't you mention in your profile?
i don't approach chicks on MySpace, per se. it's lame, and you'll be spinning your wheels, pulling your hair out.
i figured out a way to add chicks really fast, and according to my criteria. i just add based on their headline pic, don't even look at their profile, don't care, dont' send an email or msg. just add 'em, get 'em in the 'database'.
it starts rolling...you start getting a critical mass, as in "networking". i've got 1,600+ on the list. i also hid my top 8 and my friends list, so they don't know how many i have and don't think im a friend ho.
nice trick.
once you have your "database", all you have to do is post occasional bulletins, and they respond to ME! and post comments, etc. some fatties slipped through the cracks, but hey, nothing's perfect.
i have a ton of material for the bulletins already. i just copy and paste.
doing this, i get about 30 fresh leads a week. only 1/3 do i get back to. take it from there.
in case you didn't already know, the flake factor/disappear factor on myspace is very high. take it with a grain of salt.
as far as them being AW's...all women, online or off, are AW's. but with my approach, they're initiating contact with me, so most likely they're not (as much).
also, the lead time in 'getting a date' is quite high, after initial contact. in most cases it's a couple of weeks or longer. it's because there are so many azzholes on myspace. again, the salt. you get that pipeline full, and they roll in consistently.
i'm not really pushing it hard yet, because there are some other things to take care of first, but i've met a dozen chicks so far, and got four of them naked. only one of the dozen was a nightmare. two i'm seeing regularly. two more have hot hot hot circles of friends.
i am so glad i made this investment. i got 'em on the list, it's my database of ho's. the law of large numbers says that a certain percent will contact you, if you spread yourself out there (e.g. bulletins).
slowly but surely, as expected, they are getting to know TCU. it will keep paying off, moreso, as the months go by.
it is very empowering, i must admit. there is literally another one right around the corner, which is very nice.
ER!C L!VE can back me up on this
you may have noticed that i don't hang out on SS very much anymore. enough said.
happy ho'ing!