First let me say that Im a attractive, educated male who has had I'm guessing 15-20 over one month girlfriends in my life, and sex with appoximentaly 30-40 different girls.
I came to this site last year when an ex and I broke up, and I needed some sound rationale advice on how to deal with all the drama from that. Well, since then even though I have since moved on and am very happy with my life, I have continued to read some posts here strictly for the pure info and enjoyment of it-and to try and help out with some advice when I could.
Over this time I have come to realize that 99% of everyone who posts here and probably reads the threads are fooling themselves about their relationships and/or are spending wayyyyyyyyy too much time worrying about women and how they should act around them.
First, if your at the point where your coming to a internet forum to discuss a troubled relationship-its gone u just dont know it yet. Like I said Ive been in many many relationships-some great, some good, a few bad and one horrible one, and once you sense trouble or have a feeling something is wrong-its already too late, the relationship is done. Then if you have to start playing games like some expressed here, and im not saying they sometimes dont work, they might for the short term or in a new relationship, but once these things start to happen or you have a feeling things are going south-just move on because its over.
I know at this point many start to panic and think what have I done-life without her will suck, but it doesnt matter at that point-its over. Ive been through all the game playing and ignoring and so on, and it just will not work in the long run, if you sense shes pulling back or starting to lose interest-odds are its because she REALLY has lost interest and/or has found someone else.
So all of these long posts about what if she turns cold one day or she ignored me or this that and the other thing-forget about it and move on. I know it makes you feel better to write things out and to hear from others and to get advice, but in the long run it doesnt matter-next.
Secondly, I seriously doubt if women spend this much time worrying about us and wondering how they should act around us and what not. Why? Because they know they have that little hole that all men want. I mean think about it-if a woman wanted to walk into a bar and get laid that night-she could have 20 guys waiting in line after 5 mintues-I mean no problem, and this would happen every night of the week. Whereas men, we have to do everything but beg sometimes to get in a girls pants. Think of the power that must give women, think if women were lining up to do us every night-how would we feel? Like freaking KINGS of the world is how. So I say screw them, dont show them one bit how much we want inside that little hole, and act like we don't give a crap. Trust me you'll get alot farther in life and with women by taking that attitude rather then worrying about them constantly like so many of you do.
And Im not blaming you, Ive been there and know how it feels. But we have to quit giving them the power and make them realize its a privalege to be WITH us, not the other way around. My motto now with women is *#ck em, then *#ck em, and then someday if your lucky enough to find someone truly worthy-like I have-you can enjoy that relationship. But Ive found that most people in this world are really pretty strange, and that going out and trying to get into a LTR isnt worth it unless your extremely lucky, just too many whacked out people in this world. It will happen when you least expect it.
I came to this site last year when an ex and I broke up, and I needed some sound rationale advice on how to deal with all the drama from that. Well, since then even though I have since moved on and am very happy with my life, I have continued to read some posts here strictly for the pure info and enjoyment of it-and to try and help out with some advice when I could.
Over this time I have come to realize that 99% of everyone who posts here and probably reads the threads are fooling themselves about their relationships and/or are spending wayyyyyyyyy too much time worrying about women and how they should act around them.
First, if your at the point where your coming to a internet forum to discuss a troubled relationship-its gone u just dont know it yet. Like I said Ive been in many many relationships-some great, some good, a few bad and one horrible one, and once you sense trouble or have a feeling something is wrong-its already too late, the relationship is done. Then if you have to start playing games like some expressed here, and im not saying they sometimes dont work, they might for the short term or in a new relationship, but once these things start to happen or you have a feeling things are going south-just move on because its over.
I know at this point many start to panic and think what have I done-life without her will suck, but it doesnt matter at that point-its over. Ive been through all the game playing and ignoring and so on, and it just will not work in the long run, if you sense shes pulling back or starting to lose interest-odds are its because she REALLY has lost interest and/or has found someone else.
So all of these long posts about what if she turns cold one day or she ignored me or this that and the other thing-forget about it and move on. I know it makes you feel better to write things out and to hear from others and to get advice, but in the long run it doesnt matter-next.
Secondly, I seriously doubt if women spend this much time worrying about us and wondering how they should act around us and what not. Why? Because they know they have that little hole that all men want. I mean think about it-if a woman wanted to walk into a bar and get laid that night-she could have 20 guys waiting in line after 5 mintues-I mean no problem, and this would happen every night of the week. Whereas men, we have to do everything but beg sometimes to get in a girls pants. Think of the power that must give women, think if women were lining up to do us every night-how would we feel? Like freaking KINGS of the world is how. So I say screw them, dont show them one bit how much we want inside that little hole, and act like we don't give a crap. Trust me you'll get alot farther in life and with women by taking that attitude rather then worrying about them constantly like so many of you do.
And Im not blaming you, Ive been there and know how it feels. But we have to quit giving them the power and make them realize its a privalege to be WITH us, not the other way around. My motto now with women is *#ck em, then *#ck em, and then someday if your lucky enough to find someone truly worthy-like I have-you can enjoy that relationship. But Ive found that most people in this world are really pretty strange, and that going out and trying to get into a LTR isnt worth it unless your extremely lucky, just too many whacked out people in this world. It will happen when you least expect it.
