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See, I know you guys think I like to complain, but here it is.

It is a Quality vs Quantity issue

Neg hitting, acting aloof, tearing down a ***** sheild. All this stuff you talk of, will attract women, but it will attract the needy insecure types who neeed constant attention.

Think about it

If you neg hit a girl, and it works, what is really going on, you just dissed a girl, and now she feels she needs to get your attention back

That should be a huge red flag to any DJ. It says many things about her

I am insecure
I need the approval of other people
I need to be the center of attention

Geeze, sounds like the Female version of the AFC.

Neg hit a confident quality women, and you will get either some playul banter back or she will blow you off and think you are a jerk

I know, I know, if a girl blows you off, she is a bytch, if a guy blows offf a girl he is a DJ

Kind of the same way if I nail 12 guys I am a sluuuut and a guy that nails 12 girls is a stud.

But lets remember name calling stems from jealously and insecurity.

Guys only call girls sluts because she ****s everyone but him.
And if you call a girl that you bang a slut, that really doesn't say much about you.

The other thing I like is when guys say I only would nail you because you are easy....Hmmmmm.....is that so....you need to stoop to a slut in order to get laid? Arent you DJ skills up to par yet? Is your self esteem that low? or cant you land a more "ladylike" women?
 

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Originally posted by tseluca
See, I know you guys think I like to complain, but here it is.

It is a Quality vs Quantity issue

Neg hitting, acting aloof, tearing down a ***** sheild. All this stuff you talk of, will attract women, but it will attract the needy insecure types who neeed constant attention.

Think about it

If you neg hit a girl, and it works, what is really going on, you just dissed a girl, and now she feels she needs to get your attention back

That should be a huge red flag to any DJ. It says many things about her

I am insecure
I need the approval of other people
I need to be the center of attention

Geeze, sounds like the Female version of the AFC.

Neg hit a confident quality women, and you will get either some playul banter back or she will blow you off and think you are a jerk
duh, there is your answer. i am in the lookout for the confident type with the playful banter.




The other thing I like is when guys say I only would nail you because you are easy....Hmmmmm.....is that so....you need to stoop to a slut in order to get laid? Arent you DJ skills up to par yet? Is your self esteem that low? or cant you land a more "ladylike" women?
You dont get it do you. we like to fvck for the sake of fvcking. the worst piece of pvssy i ever had was good.

get it. cvmming feels good, really good no love needed.

duh
 

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Originally posted by tseluca
See, I know you guys think I like to complain, but here it is.

It is a Quality vs Quantity issue

Neg hitting, acting aloof, tearing down a ***** sheild. All this stuff you talk of, will attract women, but it will attract the needy insecure types who neeed constant attention.

Think about it


what you don't understand is that we expect women to be insecure. That is just how women are.

That is infact how your are as well. You might try to act secure and all strong, but in the end girls like you have a bi-tch shield too.

If you neg hit a girl, and it works, what is really going on, you just dissed a girl, and now she feels she needs to get your attention back

That should be a huge red flag to any DJ. It says many things about her
if it works and all he is interested in is sex then that is all that maters. If on the other hand he wants an LTR a DJ simply NEXTs usless women like that.

I am insecure
I need the approval of other people
I need to be the center of attention
yes you are that is why you are on this forum

Geeze, sounds like the Female version of the AFC.
Women like you infact AFCs. If you were totally confident with men and your nature as a woman then you would have no need to be on this forum.

Neg hit a confident quality women, and you will get either some playul banter back or she will blow you off and think you are a jerk
A quality woman doesn't have to be confident at all. A quality woman is a traditional woman. She is

1. Accommodating
2. Respectful
3. Emotional
4. Nurturing
5. Insecure (perfectly normal for a woman)
6. Needs a man (doesn't just "want" a man)
7. Show faith in her man.

Confidence is not a quality that men look for in a woman. At least I don't anyway. A womans ability to show faith in her man is what makes her attractive. I'm the one with the confidence in the relationship. I'm the one that leads. She is the one that is my helper.

That is just the natural order of the sexes.

I know, I know, if a girl blows you off, she is a bytch, if a guy blows offf a girl he is a DJ
If a girl blows me off I have no reason to call her a bit-ch. A bit-ch is a woman that is cold and lacks respect. She is one that tries to use sex as a weapon.

Kind of the same way if I nail 12 guys I am a sluuuut and a guy that nails 12 girls is a stud.
A woman that nails 12 guys IS a slut. She is no damn good for an LTR.

But lets remember name calling stems from jealously and insecurity.
In other words you want to be a slut and get away with it too.

sounds like a shoplifter that hates being followed every time he walks into a store.

Guys only call girls sluts because she ****s everyone but him.
And if you call a girl that you bang a slut, that really doesn't say much about you.
Women don't have a problem with guys who bang many girls. They infact want a guy with experience. On the other hand, guys realize that a woman who sleeps around with many guys can't be trusted for an LTR. The reason why it is ok for a guy to sleep around is because women don't have a problem with it. They infact become attached to men with experience. As men we think logically about things.

Once a ***** always a *****.

1. S-luts are there to be fu-cked
2. Non-sluts are for LTRs.

It is that simple.


