here is my story
im mixed not white so vary your advice accordingly lol
i just turned 18 in early october
i have never had a girlfriend i tried 2 times to get one(my friends got me to
talk to one of the girls over the phone)
1st girl: i was lets say "forcefully encouraged" to talk to since i liked her
for 3 years and never said anything even though i talked to her ever once in a
while. i kinda rambled on that and regret it she of course said no ( i was
depressed for a few months after that)
2nd girl: my friend's ex-girlfriend once again i was encouraged to talk to her
but this time over the phone. my friend told me the key to getting a girl is to
make her laugh so he gave me a list of things to ask her about and that worked
good for the first time. i had her laughin about 70 percent of the time pretty
good sense i have a sick sense of humor which only makes my friends laugh and
never girls. so last 2 times i called we talked for less then five minutes and
she would say she had to go. so i figured that this isnt going to work out so i
just didn't call back.
now i have been trying to talk to this girl on my bus(college) since mid
september. but i havent thought of what to say so im still kinda working on
that.
so thats my story im not much of a pimp or ladies man
im sick of the stereotype of just because im black i can get mad girls
and even i consider myself a little bit of a nerd
(programmer, video games, wrestling, etc)
but i do listen to rap and kinda dress like the average rapper
i just want to know what am i doing wrong
i while take helpful advice into consideration thanks in advance
im mixed not white so vary your advice accordingly lol
i just turned 18 in early october
i have never had a girlfriend i tried 2 times to get one(my friends got me to
talk to one of the girls over the phone)
1st girl: i was lets say "forcefully encouraged" to talk to since i liked her
for 3 years and never said anything even though i talked to her ever once in a
while. i kinda rambled on that and regret it she of course said no ( i was
depressed for a few months after that)
2nd girl: my friend's ex-girlfriend once again i was encouraged to talk to her
but this time over the phone. my friend told me the key to getting a girl is to
make her laugh so he gave me a list of things to ask her about and that worked
good for the first time. i had her laughin about 70 percent of the time pretty
good sense i have a sick sense of humor which only makes my friends laugh and
never girls. so last 2 times i called we talked for less then five minutes and
she would say she had to go. so i figured that this isnt going to work out so i
just didn't call back.
now i have been trying to talk to this girl on my bus(college) since mid
september. but i havent thought of what to say so im still kinda working on
that.
so thats my story im not much of a pimp or ladies man
im sick of the stereotype of just because im black i can get mad girls
and even i consider myself a little bit of a nerd
(programmer, video games, wrestling, etc)
but i do listen to rap and kinda dress like the average rapper
i just want to know what am i doing wrong
i while take helpful advice into consideration thanks in advance