My theory about attractive women having sex regularly is up in the air

[edger]

I've been meaning to mention this. That British chick I semi hooked up with last month told me her friend(who's hot by the way) who she was with that night, hadn't had sex in a year. I couldn't believe it, cause all this time I'm thinking, "hot women must be having sex all the time with different guys". Yeah, I know this is just one woman we're talking about here, that maybe this woman is just an exception to the rule, but it got me thinking. She told me her friend was very picky with whom she slept with. A question remains unanswered then; does this apply to most attractive women? Are most attractive woman like this woman? Or is she an exception? Any thoughts? Before she told me this, I was under the affirmation that practically all attractive women were getting sex by different men regularly. Now, I'm not so sure what to think. I've had quite a few hot women tell me in the past "it's been months since they've had sex", which I used to shrug off as bullsh*t. Now I'm thinking, perhaps they were telling the truth? I don't know.

I'm still going to stick to my beliefs that most attractive women are having sex regularly with different men. It's just hard to believe that it would take a f*ckin' year for them to cross paths with some player who sweeps them of their feet. Women are getting hit on constantly, no matter where they are.

 

[jophil28]

You are talking about human behavior. Female behavior. Female SEXUAL behavior in fact. There are NO assumptions about women and their sexaul activities which hold absolutely, or even predictably.

Hot women do not automatically have sex just because they are approached frequently just as wealthy men do not automatically spend money just because someone asks them to open their wallet.

Edger, you have adopted a lot of unfounded assumptions about women. Some are rooted in misinformation from wannabe experts on this forum, and some are fool ideas from the PUA clan. Still other are notions that you made you own along the way.
There are NO hard and fast "rules' when it comes to woman and their sexuality. Some will fuk you on the first date and turn into an a obsessed stalker . The next girl will diss you or not return you calls because she thinks of you as "creepy" or does not like your "attitude" ..

This ain't science, dude, it is ultimately just a random experiment which produces the desired result often enough to reinforce our desire for continued involvement..

 

[Jitterbug]

Many hot chicks don't get laid that often, but they get enough attention daily that they don't really need sex. It can dull their needs for men sexually, kinda like how if a guy watches too much porn, he doesn't really feel the drive to get laid.

Some of them also have low libido.

Like jophil said, they aren't all the same.

 

[Ballie]

That British chick I semi hooked up with last month told me her friend(who's hot by the way) who she was with that night, hadn't had sex in a year.

A couple of thoughts about this.

1) Don't believe what a woman says.
2) Woman lie to each other and they don't want to admit their inherent
slvtty nature to each other.
3) Maybe she hasn't been in a serious relationship for a year - the occasional
ONS while she was drunk doesn't count!
4) I also find it hard to believe because they can get it when they want and
99% of the time with who they want (If they hot enough). Temptation is
there for them also.
5) But maybe, she is recovering from a serious loss, like my GF who is a
widow, and genuinely hasn't had it for a year. But when she does:yes:

 

[jonwon]

I've been meaning to mention this. That British chick I semi hooked up with last month told me her friend(who's hot by the way) who she was with that night, hadn't had sex in a year. I couldn't believe it, cause all this time I'm thinking, "hot women must be having sex all the time with different guys". Yeah, I know this is just one woman we're talking about here, that maybe this woman is just an exception to the rule, but it got me thinking. She told me her friend was very picky with whom she slept with. A question remains unanswered then; does this apply to most attractive women? Are most attractive woman like this woman? Or is she an exception? Any thoughts? Before she told me this, I was under the affirmation that practically all attractive women were getting sex by different men regularly. Now, I'm not so sure what to think. I've had quite a few hot women tell me in the past "it's been months since they've had sex", which I used to shrug off as bullsh*t. Now I'm thinking, perhaps they were telling the truth? I don't know.

I'm still going to stick to my beliefs that most attractive women are having sex regularly with different men. It's just hard to believe that it would take a f*ckin' year for them to cross paths with some player who sweeps them of their feet. Women are getting hit on constantly, no matter where they are.

I just want to add to the excellent replies in the thread.

It is true that hot women can go a very long time without sex.

My current GF went 8 months without sex, When I asked her "how long has it been" - She told me full of 'pride' "its been 8months".

You see to a guy, stating you haven't had sex for 8 months will be met with ridicule. Society expects men to fuc* plenty and, often. Woo be the man with a low sex drive who prefers to do other things with his time.

