My ****y + funny theory

[wildchild]

Ive been reading alot about david deanglos ****y and funny techniques and I just had a thought about them that I thought I would share.

Have you ever heard that "Every action has an opposite and equal reaction" I for some reason was thinking about this and came up with my own theory to be applied to getting girls.

This is my theory that popped into my head when I was thinking about male / female attract "Every action has an opposite OR equal reaction" For example
When you buy girls gifts, take them out, wine and dine them, you might find that they will show the an equal reaction and sometimes offer to buy you a drink but never do and will probably show the oposite reaction and be repelled to you when you are doing everything in your power to attract them.

I also thought about when thinking about c+f was "Every action has an opposite OR equal reaction" the reason behind this thinking was because I feel if you pickup girls properly and are communicating on a different level the level that triggers attaction she will start acting the way you are like busting you balls, teasing you, pretending that you really want her etc. The opposite reaction comes in when she actually wants to bed you badly when you are teasing her and busting her balls. As you can see in both cases the opposite reaction is alot more powerful than the equal reaction.- i really will have to stop smoking weed altogether I keep having brain fats.

 

[Don_Joffe]

Whats with everyone posting threads about ****y and Funny. Why do people think C & F is so great, I think its just another tactic to talk to woman, in my opinion its abit AFC to me, call me controversial...
"I dont follow trends, i create them" - Don Joffe.
so therefore...
Why C&F? its the afc way of being ****y and being funny.
Did Don Juan ever think of ****Y AND FUNNY...
no.
He thought
Flirt, Body Language, Voice tone, Kino, etc...

 

[Kaine]

"I dont follow trends, i create them" - Don Joffe.

There's a difference between a leader and been ignorant. Ignoring fact and truth is ignorant. Been contrary just to be different and without rational purpose is self defeating.


****y and funny shouldn't be taken at face value, if you look at it at a deeper level you will understand that there is a subcommunication at a subconscious level that presuppose the relationship between the communicators and the characteristics of the message deliverer.


As part of a confident personality, it helps to raise attraction.


Kaine

 

[Don_Joffe]

Kaine and dementia: I am not discarding C&F, I am questioning its High value that it has attracted.
dementia, as you should know from my movie technique, I got a very good idea what im talking about.
To my point...
There are many many ****y and funny threads made lately, that it has been highlighted as something that should be used alot, I, disagree and say it should be used once you have
1. approached
2. small talk
3. kino - By this stage, you should have broken the ICE and wont need C&f
4. then apply your c&f

Do you see where im getting at?

 

[Kaine]

in my opinion its abit AFC to me

That was my knee jerk reaction to this comment. If you meant that "don't overdo it or be mindful of the timing" as in your response, then I tend to agree.

You're right, you don't need it. But it shouldn't be disregarded at face value. It is a proven tool to build as well as maintain attraction.

Why does it work? It subcommunicates (subvertly communicates):

You are in essence saying (metaphorically):
I are confident, I am not afraid of you, you need to seek me for approval.

WITHOUT directly saying it. When you communicate on this level it bypasses her conscious shield.

In fact, I use it in steady relationships to maintain attraction. It doesn't have to stop at the attraction stage, now it's a part of my personality. I am usually pretty humorous guy. Absorbing Deangelo's teaching has allowed me to refine who I am so I am now perceived to be funny, charming and confident. I get playfully slapped, giggles and other misc indicators of interest.


Use or don't use, just don't disregard it.

Kaine

 

[wildchild]

exactly kane and Don_Joffe how can that be "AFC" people seem to use "AFC" on this site to shoot things out the sky maybe it just dosnt work for you? Also i feel all men know how to be ****y and funyn but for some reason dont do it due to social conditioning.

 

[Don_Joffe]

I know exactly how to use it and when to use it. Its just not in my arsenal when juaning girls. I dont really need to use it as much as its SPOKEN about.

