guywhoneedshelp said:
Snow, you got a point. Yea, I have my own stuff that works, but I'm saddened at the fact that some of these guys have no life and the popularity of this show has made more internet nerds who talk theory all day but rarely go out and make it happen.
I'm a good talker, I basically do have "My Method" drawing state from within living in my own reality. Certain advice is helpful. I talk to a lot of chicks about the community and the game and we mostly just laugh at the whole situation, which sadly is:
Guys talking about talking to chicks. Some of them only talk. Some of them are weird. Some of them like to help others. Some of them just post on here when they are bored at work. Some of them don't go out and sarge.
Yep I agree 100%...it is pretty sad which is why for awhile I was willing to meet up with MANY newbies to get them into the mix of things, which I ended up getting a few guys up and running. On the forum you have to filter through all the BS posts, KJs, time wasters, etc. This is mainly why I just post in my "journal" to give some value and whoever is ACTUALLY out there practicing they might find even just one thing of value in my journal and it might help them.
From meeting you seemed normal so it wasn't as bad...as opposed to some guys who are just SOCIALLY AWKWARD. It's sad but they need to really just get in there and transform themselves. I personally hang with one guy who was probably the most socially awkward of them all and now he's a REAL cool guy, who I enjoy hanging with.
Miguel said:
I think the thing is, there are really VERY few guys who go out and make this stuff work to begin with compared to the amount of guys who sit at home and don't do anything to get better.
I've met almost 50 guys in the community, whether it's hanging out a few times, introducing them and showing them what it's like ACTUALLY practicing infield, etc. Do you know I RARELY see some of these guys, many of them quit or just don't really go out anymore...I was shocked when I recently met two guys who I seen going out alot before, they hadn't gone out for a MONTH...I've also seen many people quit, especially if they don't have a wing.
Duffdog said:
If that isn't one of the best quotes ever on this site, I don't know what is. Just think, before there were PUA's, cool guys got laid, now that the world is full of PUA's, cool guys STILL get laid. There are still girls hanging off their arm because the girls WANT to be there, not because they got tricked with some lines or game. BTW-- that is the only reason that any of the hosts on the pick up artist show have anything going for them...they can always fall back on their looks or their $$$ while the average guy cannot. In my opinion, its complete BS and fake.
I wouldn't say mystery's crew is complete BS...but as far as the cool guy thing goes, it all comes down to that. I'm always out and the HOTTEST chicks, more times than not are with some "Unreactive" dude and she is just having her own fun as he chills there...I'm like the social maniac always trying to go in there and take there girls, because those are the chicks I want.
Most of the time you don't see the community guys with the HOTTEST women in the venue. I'm not always with the hottest chick in the venue and I usually always leave a set to go for the hotter chicks.