I guess it solidifies what ive gone through.
You'll notice strength degradation if your in the gym. Scientifically complaining puts it on the forefront of your mind and it becomes something you focus on, or something always tugging at you slightly distracting you. Nearly impossible to be in the moment with such thoughts. Plus it affects your self image and energy. I gave you some things you can do while still shackled to her. But the sane and reasonable advice is to leave and cut ties.
I know. I appreciate it. Really.
Yes... To kerp saying it is literally bullshytting which is weakness. Almost like we're trying to convince ourselves or get enough outer approval which is still weakness. Alot of guys will get to the point of EVERYONE around thinks he should leave he hangs in losing respect from them and also his self image gets trashed.
While your in there. Ken doll it and fvck the shyt out of het while she's happy right now. But almost guaranteed she will be back at her pattern in the future.
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"Allowed guys to disrespect you"... She painted him as impotent compared to her "lovers".
Heres the thing im trying to come to terms with... this bar night she left was 16 years ago.
She's trying to rationalize her behavior (having sex with them) and frame it as "not cheating". I bet she even believes it too. Otherwise she wouldn't stick to her narrative for 1 1/2 decades.
I agree 100%. It sux that i have this person sleeping next to me and she still lies.... remember, she said she only has had sex with me and her college bf
Yeah, I wouldn't believe her anything at this point anyway. You should definitely start initiating the divorce process. Your life will be a living hell in a couple of months/years. This will eat right through your soul and be a chip on your shoulder. You won't even be able to make the right decisions in other areas of your life because of this.
Yes. It has tormented me.
Im trying to figure out what to do. Ive been in it for so long and havent really been able to talk this in depth with anyone albeit anon..
If I could see you in person right now I would punch you in the chest. Her past behavior has been dragged right into your marriage. It's not a thing of the past. You saw past symptoms of a past and current sickness. You can't let this go.
My buddiez cant believe it... ive talked to a few buddies i knew years ago when me and her were dating...
U r right. This has been this way for roughly 20 years... and ill be a senior citizen with this same mindset. I guess. Ive always hoped she would eventually come clean... and we could really start over
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Time is limited man. Don't you ask yourself and wonder what you could do instead hanging around this sh*tshow of a marriage? Just imagine traveling the world and seeing all the beaches, mountains, big cities and sexy women out there. She cuffed you and is now living a secure life. That can't be it man. If your wife would be the perfect partner - loyal and always by your side whatever decision you make - it would be a whole nother story. But she won't change, ever. You're 40. You're in your prime. Do something with it.
Yeh.. parents, sister, etc. Everyone tells me to put it aside... it was b4 marriage... u cant be mad at her. U wrent even dating.
Thank you
Im 43.
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