 

[theSpeculator]

I like to use ****y + Funny and it has work out very good for me. Like Kaine said, when C+F is used with confidence, it is a very powerful weapon.

If it is not working for you then consider the possibility that you are doing it wrong.

A couple of examples of C+F I have recently used:

Example 1

While I was talking to two girls about a date auction event at school. One girl ask

Her: "why don't you sign up for the auction?"
Me: "I don't want the girls to spend too much money"
Them: Laughing and giggling

Example 2

There is this girl that I have only been platonic with. One day, I told her to give me her number before class. She gets her pen and writes her number downs. I grab the paper, looked at it, and says, "Wow that was EASY!!"

She giggled as a reaction.

Example 3

I was joining a study group with two girls and one guy. As I was sitting down I notice one of the girl had her shoes off. So I said, "I smell something that stink underneath the table." and gives her an evil grin.

She gives me an evil/angry grin in return.

Conclusion

If your C+F is nothing remotely similar to these examples and it's not working for you, then you're probably not doing it right.

David DeAngelo may have been the creator of C+F and I respect him greatly for introducing it to me. His version of C+F may work well for him, but I feel that I have a more evolved version that have work quite well for me.

 

[Don_Joffe]

TheSpeculator: Your examples are quite interesting. I sense your frustration at David's creation. Dont follow his trend, create your own. Impressive. How about writing an article/thread/post about how you would use ****y and Funny? Im quite intrigued by your examples, you seem like quite an individual. Care to share more..

 

[theSpeculator]

Originally posted by Don_Joffe
TheSpeculator: Your examples are quite interesting. I sense your frustration at David's creation. Dont follow his trend, create your own. Impressive. How about writing an article/thread/post about how you would use ****y and Funny? Im quite intrigued by your examples, you seem like quite an individual. Care to share more..

That is why Project T is under construction. I will introduce it within two to three weeks.

 

[Don_Joffe]

Be sure to private message me, when this website is created. Whats on this website?
Your own "DonJuan" page?
Im currently thinking of writing my own DJ Bible too.

 

[Kaine]

DeAngelo was not the inventor of ****y and Funny, he just brought it to everyones attention, and verbalised it.

The cause and effect was always there. It's like the earth was always round before people clued up on it.

When you can define something and discuss it, then others can emulate and improve it.

Speculator: Look forward to your work

Kaine

 

[Don_Joffe]

Kaine: I dont care what you say. DeAngelo created it, give the man credit where it is due.
Its like saying the game soccer was always their, someone had to invent it?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by Don_Joffe
Kaine: I dont care what you say. DeAngelo created it, give the man credit where it is due.
Its like saying the game soccer was always their, someone had to invent it?

people didn't play soccer before because it wasn't invented, but were no people ever ****y and funny in the history of the world? Heck, I know many people who don't read D'Angelo who are C&F.

Lol @ quoting yourself... kinda ironic the way you put down being ****y and then quote yourself arrogantly. Anyways to the original poster, your post seemed unconceivable to me. Perhaps it was just the wording. Were u just saying in a complicated way that certain things garner certain reactions? Cuz if so.... no sh!t sherlock

 

[Don_Joffe]

No no. Microphone friend, you are misunderstanding me.
The name ****y and Funny was invented by ANGELO.
When people were ****y and funny they never knew it was a DON JUAN TECHNIQUE, did they? Thanks to ANGELO , they now do.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

but like Shakespeare said....a rose is a rose by any other name

 

[BLUEox117]

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
but like Shakespeare said....a rose is a rose by any other name

thats not quited how it was it was more like
a rose would smell as sweet by any other name

 

[Microphone Fiend]

thank you Oprah

 

[alphawolfx]

it''s the attitude behind ****y & funny... when you have the attitude, it comes out naturally

it's called PLAYING

think about the Lion King (okay a little weird here but stay with me on this)

they're always playfighting and they get attracted to each other eventually...
so you're verbally playfighting... and you know how to playfight, you're a guy, just put it into words