My situation

[PokerJohn94]

OK, I am with this 18 year old girl, and we have bean dating for a while. She has this ex, with whom she keeps really close contact (sends each chatter sms, meets in a dorm halls. basically he is a close friend of hers, which is driving me crazy). Like 2 weeks ago we broke up, and after 2 days, she got together with her ex, but she started to text my friends, that she is confused, why we both broke up (not the sharpest person I know), in a case, I had said anything to them, and I quote:"I don't want to lose him and bla bla bla". She wrote that while she was with her ex. After 2 days hers ex got a new girl, so it pissed my girl off, and they, of course, broke up. We got back together later, and today, after spending the night with me, she told me, that she was with her's ex, while we were taking a break. That ex boddered me before, and I told her, that I don't trust her with him, and it sure did turn out, that I was right. But now, we are again back together, and now I find out, that they are still keeping close contact. My first instinct is to dump the bi*ch, but the thing is,that I don't have that many women in my life. This was my first GF (I'm 18 years old), and alldoagh, I don't think of her as a LTR, I need someone, to practice with (to get better with girls), and I only got back with her, because I need someone to experiment with. I am keeping her as a backup, until something better comes along. What do you think about this situation of mine? Am I doing the right thing (as if the right thing for me of course, no the noble one .)

 

[PokerJohn94]

Seriously, nobody will help me out?

 

[jericg]

DUMP HER. Tell her that you don't want a relationship with her but she can be a friend so you can keep practicing. THEN chase other girls.

 

[yung-gun]

thats not a proper way to get experience
your gonna keep using her when she feels like shes using you
and then when you are done learning about women and let her go she will become crazy and try to get at you.
you get experience by doing new things. there are different women in the world.


just cut it off right now and leave her with her ex. that dude is gonna have a hell load of baggage that i dont think you want

 

[LearningSlowly]

Just because you dont have any other girls does NOT mean you should cling to her.

Just because you dont have any other girls does not mean you wont ever have more girls (you WILL, especially as you get older).

She sounds like an awful girl with no idea of what it means to be loyal.

 

[AlexLefty]

Options:

1. If you're having sex on a constant basis, stay with her and cheat.
2. " ", be honest with her and tell her u only want sex.
3. If you're not having sex, dump her, because there's nothing 2 be learned.

 

[santanna303]

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