My secretary, I made a move. Is this a rejection?

[mrgoodstuff]

who gives a sh*t? I can replace her anytime. If she flakes on me or cancels for whatever shiet reason and then starts flirting and gaming again? F off man then she’s out duhhhhhh

Dude I do think it's a little unfair for you to take away her livelihood, her way and means to pay the bills & make ends meet, on the grounds that she rejected you.

Especially if she has a child.. That's a little harsh man!
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I don't think they should lose their job because they have no interest in the boss, that would be messing with the laws (EEOC). If one wants a woman where it's her actual job to please him get a hooker.

 

[TheGambino]

Dude I do think it's a little unfair for you to take away her livelihood, her way and means to pay the bills & make ends meet, on the grounds that she rejected you.

Especially if she has a child.. That's a little harsh man!

I don't think they should lose their job because they have no interest in the boss, that would be messing with the laws (EEOC). If one wants a woman where it's her actual job to please him get a hooker.
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lets assume that we have a good date, make out even have cex. Then see where it goes. If she flakes i keep her at the job but won’t accept more flirting and playing around.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

You have such a reactive personality. I don't see this going well.

 

[soulforge]

I mean the flirting is a two way thing here.. OP is or was enjoying it.. It's not like principaly OP is dead against flirting within his company.

If the flirting leads to op getting laid, then he would have been happy with the result.

The issue is, if she doesn't keep this date and bang the op, the she will be removed from her job.

I think that is highly unfair.. Woman flake all the time.. Woman flirt all the time.. You can't just take away a persons livelihood because you ain't getting laid by your female staff members.

OP should swallow his pride & ego and hold onto some principles.

He should advise her straightforward that he has decided that he is not interested in any type of relationship with her, other than a professional work related one.

He should then allow her to keep her job & and operate as professionals moving forward.

Business & pleasure always ends in a fukin mess.. OP should know this!

 

[soulforge]

Female worker flirts.. OP gets laid = Flirting Is Good.

Female worker flirts.. OP doesn't get laid = Flirting Is Bad.

 

[TheGambino]

You have such a reactive personality. I don't see this going well.

Explain? How can I be reactive as a succesfull business owner doing great things for the community? Reactive is simp ****, reactive people cant be ceos.

 

[TheGambino]

Female worker flirts.. OP gets laid = Flirting Is Good.

Female worker flirts.. OP doesn't get laid = Flirting Is Bad.

She does not flirt. She goes on her knees to cut a box then looks at me from down with big eyes for a long time with a messy dirty look like I want to unzipp your pants and suck my c1ck. I feel highly attracted toward her. How would u react? This goes on for months. I’ll keep her even if she flakes. But I won’t allow more flirting and teasing like this.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I mean the flirting is a two way thing here.. OP is or was enjoying it.. It's not like principaly OP is dead against flirting within his company.

If the flirting leads to op getting laid, then he would have been happy with the result.

The issue is, if she doesn't keep this date and bang the op, the she will be removed from her job.

I think that is highly unfair.. Woman flake all the time.. Woman flirt all the time.. You can't just take away a persons livelihood because you ain't getting laid by your female staff members.

OP should swallow his pride & ego and hold onto some principles.

He should advise her straightforward that he has decided that he is not interested in any type of relationship with her, other than a professional work related one.

He should then allow her to keep her job & and operate as professionals moving forward.

Business & pleasure always ends in a fukin mess.. OP should know this!

Just get a better female and have her visit you at the office.

 

[soulforge]

She does not flirt. She goes on her knees to cut a box then looks at me from down with big eyes for a long time with a messy dirty look like I want to unzipp your pants and suck my c1ck. I feel highly attracted toward her. How would u react? This goes on for months. I’ll keep her even if she flakes. But I won’t allow more flirting and teasing like this.

How would I react? I would have a conversation with her and ask her to tone it down.. However she could take offence to that & claim you are slandering her.

What I wouldn't do is... Try to fuk her & because she isn't feeling me & rejects me, out of anger and butt hurt, I sack her. Lol

 

[TheGambino]

How would I react? I would have a conversation with her and ask her to tone it down.. However she could take offence to that & claim you are slandering her.

What I wouldn't do is... Try to fuk her & because she isn't feeling me & rejects me, out of anger and butt hurt, I sack her. Lol

she agreed to meet me, told me im available Wednesday and Thursday so whatever you want and reacted happy.

so there’s no flake. If she flakes ill tone her down on flirting and distance myself.

 

[Knight of Roses]

Usually in this case she is just looking for attention. However, I’m not saying it can’t be done, but you got to play the long game. Don’t ask her out directly, rather play a group thing and then turn it up a notch there.
Remember, you’re the prize, she’s just another hot ***** that can be replaced.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She does not flirt. She goes on her knees to cut a box then looks at me from down with big eyes for a long time with a messy dirty look like I want to unzipp your pants and suck my c1ck. I feel highly attracted toward her. How would u react? This goes on for months. I’ll keep her even if she flakes. But I won’t allow more flirting and teasing like this.

Or you simply just have created what you want it to be in your own mind but it really doesn't mean anything...

That is also a possibility.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

How would I react? I would have a conversation with her and ask her to tone it down.. However she could take offence to that & claim you are slandering her.

What I wouldn't do is... Try to fuk her & because she isn't feeling me & rejects me, out of anger and butt hurt, I sack her. Lol

Women fvck us too.... So if she really wants it she'll make a sure she gets it. Just be safe.