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Section V: Gender Differences
5A. Primary Social Support
Men and Women are from the same planet, but different social galaxies. Men are 40% more likely to use marriage as the primary social support than women. (Simon). Men are 21% less likely to use friends as the primary social support than women. Finally, men are 6% more likely to have no social support than women.
Bottom line, you'll likely have more invested and to loose in the event of a breakup or divorce.
5B. Importance of marriage/relationships
Divorce doubles the suicide rate in men but does not affect the already lower suicide rate of women. (Simon).
Bottom line, statistically, is that divorce or breakup will hurt you more than it will her. Men place more value on a relationship than women do no matter what the fairy tales might suggest.
5C. Government Give mes
Subsidized housing is mainly available to people with medical conditions or those who have children. Housing can be obtained for 90$ per month or less. Additionally, those with children recieve much larger income tax returns, able to recieve medical assistance, and a variety of other benefits.
Men should bear in mind that divorce can cost maintennace, child support, require one to carry medical insurance on a minor, and a host of other expenses. In the event of a divorce, it will likely cost you money and make her money. Therefore, it is often profitable for a female to seek divorce. Especially, considering the government give mes that are available post divorce. Please keep this in mind before deciding if marriage or if having children is right for you. Currently, I do not believe men are given a fair shake in either of these arrangements. I recommend avoiding marriage. I am wholeheartingly recommending that you abstain from having children. No matter how much you love her now, you'll hate her 10x as much when 20+% of your check goes to child support. You must become the master of your own emotions. You must abstain from doing the dumbest thing a man can ever decide to do, having children. You'll be more akin to Don Knotts than Don Juan when you have to shop at the Salvation Army.
Section VI: Beware of the eternal theorist and naysayers
Do not become the eternal theorist. Get out there and try this stuff. Be the empirist, not the theorist! You'll learn a lot more this way!
Ignore negativity. There is not much constructive criticing that will help you here. Women often say things out of spite that may not even be true. Accept compliments but tend to ignore negativity unless it is coming from multiple, non-angered sources.
Keep moving forward no matter what! Do not let naysayers on this forum become an excuse for you to stop trying. Misery loves company.
Section VII: Job Outlook
7A. What you do matters as much as what you take home
Never pass up self-improvement for short term monetary gains. Yes, being a garbage man pays better than being a college student. However, any respectful woman will choose a college educated man over the dump truck rider assuming all other factors are nearly equal.
Women are very interested by a man whose had a quality education both in terms of formal training and experience. You'll be more likely to captivate an audience discussing your volunteer work in Costa Rica than you will explaining how you spent a decade in the Sewer and Septic industry, you craphead!
7B. Take a Job that Furthers you as a Don
Take a job that allows you to learn about diet, exercise, or anything beneficial to being a DJ. Don't give up a phat bank for this, but if you're out of a job consider a gym, a bouncer, a bartender, or anything women tend to think is cool. You'll likely feel better about yourself as well, furthering the benefit of such a job.
Section VIII: The Tools of the Trade
8A. Proper Phone Tools
You absolutely must have a cell phone to be reached when traveling from girl to girl. Some women will get PO'd when you don't answer. O, well. You can also claim that someone is your sister, cusin, etc. In this way you can have short conversations without getting busted. Most of the time your refusal to answer will not generate a breakup. She'll act mad but she won't dump you. Just ignore it and keep doing your thing. A cell phone is an absolute must. Text message to avoid getting busted by your other girlfriends if no better idea spourts in your mind.
8B. A Quality Travel Kit
Your travel kit may include: Nose hair clippers, fingernail/townail clippers, a toothbrush and toothpaste, dental floss, condoms, a dental dam if you're seeing a hooker or anyone really nasty, small sized shaving cream can, a good razor, a few bandaids (just in case), neosporin, a porno (hey, sometimes you can get a lady to watch one and use it as an excuse to start touching, test her by joking about watching one first), morning after pill (well, I don't have one yet!), backup battery for your phone or at least a car charger, breath mints/gum, very strong pepper spray or stun gun in case an x/unknown bf appears, and a small, digital camera to document your conquests if you're into that sort of thing.
I've never tried whipping out a sex toy, but there is some gags that might help stir her interest. One I saw recently is a mold that forms over the man's penis. This way she can enjoy you even when you're gone. I suppose one might try an "Action Date".by whipping this or a sex game out. Again, just a little theory for you, and I know this site is already way too long on bizzare theories.
If you do the things listed here, you'll get women, friends, and self respect. Take it from a guy who used to be the bigger loser in the dating world, it's never too late to change.
