My wife often condems people who cheat
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Phoenix_of_the_ashes
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Not really.
I dont know your wife, but lots of people condem things that they dont want happening to themselves, when they get into that particular position however they act differently.
I dont know your wife, but lots of people condem things that they dont want happening to themselves, when they get into that particular position however they act differently.
I think that I have already been cheated by her because of many things that Ive heard. Is it possible that she could have cheated on me before and yet condems men who cheat ? I never heard she to condem women who cheat, only men
Yep, she can rationalize herself as being the victim because it's evil men who cheat and women are powerless and thus can't be held responsible for their actions. Its a coping mechanism.
Next time she brings it up, mention that it takes two to tango and that both people are just as responsible. After she gives you the victim mentality response, ask her why she brings this up, why she thinks that men are the ones who are bad for cheating and if theres something she would like to tell you.
Next time she brings it up, mention that it takes two to tango and that both people are just as responsible. After she gives you the victim mentality response, ask her why she brings this up, why she thinks that men are the ones who are bad for cheating and if theres something she would like to tell you.
Francisco d'Anconia
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In a lot of instances people who are most vocal in denouncing something actually see that very thing within themselves and they can't stand it.
Just something to consider.
Just something to consider.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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Le Parisien
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Spot on man!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:
And this is SO true in many aspects of our everyday life.
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People tend to loathe what they themselves are guilty of.
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trajhenkhet02
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Actually the fact that she mentioned it guarantees nothing. Observe how she acts. That alone should speak volumes.
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How fvcking enlightening. Please share more with the rest of the class. Thrall us with your acumen.trajhenkhet02 said: