My Top, No.1 oneitis from 10 years ago seems to be motioning for something

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Wait you sound white knight here - how did I insult her exactly? asking a girl for clarity as to why after 10 years she contacted me?
"I don't date girls over 30" omg!!!! don't assualt that women that literally cheated on behind my back =
The ultimate slight to the tribe (ala I found another strong tribe leader and ****ed him when you were hunting, so I don't need you now)

But like I said, as luck had it we were literally meters from each other 2 hrs later, her trying to my attention = look at her actions not her words.
Let's be honest here, everybody - you included - knew exactly why a woman contacted you out of the blue after 10 years without the need to ask her. The act of asking her itself was not meant to get the answer (because you already knew it), but to made her look inferior aka a butthurt move.

White knight? Me? Well if the thought makes you happy then keep it.
 

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but to made her look inferior aka a butthurt move.
Doesn't really matter, she contacted me so she wants sex:
- therefore anything I say will be funny and positive. Until I am not needed in her imagination I will be bulletproof and literally casanova.
- When I am not needed I will suddenly have the smallest penis ever and a big regret.
- women psychology 101
 

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Doesn't really matter, she contacted me so she wants sex:
- therefore anything I say will be funny and positive.
Unfortunately, it isn't.

The bolded part proved you don't understand women as much as you think you do.

You tried to brand her a cheating slvt through your text. And do you know what most women fear the most? They fear of being branded as cheating slvts (no matter if they really are cheating slvts or not).
 

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Unfortunately, it isn't.

The bolded part proved you don't understand women as much as you think you do.

You tried to brand her a cheating slvt through your text. And do you know what most women fear the most? They fear of being branded as cheating slvts (no matter if they really are cheating slvts or not).
Well no, she's confirmed it and branded herself through action... 10 years ago. Her fears and feelz are her problem.
 

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Actually I think deep down I just wanted the satisfaction of ****ing her once, making her cheat on the guy she cheated on me with - "AWW you're jealous I found someone better" I believe is what she said back in 2011 upon branch swinging.
How Ironic lol she wants me now

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this message was this morning ("followed you" on instagram )-2 hrs later I was sitting in my car at the park and she pulls up 2 cars down taking her kids to play (no hubby around), I deliberately ignored her just to twist the knife knowing she is not happy and playing dumb, but wants my love again.
She just wanted to be a civilized adult by adding her ex to Instragram.
 

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Her value has dropped significantly and continues to decrease. Your value has significantly increased and continues to increase.

Get used to this. You will find women that you couldn’t get or couldn’t keep, you now can.

But choose wisely.

You did not mention if she is divorced. If she divorced, it means she cannot keep her man. If she didn’t divorce, then do you really intend to make her your woman and take care of her kids?

Des’ high score theory comes into play here, I think. But I think you have better options than this girl. Escalate if you want, but I would not spend much effort in this one.

Good luck!
Based on what? Just cause a man gets older doesn't mean his value has increased. He has to have actually DONE something to cause this to happen.

Not saying this isn't the case with OP, but based on the details he has provided, there is no way you can conclude this.
 

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Yep - 100% confirmed Alpha widow,, 10 years on she still thinks about me, lol ha

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Be careful with that itch that you want to scratch. They can start to bleed very quickly.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I don't know... It seems like to me, that she's just throwing you a bone to not hurt your feelings.
Throwing a bone after a decade on earth to an old lover after marrying and having three kids is quite a stretch, but thanks for your opinion.
 
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