Hi there,
I have just started dating this girl. In fact it was her who asked me out! Anyway I have been applying all these techniques I have learned from this site and others to ensure my success. Things have been working pretty well, however, according to her m8s boyfriend I am "not romantic enough". The reason he's said this is because he takes his girl out all the time, buys her gifts, compliments her, spends most of his time with her where as I do not with my girl. I bust on my girlfriend, tease her and have passionate sex with her and do not see her all the time, only at my convenience. However, this brings me to my question regarding romance (as Valentines day is fast approaching) do you think I should compete with this guy and suddenly take my girlfirend out far more and spend loadz on gifts or should I continue but with a reputation of not being romantic enough? The thing is I am very romantic in the bedroom department and thought that was fine enough. I guess valentines day presents an opportunity to do more, however, do you lot have any ideas for a great date? Typically it would be flowers, maybe another expensive gift, and going to a restaurant which I shall imagine everyone is doing.
I have just started dating this girl. In fact it was her who asked me out! Anyway I have been applying all these techniques I have learned from this site and others to ensure my success. Things have been working pretty well, however, according to her m8s boyfriend I am "not romantic enough". The reason he's said this is because he takes his girl out all the time, buys her gifts, compliments her, spends most of his time with her where as I do not with my girl. I bust on my girlfriend, tease her and have passionate sex with her and do not see her all the time, only at my convenience. However, this brings me to my question regarding romance (as Valentines day is fast approaching) do you think I should compete with this guy and suddenly take my girlfirend out far more and spend loadz on gifts or should I continue but with a reputation of not being romantic enough? The thing is I am very romantic in the bedroom department and thought that was fine enough. I guess valentines day presents an opportunity to do more, however, do you lot have any ideas for a great date? Typically it would be flowers, maybe another expensive gift, and going to a restaurant which I shall imagine everyone is doing.