The other thing I like is when guys say I only would nail you because you are easy....Hmmmmm.....is that so....you need to stoop to a slut in order to get laid? Arent you DJ skills up to par yet? Is your self esteem that low? or cant you land a more "ladylike" women?
Again it would wrong to treat a respectfull woman like a slut.
 

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Kevin,

Just reread your post and listen to how silly it sounds.

Men by nature are insecure, if they werent,this place wouldn't be here, DJ's wouldnt be the minority, and dating advice wouldnt be a 1000000 dollar industry. Everyone has insecurities

Girls like sex for sex too

if a guy sleeps around, he is just as bad as any girl

See the reason guys don't want a girl who is experienced is because he has a fragile ego. Yes, men try to hide it by saying they want a respectable woman and by calling her sluts, but the truth is he is "worried" about how he compares to the others she has been with

Do I measure up?
Did I last as Long?
These are the things that run through his head
how man times have I heard was it good? what is the biggest you ever had? Shyt most girls fake orgasms so you guys have a big head.

It is a full time position feeding the fragile male ego

guys are insecure when it comes to sex, do they want no competition

I guess if you were confident, you would have no need to be on this forum either, now would you. But let me guess, you are here to give advice....typical excuse

Men don't look for confidence in a woman, because men cant handle a confident women, they want some week insecure girl, that they can control. A real confident man would want a confident women, insecure guys want insecure women they can keep on a leash. We are being honest here, so tell it like it is Kevin.
 

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Originally posted by tseluca
Men by nature are insecure, Everyone has insecurities
correction, men and women. like you said everyone.


if a guy sleeps around, he is just as bad as any girl
no, men dont get pregnant. men dont need women to stick around to care for the kids.


See the reason guys don't want a girl who is experienced is because he has a fragile ego. Yes, men try to hide it by saying they want a respectable woman and by calling her sluts, but the truth is he is "worried" about how he compares to the others she has been with
we own the hose, you the hole. i don't want a public cvm toilet commonly called a slut.



Do I measure up?
Did I last as Long?
These are the things that run through his head
how man times have I heard was it good? what is the biggest you ever had?
correction, young boys think that. grown men careless what you think or if it was good for you. grown man only care if it was good for you if we love and care for you.



Shyt most girls fake orgasms so you guys have a big head.
no they fake because they are too stupid to enjoy the sex, they are too busy thinking if they are good enough or how they look. worst they think: is he going to call me after he cvms, i better fake it so he will call me.? they are too insecure to tell their man how to please her.



guys are insecure when it comes to sex, do they want no competition
correction, boys and women. men careless.



I guess if you were confident, you would have no need to be on this forum either, now would you. But let me guess, you are here to give advice....typical excuse
there are a lot of tricks here to catch my prey, yes women are the prey and a good cvm load on her face my reward.



Men don't look for confidence in a woman, because men cant handle a confident women, they want some week insecure girl, that they can control.
all women end up being the same, so why work hard for a confident woman to dump her after you shoot your load. duh
 

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Kevin....oooopppsss......I mean Kumar.......you are the same person right? He is just your evil twin

Anyway

Men don't need women around to care for the kids?

What the hell is that......any guy who didnt stick around is not by anymeans a man......besides he should be wearing protection

I see, men don't get pregnant, so that is a free pass to stick your dyck in anything with a hole.....Good point well taken.

And nor do I want a tainted dyck

Nothing turns a grown man into a little boy faster than a najked women

Women fake it because most men have no clue what the hell they are doing and therefore cant give her a real one.

Men are so insecure about it, therefore the mass selling of Viagra
Penis Pumps, and all other male enhancement products. You dont see this **** for women.


Ony AFC need tricks
 

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Originally posted by tseluca
Kevin,

Just reread your post and listen to how silly it sounds.

Men by nature are insecure, if they werent,this place wouldn't be here, DJ's wouldnt be the minority, and dating advice wouldnt be a 1000000 dollar industry. Everyone has insecurities



Yes you are correct that everyone has insecurities. But men who strive to be Real men ignore the feminising culture that is proliferated by the media. AFCism is a result of all the lies that guys are told regarding "What women want".

A real man is at one with himself. Sex is not the source of his strength and power. It is his faith and convictions that lead him to success with all things in his life and that includes women.

Girls like sex for sex too
yes but many women use it to feel more secure about themselves. They are infact just as lost as many of the AFCs out there.

if a guy sleeps around, he is just as bad as any girl
I agree with you. If you really think that then why do you say, "if they can do it why can't I?"

See the reason guys don't want a girl who is experienced is because he has a fragile ego.
As a woman it is your job to nurture your mans ego not destory it. Far too many women today fail to realize this. It should infact make a woman happy every time she gets the chance to act like a woman and nurture her mans ego. After all this is the guy she puts all her faith and trust in. Why would she want to destory him?

Yes, men try to hide it by saying they want a respectable woman and by calling her sluts, but the truth is he is "worried" about how he compares to the others she has been with

Do I measure up?
Did I last as Long?