Girls also have to cope with negative stigma associated with sex. Yes we are all aware of the loose slappers about and I am sure most guys here have had their fair share of them. But normal girls face some form of verbal for being loose; labelled such things like: sla*, whor*, local bike e.t.c

You see there are many different girls out there - Some girls like the one I am currently dating could go on holiday to a sun drenched place full of hot studs - with a bunch of her friends (she has done this on 4 occasions, with my blessing) and the only thing on the agenda is to have some fun, that does not include sex. You see to these girls sex is not on the cards, oh they will banter and have some fun with guys - but that's as far as it goes. If one of those girls slept with a guy, you can believe 100% the other girls will be talking about her for months, and none of it good.

Girls can lose friendships by being loose, or change the opinion of their group think by one loose act.

Men have no such stigma, a man can sleep with many girls and be slapped on the back for his success and accomplishment, he can become something of the 'pack leader' by having multiple choices with women.

Hot girls do get approached, but they don’t always want to fuc* -


This is why there are such things like:

Bitc* shield
Last minute freeze out
Ball teasing
Blue balling

And men have worked out theories to get around those.

Women love sex don’t get me wrong, but I believe they don’t need it anywhere near has much as we do. But and this is a big BUT... When a women get's comfortable with a man, the comfort zone and I mean 'real comfort zone' it is like her hidden whor* is fighting to be released.

Part of the comfort is establishing a frame where you’re not going to judge the women on what she does in the bedroom - For example, women will do almost anything in the bedroom as long has she knows no one but you and her will know about it.

Women love discretion, hence another reason why even the good girl could be fabricating her lay's, to help prevent her from being branded with social stigma.

It is not uncommon though to meet girls out in the field who have not had sex in a very long time - To be honest about it, I find it the norm, still it does not stop one from sleeping with them the first night, if you can establish comfort and attraction.

Most girls just want a BF, not necessarily SEX per say.

I’ve had plenty of one night stands, more then I can count tbh about it – but a good % of those, the girls wanted more, then simply Sex.

Hence why you see threads on here on ‘What’s the best way to make an exit after sex’.

Look at that from a girls point of view, like the one described who has not had sex for a long time, to that type of girl, this is another reason why she won’t just spread her legs, she is probably looking for a BF and in the past has probably had some Alpha Stud walk out on her after the first hump. A guy she really liked, but knew he was only after her for sex.

Also one of the largest reasons: Women get pregnent, the condom breaks, he cums inside her. Men do not have to worry about these problems, yes society ropes a man in to care for a kid - But imagine your a girl in a club, some guy comes up, you dont know him from Adam - He could be telling you all sorts of shi* - You take him home, you have sex - two weeks later, you found your pregnent, the number the guy gave you was wrong and you have about has much chance of tracking him down as trying to find a needle in a haystack -

All these things are on a womens mind when it comes to sex.

To a man it's simply about putting dic* inside hole and ramming it in till you both come in pleasure.

Sadly for women it is not that simple.

You can know if a women is a loose girl by finding out if she is on the pill and she does not have a BF - That is usually the number one indicator of a girl who you can fuc*, walk out on and not worry about again.

When medical advances improve and men can get injections to stop them inpregnating girls, I predict an increased % of girls will spread them.

Edit:

One last thing I believe women on average have more sexual partners then men on average. Simply because women have more of an access to it.

Average men, will have around 4-6 partners, Average women will have around 10-12. Average is based on the the population has a whole.

 

[Tazman]

I think pretty women lie.

 

[zekko]

many of them WILL be having sex with the hot guy they met. It wasn't their "fault", they were drinking, having fun and it just sort of happened.?

Seriously, can someone explain to me why a guy can be convicted of rape if the woman he had sex with was drunk? Even if he was drunk too?

 

[Ziniath]

Ultimately, you're beliefs are not based on anything that is real. You've just chosen to believe something, because you've chosen to believe something.

Don't forget that you can change your opinion at any time.

The question I would ask you is this: is this belief empowering, or disempowering not only me, but my experience of hot women.

If your belief is preventing you from having any sort of empowering interaction with hot women, I'd change it quick smart, with an understanding that you are simply a student of this world, not he who knows all.

I don't say this to criticize you in any manner, I'm just offering you an alternative perspective.

I choose to believe that women love sex, and enjoy every aspect of it - simply because choosing to believe that is empowering for me and the women I interact with.

Whether or not they have lots of sex, or no sex, has nothing to do with how I am around them.

They are women, and they are beautiful: another belief that has served me well.

When it stops serving me well, I will simply change it, since none of my beliefs are really based on cold hard facts anyway.

 

[jophil28]

Seriously, can someone explain to me why a guy can be convicted of rape if the woman he had sex with was drunk? Even if he was drunk too?

It goes something like this. The law is sympathetic to a woman who gets drunk and then cries rape because, in a state of intoxication, she is not able to make a rational or informed choice or give or withhold 'consent' .
Ergo, the guy is held to account for having sex with her in that 'impaired' state.
The fact that she consumed liquor in copious amounts and poured each and every drink down her own throat appears to be irrelevant.
Of course, if they had been drinking together,the arguement that he was similarly impaired and therefore in no fit state to exercise restraint is unlikely to fly.