Live Long and Prosper,
The Hero
Resources:
1. The Harvard Medical School Guide to Men's Health. Harvey B. Simon, MD. 2002.
2. How to Talk to Women. Ron Louis and David Copeland. 2002.
5A. Primary Social Support
Men and Women are from the same planet, but different social galaxies. Men are 40% more likely to use marriage as the primary social support than women. (Simon). Men are 21% less likely to use friends as the primary social support than women. Finally, men are 6% more likely to have no social support than women.
Bottom line, you'll likely have more invested and to loose in the event of a breakup or divorce.
5B. Importance of marriage/relationships
Divorce doubles the suicide rate in men but does not affect the already lower suicide rate of women. (Simon).
Bottom line, statistically, is that divorce or breakup will hurt you more than it will her. Men place more value on a relationship than women do no matter what the fairy tales might suggest.
5C. Government Give mes
Subsidized housing is mainly available to people with medical conditions or those who have children. Housing can be obtained for 90$ per month or less. Additionally, those with children recieve much larger income tax returns, able to recieve medical assistance, and a variety of other benefits.
Men should bear in mind that divorce can cost maintennace, child support, require one to carry medical insurance on a minor, and a host of other expenses. In the event of a divorce, it will likely cost you money and make her money. Therefore, it is often profitable for a female to seek divorce. Especially, considering the government give mes that are available post divorce. Please keep this in mind before deciding if marriage or if having children is right for you. Currently, I do not believe men are given a fair shake in either of these arrangements. I recommend avoiding marriage. I am wholeheartingly recommending that you abstain from having children. No matter how much you love her now, you'll hate her 10x as much when 20+% of your check goes to child support. You must become the master of your own emotions. You must abstain from doing the dumbest thing a man can ever decide to do, having children. You'll be more akin to Don Knotts than Don Juan when you have to shop at the Salvation Army.
Section VI: Beware of the eternal theorist and naysayers
Do not become the eternal theorist. Get out there and try this stuff. Be the empirist, not the theorist! You'll learn a lot more this way!
Ignore negativity. There is not much constructive criticing that will help you here. Women often say things out of spite that may not even be true. Accept compliments but tend to ignore negativity unless it is coming from multiple, non-angered sources.
Keep moving forward no matter what! Do not let naysayers on this forum become an excuse for you to stop trying. Misery loves company.
Section VII: Job Outlook
7A. What you do matters as much as what you take home
Never pass up self-improvement for short term monetary gains. Yes, being a garbage man pays better than being a college student. However, any respectful woman will choose a college educated man over the dump truck rider assuming all other factors are nearly equal.
Women are very interested by a man whose had a quality education both in terms of formal training and experience. You'll be more likely to captivate an audience discussing your volunteer work in Costa Rica than you will explaining how you spent a decade in the Sewer and Septic industry, you craphead!
7B. Take a Job that Furthers you as a Don
Take a job that allows you to learn about diet, exercise, or anything beneficial to being a DJ. Don't give up a phat bank for this, but if you're out of a job consider a gym, a bouncer, a bartender, or anything women tend to think is cool. You'll likely feel better about yourself as well, furthering the benefit of such a job.
Section VIII: The Tools of the Trade
8A. Proper Phone Tools
You absolutely must have a cell phone to be reached when traveling from girl to girl. Some women will get PO'd when you don't answer. O, well. You can also claim that someone is your sister, cusin, etc. In this way you can have short conversations without getting busted. Most of the time your refusal to answer will not generate a breakup. She'll act mad but she won't dump you. Just ignore it and keep doing your thing. A cell phone is an absolute must. Text message to avoid getting busted by your other girlfriends if no better idea spourts in your mind.
8B. A Quality Travel Kit
Your travel kit may include: Nose hair clippers, fingernail/townail clippers, a toothbrush and toothpaste, dental floss, condoms, a dental dam if you're seeing a hooker or anyone really nasty, small sized shaving cream can, a good razor, a few bandaids (just in case), neosporin, a porno (hey, sometimes you can get a lady to watch one and use it as an excuse to start touching, test her by joking about watching one first), morning after pill (well, I don't have one yet!), backup battery for your phone or at least a car charger, breath mints/gum, very strong pepper spray or stun gun in case an x/unknown bf appears, and a small, digital camera to document your conquests if you're into that sort of thing.
I've never tried whipping out a sex toy, but there is some gags that might help stir her interest. One I saw recently is a mold that forms over the man's penis. This way she can enjoy you even when you're gone. I suppose one might try an "Action Date".by whipping this or a sex game out. Again, just a little theory for you, and I know this site is already way too long on bizzare theories.
If you do the things listed here, you'll get women, friends, and self respect. Take it from a guy who used to be the bigger loser in the dating world, it's never too late to change.
Live Long and Prosper,
The Hero
Resources:
1. The Harvard Medical School Guide to Men's Health. Harvey B. Simon, MD. 2002.
2. How to Talk to Women. Ron Louis and David Copeland. 2002.