These are the things that run through his head
These are the things that run through the mind of an AFC. A real man just filters out all the usless women and goes for what he wants. Why should a man put his trust in a woman that hasn't proven her worth? Relationships are about giving your heart to someone. With that said, why would a man risk giving his heart to a woman tha tis a slut? The strange thing is that women go for men like that all the time and that is why they always get screwed over. Women act on their emotions not their logical minds. You can only judge a woman by her actions because they are infact 99.9% of who she is.


how man times have I heard was it good? what is the biggest you ever had? Shyt most girls fake orgasms so you guys have a big head.
And that is your job. To nurture your mans ego.

It is a full time position feeding the fragile male ego
In other words you are selfish.

For a man, it is a full time position protecting and supporting a woman. It is also a full time position showing love for her and making her feel good about herself. For a man even cheering her up when she is down is a pleasure. Real men don't complain about this job and real women don't complain about boosting their mans ego. It is after all, the source of her protection and support. If a woman doesn't want that then she has no need for a man. No man in his right mind would stay with a woman like that.

There is nothing worse then a woman who complains about her man. It is a crime when a woman does nothing but damage a mans ego for her own selfish desires.


guys are insecure when it comes to sex, do they want no competition
This is exactly the kind fo thing that anyone with half a brain would try to avoid if they are serious in finding a long term relationship. You are right. I would want NO competition. I would never give a ring to a girl if there was competition. Her faith in me and love would have to be absolute.

I guess if you were confident, you would have no need to be on this forum either, now would you. But let me guess, you are here to give advice....typical excuse.
wrong, I am here to improve my life. This forum is a forum for the development of my success on all levels. Many guys like me need this forum to learn what it means to be a man (no thanks to society) No man can infact say that he is the best man. Stiving to be a real man is a constant struggle that lasts a lifetime.

Men don't look for confidence in a woman, because men cant handle a confident women, they want some week insecure girl, that they can control. A real confident man would want a confident women, insecure guys want insecure women they can keep on a leash. We are being honest here, so tell it like it is Kevin.
I did tell it like it was when I said, "Once a w-hore always a w-hore".

What men want in a woman is a woman that shows faith in him. There is nothing worse then a woman that complains about her man.

Men and women share different roles in a relationship. I'm not interested in fighting with a woman for power. If she triest to do that I just move on and go to a girl that will allow me to provide for her and protect her. That is what makes me happy. It has nothing to do with confidence.

There is only one thing to do with a gender bender and that is NEXT.
 

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So kevin answer me this

Why is a women a slvt and a man a stud wjen they sleep around?

Just a simple answer will do, but please make it logical

Not because women like men who sleep around, because most guys I know chase after tramps too....so please tell me
 

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I'd have to say women can get it anytime they want, whereas a guy has to be pretty damn good at it.
 

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Originally posted by tseluca
So kevin answer me this

Why is a women a slvt and a man a stud wjen they sleep around?

Just a simple answer will do, but please make it logical

Not because women like men who sleep around, because most guys I know chase after tramps too....so please tell me
ok a logical answer

A. A man is a stud because society says that he is
B. A woman is a slut because society says that she is.
C. People who are worth being in a relationship with. (non sluts or studs)

All As are Bs
No Cs are Bs
Therefore No Cs are As.
Therefore No As are Cs.

Therefore why try to be A or B if C is all that is worth your time?

Changing the name of A to B or B to A makes no difference because all As and Bs are not Cs.
 

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So, you are a slave to society

And since society is male dominated and men cant handle confident women, they brand them as slvts

makes perfect sense to me
 

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Originally posted by tseluca
So, you are a slave to society

And since society is male dominated and men cant handle confident women, they brand them as slvts

makes perfect sense to me

Who ever said women understand logic.

No what I said was C is all that is worth my time. C is not what society tries to make us out to be. Society tries to encurage us to be A or B and that is a lie

You are only a slave to society if you are A or B
 

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I dont see what the big deal is with girls that fukk alot...As long as her buisness isnt out in the street, she still carries herself nicely and she isnt burning I dont care...Most of the time dudes go on dates and do all of this sh1t just to fukk anyway or to get steady action...I mean, damn, girls have puzzies and men put dikks in them, thats what genitals are for...Plus nonconfident women arnt sexy because they arnt aware of themselves so they dont know how to turn men on other than their looks...I like girls who step their sh1t up and use their voice, body language, etc...Plus confident women know what they want and you can be all aggressive with them and they like it that way...
 

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Exactly

Guys come on here to learn tricks to get girls in bed, and as soon as he gets her in there he calls her a slut and says he dont want her

Talk about not knowing what you want
 

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Reagan

You want me to come over with a 9" strap on and bang you till it bleeds, because I think that is what you like
 

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stop trolling. like for real.

yes there are good, confident, worthy women out there who are not affected by negs, etc.

whats your point?

the majority of women are not those women, and the majority of guys on here just want to validate their insecure masculinity by getting laid.
 

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tseluca

why are you here?



is it for the attention?

if it is, yes, you will find lots of it here. there are a bunch of afc looking to heal here. this is like aa for an alcoholic and you look like a nice frosty cool brew for all the afcs here.

so why dont you just leave or just lurk besides pissing us off?
 
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