Yes, another example of how the law 'protects' women and punishes men for equivalent behavior.

 

[zekko]

I choose to believe that women love sex, and enjoy every aspect of it - simply because choosing to believe that is empowering for me and the women I interact with.

See, I think that's a key point, and the way it is with a lot of the advice here. Having confidence, for example, or believing you are the studliest guy on the planet, gives you the power to act in a certain way that can help you with women. It doesn't matter really if it's true or not. What matters if what kind of effect believing that has on you, and your interactions.

Aside from that, I've found most women do enjoy sex. I don't know about every aspect of it though - some are into doing things that others might not enjoy experimenting with, for instance. But that's getting into another topic.

The fact that she consumed liquor in copious amounts and poured each and every drink down her own throat appears to be irrelevant.

I will never understand this law.
I would almost think that this line of thinking would be demeaning to feminists. It basically places a woman at the level of a little child, who is totally unable to be responsible for her own behavior. Can you imagine if this were prosecuted every time a woman went home with a guy from a bar and had sex? How many times a day do you suppose this happens?

 

[Leisure Suit Larry]

I had a girlfriend once and she was very attractive. She told me I was her first lay in 8 months. She had just gotten divorced and she was "finding herself".

I believe it because she was in pain the first time we did it. So it's possible I guess. Not all girls are sluts but it is starting to seem that way.

 

[The Muscle Expert]

I wouldn't put too much stock into what a woman says.

She told her friend that she hasn't f*cked in a year because she doesn't want to look like a slut. Even in this day and age, a woman isn't going to disclose all her sexual escapades. Sex and the city is tv show, not real life.

If she isn't f*cked up, as in sexually molested in her past, she is getting a lot of sex.

If she is as hot as you say she is... She has a good looking stud to sex her up, maybe even 2, and a guy with money to buy her sh*t.

 

[backbreaker]

I think everyone has completed missed a very intersting dynamic.

say I go to the bar with a guy and a girl.

I ask the guy when was the last time he got laid.

it's been a year he says.

the first thing I would ask is "damn.. what's wrong? you okay? or at the very least think man something must be going on to where you can't have sex in your life.

I ask the girl, when was the last time you had sex, and she says 1 year. the first thing that compeltly pops in my mind is the polar opposite. SHE'S NOT A *****! rather she is or isn't doesn't matter, but my original perception is that she is a good personf or not ****ing once a week or more, yet the guy is not being normal by not ****ing once or week or more.

interesting.

 

[muscleman]

Maybe the 17x testosterone difference has something to do with it.

Last girl I dated (by far the hottest I've slept with) told me it's been 5 months since her last time after we finished. I didn't ask, she just blurted it out.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

You guys should stop watching sex in the city.

Most people, regardless of their attraction level, don't get laid nearly as often as you think.

 

[Nutz]

I'd wager the friend doesn't know about her friend's exploits as well as she thinks she does. I've been involved with women and their friends had no idea and thought she was still in a dry spell. I knew better and I wouldn't be the least bit surprised that year long dry spell is punctuated with a few one night stands or guy friends here or there that "didn't count".

I will say that age and circumstance also affects how often they're getting laid too. If they're in college and hitting the bars every week they're getting ran though several times a week, including the once in a while group sex. I know because I have friends in a college town that are GOOD PUAs and get laid all the time. Between the handful of them they've nailed just about every HB 7+ in the 18-23 age group at the University of Maryland. It's gotten to the point that they're so good that they're having repeats and banging each other's old exploits they've ran through so many of the girls. The only time things sort of reset is when the new school year starts and they have fresh meat to nail. We went to the local club down there after a lair workshop and the guys were constantly being barraged by HB 7+ and litereally every one of the decent and hot girls there had banged one of the guys with me. It's gotten to the point I don't go out down there anymore because of that.

Anyway, my point is taht all those chicks ARE banging guys, even the AFCs, douchbags, and naturals. This idea hot college girls aren't getting laid for months or up to a year at a time is foolish. Once they leave that environment then maybe things slow down as they don't have a steady stream of c0cks to suck, but I wouldn't doubt the orbiters and guys they meet through work and friends really slows them down all that much.

 

[Jitterbug]

Don't think we're talking exclusively about hot college girls.

 

[Warrior74]

Who The Fvck Cares!

Some women are Slvts, some aren't. Christchurch, common sense just isn't so fvcking common isn't it. A theory is gonna cover some, and not cover others. This is SS MM Mental Wankery at it's finest.