My recent clubbing experience

[TheMasterOfBation]

ok guys so recently I have decided to go out of my element and go clubbing. im from NYC so there are plenty of clubs to go to.

the first club I went to was the copacabana. i went with 3 aquaintences and 1 close friend who was my wingman for the evening. so we get there the music is playing and there lots of people dancing having a good time..u know the deal..so me and my boys head over to the dance floor to observe the scene a little first. after a lil of that it was time to do some approaches. my basic approach was just going up to a girl and asking her to dance. this is not a good method to use (i will explain a better one later)...so it turned out i approached about 12 girls and 11 rejected me. the girls at this club were so prude it was horrible. but i took it as a learning experience and moved on.it seemed as all my friends failed that evening.

it was time for redemption and headed out to club exit on sat. i went with the same close friend of mine the others cancelled on us. we also met a girl from our school and one of her friends about HB 7's. this time i told my wingman the mission. the mission was not to think at all and just have fun. he seemed to agree. anywaya we got in checked our coats and headed to the dancefloor. the club started slow so we just chilled a bit getting to know our surroundings and who was there. after the party got a lil better we took the 2 girls we met with and warmed up with them first. afterward it was great. i had a new approach, just dont say a word to them. dance up to them holding ur hand out with a smile on ur face. it worked like a charm. i danced with about 8-9 girls grinding and everything..even caught a couple of cheap feels lol..i had convos with all of the girls i danced with too it was great..1 girl i did number close but the next day i took a look at the number and it was fake, it was missing numbers. anyway i didnt let it bother me..i still had a great time.

my next club will be webster hall on thurs..the same mission objective will be there, just have fun and let loose, and do not think. just wanted everyone to know some quick club tips (even though im no expert)...even when ur not dancing with anybody still move to the beat and danc ewith urself, u dont wanna look like a loser becuse girls do notice u!..approach girls in a fun way smile give eye contact and shake ur ass!!! try to intiate convo while dancing..make a couple of jokes..like this one chick i danced with had a drink in her hand i was busting her chops telling her not to spill it..she was doing quite well so i told her that she must be multi-tasking in a sarcastic way..she was eating it up..it turned out she spilled the drink so i got on her even more lol..get the kino going as well..if there seems to be chemistry flowing try to go to her private areas..i would start from her waist and inch my way towards her breast..if she disapproves she will just relocate ur hand, no worries just keep dancing....observe others to see what they are doing..see what works and what doesn't, and always try out different things, dont be afraid to be different cuz chances are the girls will like it instead of the same old crap...when the girl is grinding or dancing face to face with u, keep eye contact locked in..keep getting urf ace closer to hers and whisper sexy things or compliments to her to get her heated, or simply sing the song that they are playing, if she digs it get closer and go in for that kiss, if she disaproves act like nothing happened and continue dancing! i did not have the oprotunity to do this cuz none of the girls i danced with kept eye contact...i will accomplish this sooner or later cuz there were guys who were kssing random chicks when i went...anyway just remeber the main tip...have fun! dont care what anyone else thinks, even if u suck at dancing..its better to suck at dancing then to be one of the losers who pays to get in and watch the others dance the night away..well thats it..hope it helps! good luck!

 

[Hunterchilla]

I was thinking about going to copacabana or exit because i like the ghetto-spanish big booty girl crowd they usually have i usually go to high end clubs such as lotus,mint,privay,skybar, etc but unlike my friends im not really attracted to skinny white girls. I like ghetto ricans and dominicans . Anyway I do find that

the ghetto/girls at these clubs dont like to hook up on the dance floor or on the first time they meet you compared to the other types. They like to booty grind, dance, and then exchange numbers, thats basically it. Anyway i never been to exit or copacabana I think im gonna go

can you tell me about the crowd that goes?

is it mostly guys? alot of hot girls? etc explain plz. oh and cover?

 

[johnmich]

I went clubbing on Sat night and i am disapointed with myself.

I ended up in varsity and saw a hottie eyeing up my mate but he didnt go for it when i told him.
Then i noticed her eyes went onto me but i fu-ckin bottled it. Trust me, regret feels a lot worse than rejection.

I then thought i could give it a go with other lasses but varsity was crap. Not bein racist but it was full of asian guys who couldnt dance for sh-it.

We tried some more clubs but we got rejected for a variety of reasons. Revolution rejected us because my mate was wearing Daekins and Walkabout rejected my mate for no reason. What a bag of ****e.

We danced together (not in a gay way) and that is what got us eyed up. Although i bottled it with the lass, i feel a lot better about myself.
I look very young so to get interest from an older looking girl makes me feel more confident in clubs, and i cant wait til the weekend. Plus she was fit so i feel better.
Next week is gonna be good.

 

[TheMasterOfBation]

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when i went to copa there was about an even number of guys and girls...exit on the otherhand seem to have more girls then guys...exit is a better club...its not so much ghetto cuz i did see a lot of white people there...actually it was a great mix of people..it was great..the cover for copa was 20 bucks cuz i had a 5 dollar cupon, and exit was 15 cuz i was on the guestlist (do that to save money)...but yea always wear slacks some nice shoes and a nice button shirt..u gotta look better than the rest because ur a DJ..always wear ur best cologne too..u cant forget that

and to the other guy...yea sorry about the bad experience...just try different clubs out to see which one suits u better..some clubs are good some arent...just remeber to have fun!

