My room mate this semester is gay

[becker]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
Dude are you Nuts? LIVE WITH THIS GUY. That has got to be the perfect roomate to have. he is probably clean, neat and orderly, but the most important thing is this - HE WONT COC K BLOCK YOU OR GET IN YOUR WAY WHEN IT COMES TO CHIKS. Ask anyone here thats been away at college and they will tell you that dealing with an AFC roomate(and there all AFC's) is a downright pain in the butt. Always gettin in the way, hatin, trying coc k block you, etc. If anhything, i would rather have a gay roomy than some random straight boy, with the likely hood that he'll be an annoying AFC near 100 percent.

This is a very good point. However, probably the downside is that in my experience, some gay guys can get *****y, and they start seeming like a naggy girl after a while, especially when you get their estrogen flowing or are having a PMS episode (only gay males have these).

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Screw it. I'm changing rooms."

LOL.

Carefull supreme,
you might just get what you don't really want.

The depression rate for incoming freshman at college is 15 %
You don't want that roomy.

Your gonna be pissed when you get some loser AFC who is coc kblocking your game, gettin in your way. or heck, what if you got a really great looking DJ roomy who wants to do nothing more than bang chiks that he or YOU finds? Try scoring with potentials with that in your room. Or some drunken frat boy. or some nerd that awakens at 7 am and goes to bed at 11. Im tellin you your gonna wish you were still in "Will and Grace" land with your old roomy. LOL I can see the future post now

"Help! My roomate is a coc k blocking AFC and i can't stop him"

 

[HeyPretty]

Plus, he might have some good advice on clothing and such.

Why not try it, and if you're not comfortable, then move? It might work out better than you think...

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by HeyPretty
Plus, he might have some good advice on clothing and such.

Why not try it, and if you're not comfortable, then move? It might work out better than you think...

I agree. What out supreme, Karma is a mother fuc ker. Your just asking for bad karma.

 

[lynx]

I can speak from experience. I've been living with a gay housemate for the last two years, and the guys is a pig, a drunk, and just plain nuts. Twice the landlord has allowed him to renew the lease. Luckily, the landlord has finally learned his lesson and is not going to let some crazy loonie like my housemate (I prefer that term because calling him roommate makes me sick) stay here anymore. Theoretically, gay guys are neat and have lots of female friends. Well, this guy is a pig and never cleans up and the only women who come over to see him are ugly ones. He leaves all kinds of unspeakable sh@t all over the place, so I always have to come to my place at least a half hour before I have some chick over to make sure the place is clean. I've told him to be clean, neat, and less noisy, and the guy accuses me of being anti-gay. The guy is worse than those fat screaming cows you see on Jerry Springer. Luckily, he stays in his room most of the time, but the guy is crazy, has emotional issues, and screams on the phone whenever he talks to his mom or boyfriends, etc. He's even fallen down the stairs three times from being drunk, and he's lucky to be alive. He even got into an argument with a cop about some jaywalking ticket, and I think the cop would have accepted an apology but my stupid housemate made the cop angry so the cop gave him a jaywalking ticket. Make sure you talk seriously with this gay roommate of yours and set some rules.

 

[princelydeeds]

Call me homophobic, but no waaaayyy in hell. I could be cool with the dude, I could be friendly with the guy and I could even change in front of the guy. But, the first time I come home and I see him cuddled up, kissing, or doing some other unspeakable act with a guy I'd be done. Home should be a place of comfort. no way in hell I could be comfy with gay stuff happening around me. Its annoying enough to deal with kissy, cuddling female girlfriends who come over 24/7. Dealing with gay guys just wouldn't be for me.

 

[Evil-Rom]

"Homosexuals are gay."

Saw that on a T-shirt.

 

[StrivetoThrive]

wow

There is some real ignorance going on in here im very suprised.

Listen, I havent had the experience of having a gay roomie, but I have hung out around gay people at some parties at school and whatnot and didnt really have a problem with it. Ill be the first to admit I did get a little weirded out when two dudes started making out or whatnot, but i mean its their decision Im not the one thats doing it. So my point here is that despite the fact that probably every guy on this site is straight, I wouldnt let the fact that your roommate is gay hinder your thinking. To me, thats just their lifestyle- plus there are prob some advantages to it.

Pluses-

1) No ****blocks- self explanatory

2) May bring in HB's- that could be good- plus while they might be "friends" with the gay roomie, they could be turned on by seeing the contrast in the room with your masculinity/straightness

3) I know its sterotypical somewhat- but he could be an "anal" clean/neat freak (no pun intended haha)


The only disadvantages I would see is that one night you stumble in drunk and he is engaged in sweaty butt sex with some other dude. I think I could get over it, but man- the imagery would be there for years As a matter of fact- one of my friends had a gay roomie but didnt really know it until one night there were two dudes sleeping in one bed- he was drunk and needless to say he was rather belligerent after that one haha

Another one would be if he hits on you- which is prob unlikely cuz a) they dont wanna screw up a roommate relationship
and b) they prob dont wanna go out on a limb to see if youre gay cuz they prob think your straight. So dont dress like prince on your first day and you shall probably be in the clear haha

Later

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Look, try and be adult about this.

Why not arrange to meet the guy beforehand and have a chat. Maybe tell him you haven't had a gay housemate (or any housemate) before and wanted to see before you decided.

I've had nightmarish housemates, none of whom were gay.