My Sister Advises Me to be AFC...I Refuse

[Disturbed]

To refresh everyone's memory about my current situation. Where I work there is this girl that I like, but I have been receiving bad rap from the crowd there because of my behavior. From day 1 I entered the workplace as that ****y and confident guy that teased all the women that worked there. There has been mixed reactions about my behavior but it is usually the ones that get offended by it that complain the loudest. Since the group from work are closely-knit, they are inclined to respect the opinions of the others before mine. That is why I worry that the bad mouthing that is taking place will cause others (namely the girl that I like) to develop an aversion towards me. After posting about it in the forum, I decided to consult the alleged wisdom of my older sister. I tell her about my situation hoping that she would agree with me that this crowd was fu<ked up in the head. Instead, she tells me that I deserved the treatment that I am getting and my co-workers had every right to get offended by me. She told me to tone down my language and give the ladies there a little more respect. I foolishly decided to try out her advice effectively compromising the beliefs that I have adopted from this site. Unfortunately, it did not make me feel any better as I spent the time with the crowd being quiet and not saying anything. Since the crowd intentionally tries to leave me out of their discussions, it is difficult to interject when you can't criticise or act curious about what they say. I decided afterwards that my sister's advice was bullsh1t since I was feeling worthless afterwards. Now I am back to my old self, I don't get out of my own way to tease the girls and say as I please. If they are gonna hate me, I don't give a SH1T. I would rather have them feeling something for me (be it hatred or anger) than feeling nothing. By the way, I used to be that borderline person that nobody payed any attention to and this site has helped me to become someone that is capable of producing an effect on the people around him.

 

[Lost In Translation]

"My mama's talkin to me, tryin' to tell me how to live!"

Cheech Marin in Movie : UP IN SMOKE



Lost In Translation

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transcript from 20 minutes ago :

<Lost_In_Translation> so tell us about these south african chicks
<Derakal> wow
<Lost_In_Translation> isn't south africa dangerous ?
<Derakal> wow...
<Derakal> no!
<Derakal> not at all
<Lost_In_Translation> but what about the lions ?
<Derakal> omf
<Derakal> you serious?
<Lost_In_Translation> *joking*
<Lost_In_Translation>
<Derakal> lol
<Derakal> gave me fright there
<Lost_In_Translation> not as big a fright as when a lion chases you

 

[note.the.smoke]

you can't be all ****y and funny

that should just be a part of ur persona, used when need be. to gain full respect you must have an alround persona, try being freindly and a little bit more thoughtful... stringing together a few serious conversations might also help

 

[gargamel]

Sisters are bad advisors

My big sista wants her little bro to become an AFC..

.. Same here... I tried explaining a few DJ things I confirmed to be true... she couldn't quite get it.. So I always take her advice carefully... Sometimes she's right, many times NOT... She's all like, be honest, tell her how you feel, talk it out... they can't see things through our perspective and that's it!

Although, the third, oldest sister, she was quite a Donna Juanita in her own time... so she passed a few good ones on to me and understands quite well how the system works .. But she really is an exeption among their kind

 

[tmpgstx]

Girls will often give advice from the perspective that they're already in a relationship (which means supplication). Many guys getting advice from women get the wrong advice. It would be good if they're in a relationship, but many times they're seeking advice for just getting with a girl they're not even in a relationship with yet, but getting relationship advice!

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

Oh......haaa......this is a easy topic..

Most people have this assumption, that is everybody is saying it, that is must be true. And at times, I have felt like a total piece of ****, because guess, what....that is what EVERYBODY said I was.

So I did some research on myself, found myself, and I have discovered something, those people were all wrong.

The man who stands for nothing will fall for anything and everything under the sun. But the hardest part of that, is standing when the whole world is against you, kind of makes you want to bend in a little bit.

So here is the advice I must give to you fello.....are you a don juan? Are you naturally a don juan? Do you feel good being a don juan?

Then you naturally wont care if they like you, understand you, or gossip about you. Why you ask.................

BECAUSE I DONT NEED YA!!!