 

[bbestar]

Originally posted by TheMasterOfBation
ok guys so recently I have decided to go out of my element and go clubbing. im from NYC so there are plenty of clubs to go to.

the first club I went to was the copacabana. i went with 3 aquaintences and 1 close friend who was my wingman for the evening. so we get there the music is playing and there lots of people dancing having a good time..u know the deal..so me and my boys head over to the dance floor to observe the scene a little first. after a lil of that it was time to do some approaches. my basic approach was just going up to a girl and asking her to dance. this is not a good method to use (i will explain a better one later)...so it turned out i approached about 12 girls and 11 rejected me. the girls at this club were so prude it was horrible. but i took it as a learning experience and moved on.it seemed as all my friends failed that evening.

it was time for redemption and headed out to club exit on sat. i went with the same close friend of mine the others cancelled on us. we also met a girl from our school and one of her friends about HB 7's. this time i told my wingman the mission. the mission was not to think at all and just have fun. he seemed to agree. anywaya we got in checked our coats and headed to the dancefloor. the club started slow so we just chilled a bit getting to know our surroundings and who was there. after the party got a lil better we took the 2 girls we met with and warmed up with them first. afterward it was great. i had a new approach, just dont say a word to them. dance up to them holding ur hand out with a smile on ur face. it worked like a charm. i danced with about 8-9 girls grinding and everything..even caught a couple of cheap feels lol..i had convos with all of the girls i danced with too it was great..1 girl i did number close but the next day i took a look at the number and it was fake, it was missing numbers. anyway i didnt let it bother me..i still had a great time.

my next club will be webster hall on thurs..the same mission objective will be there, just have fun and let loose, and do not think. just wanted everyone to know some quick club tips (even though im no expert)...even when ur not dancing with anybody still move to the beat and danc ewith urself, u dont wanna look like a loser becuse girls do notice u!..approach girls in a fun way smile give eye contact and shake ur ass!!! try to intiate convo while dancing..make a couple of jokes..like this one chick i danced with had a drink in her hand i was busting her chops telling her not to spill it..she was doing quite well so i told her that she must be multi-tasking in a sarcastic way..she was eating it up..it turned out she spilled the drink so i got on her even more lol..get the kino going as well..if there seems to be chemistry flowing try to go to her private areas..i would start from her waist and inch my way towards her breast..if she disapproves she will just relocate ur hand, no worries just keep dancing....observe others to see what they are doing..see what works and what doesn't, and always try out different things, dont be afraid to be different cuz chances are the girls will like it instead of the same old crap...when the girl is grinding or dancing face to face with u, keep eye contact locked in..keep getting urf ace closer to hers and whisper sexy things or compliments to her to get her heated, or simply sing the song that they are playing, if she digs it get closer and go in for that kiss, if she disaproves act like nothing happened and continue dancing! i did not have the oprotunity to do this cuz none of the girls i danced with kept eye contact...i will accomplish this sooner or later cuz there were guys who were kssing random chicks when i went...anyway just remeber the main tip...have fun! dont care what anyone else thinks, even if u suck at dancing..its better to suck at dancing then to be one of the losers who pays to get in and watch the others dance the night away..well thats it..hope it helps! good luck!

That is probably the best clubbing advice Ive EVER read!

 

[PRMoon]

That's how a club experience is suppose to go! If I've said it once I've said it a thousand times, your primary objective in a club is to HAVE FUN! Too many people on this site go to clubs with the single minded objective of picking up some drunken b*tch to f*ck and then whine that they didn't have a good time because they couldn't talk to anyone and kept on getting rejected What that really translates into is they couldn't seal the deal in two sentances and one drink or less so they were pissed off becasue they put on nice clothes for nothing.

Clubs are made to have a good time in. Everyone should at least try to dance a little bit, I mean club is really short for DANCE club so people shouldn't be supriesed if sitting on the wall with a drink doesn't get them anywhere...unless you're in a VIP both in which case the girls will flock to you cause you've got money.

Everyone should take note. This post is exactly the kind of experiene I've been saying you should have when you go clubbing. And once you get the hang of it, it can become a very appealing option for your evenings from time to time.

 

[TheMasterOfBation]

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yea i know a lot of guys get down on themselves when they expect too much from a club and it doesnt happen...just be persistent and dont let that bad experience stop u from going to clubs anymore....just remember each club is different, which means different people, dj's, etc....so u will get different things in each club..some things work in one club but wont work in another..ive learned that the hard way but it was a learning experience..thats why i say try to view the crowd first to see whats working and whats not..then throw ur little spice into the mix cuz of course u r a DJ and have a blast!!! even though the clubs will b different the same objective is in effect...FUN!!! i cant stress that enough..u will be surprised that if ur just having a good time, u will be able to pick up more girls then when u would when u actually try to pick up girls.