skip2mylou781
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I am 21, I got a friend who is 27 who has ****ed 100's of girls in his life and he hits on every single girl he sees naturally. He has never heard of sosuave and says he is NATURALLY like this by developing his game over time.
He told me something that really hit HARD when it comes to girls.
He said "Never burn bridges".
What does this mean? It means try to stay in friendly contact with as many chicks as humanly possible, whether they flaked on you, whether u dated and broke up, whether she ignores you, whether she cheated on u, it doesnt matter, always at least keep the POSSIBLITY of friendly contact with her. What do I mean?
1)DO NOT ERASE THEIR # IF THEY FLAKE ON YOU
2)DO NOT TELL THEM OFF OR SAY SOMETHIN SO RUDE THAT THEY WILL NEVER TALK TO U AGAIN
3)DONT SAY OR DO ANYTHING THAT WILL MAKE THEM TOTALLY DESPISE U BASICALLY.
Now this sounds very anti-suave and reeks of lack of self-respect, but this is coming from probly the biggest pimp/don juan that i ever met. I was wondering what the reasoning is behind this "don't burn bridges" theory of his, and he explained it to me in a few simple words:
"Dude if she ignores u or doesnt call back or flakes or this or that, act like it does not phase you THE LEAST BIT, and give a call back in a week or 2 saying hey wats up. It doesnt kill you to call and be friendly with a girl for 3 minutes acting like nothing happened. Doing this gives you more power, as she will see you dont even NOTICE her flaking, thus she'll have absolutely no reason to NOT wanna see you. And you never know what the future holds, she mite go thru a bad breakup, you mite be the only guy whod be there for her, get her drunk, get her crying on ur shoulder, and then go for the kill"
These are all his words but im paraphrasing. He also mentioned things such as "just IMAGINE over the last even 1 year, how many girls have u either yelled at, erased their # or confronted them to the point that they never wanted to talk to u? I bet at least 1/2 the girls you meet u do that to cuz they dont call back or somethin aka you NEXT them, which you SHOULDNT do."
He recapped for me how he met a really hot girl once and hed call her once every 3 weeks or so, just to say hi, sometimes she picked up, sometimes she didnt, never called him back tho.....but after a few months (wats it to u to lose 15 minutse in a span of 2 months?) she DIDNT ignore him and they DID hang out and guess what? they did E together and ****ed all nite.
His lesson - keep as many contacts as possible and always act like ur not phased and u dont care (even if they disrepsect u or flake on u or anything, even if they LJBF u, if they tell u they have a bf, doesnt matter), DO NOT BURN BRIDGES. You never know when it may come in handy, but by keeping ur cool and acting like nothing is ever wrong, you will always maintain positive energy with the girl, and this first of all does LOADS for your social proof if u ever need it, along with other benefits that were mentiond above.
I never applied this, as i NEXT or tell off any girl who flakes or disrepsects me and man im left with only like 5 girls rite now who i am "friendly" with.
NOT following what my friend said and BURNING BRIDGES, it now turns out that outta the 50 or so girls that ive fvcked, I have no contact with about 45 of them due to them getting bfs and me erasing their #s, or them standing me up on a future date, or them cheating on me or dumping me, or flaking of course - all these led to me BURNING BRIDGES by erasing their #s aka NOT PLAYING IT COOL LIKE I SHOULD HAVE.
If I had been doing what my friend told me, I could prob be getting loads and loads of pvssy from some of these girls and if I ever needed, I could have dates lined up for weeks.
KEEP THE POWER, IGNORE FLAKING AND *****Y BEHAVIOR, PRETEND YOU ARE THE MAN AND NOTHING A ***** DOES MATTERS, AND THAT WILL DRAW THE GIRLS IN THAT YOU WERE READY TO NEXT
What i just capitalized above seems to be the whole point of the speech my friend gave me.
Let me know what you think of all this.......THIS is a very different perspective I know, but do think about it for a second
He told me something that really hit HARD when it comes to girls.
He said "Never burn bridges".
What does this mean? It means try to stay in friendly contact with as many chicks as humanly possible, whether they flaked on you, whether u dated and broke up, whether she ignores you, whether she cheated on u, it doesnt matter, always at least keep the POSSIBLITY of friendly contact with her. What do I mean?
1)DO NOT ERASE THEIR # IF THEY FLAKE ON YOU
2)DO NOT TELL THEM OFF OR SAY SOMETHIN SO RUDE THAT THEY WILL NEVER TALK TO U AGAIN
3)DONT SAY OR DO ANYTHING THAT WILL MAKE THEM TOTALLY DESPISE U BASICALLY.
Now this sounds very anti-suave and reeks of lack of self-respect, but this is coming from probly the biggest pimp/don juan that i ever met. I was wondering what the reasoning is behind this "don't burn bridges" theory of his, and he explained it to me in a few simple words:
"Dude if she ignores u or doesnt call back or flakes or this or that, act like it does not phase you THE LEAST BIT, and give a call back in a week or 2 saying hey wats up. It doesnt kill you to call and be friendly with a girl for 3 minutes acting like nothing happened. Doing this gives you more power, as she will see you dont even NOTICE her flaking, thus she'll have absolutely no reason to NOT wanna see you. And you never know what the future holds, she mite go thru a bad breakup, you mite be the only guy whod be there for her, get her drunk, get her crying on ur shoulder, and then go for the kill"
These are all his words but im paraphrasing. He also mentioned things such as "just IMAGINE over the last even 1 year, how many girls have u either yelled at, erased their # or confronted them to the point that they never wanted to talk to u? I bet at least 1/2 the girls you meet u do that to cuz they dont call back or somethin aka you NEXT them, which you SHOULDNT do."
He recapped for me how he met a really hot girl once and hed call her once every 3 weeks or so, just to say hi, sometimes she picked up, sometimes she didnt, never called him back tho.....but after a few months (wats it to u to lose 15 minutse in a span of 2 months?) she DIDNT ignore him and they DID hang out and guess what? they did E together and ****ed all nite.
His lesson - keep as many contacts as possible and always act like ur not phased and u dont care (even if they disrepsect u or flake on u or anything, even if they LJBF u, if they tell u they have a bf, doesnt matter), DO NOT BURN BRIDGES. You never know when it may come in handy, but by keeping ur cool and acting like nothing is ever wrong, you will always maintain positive energy with the girl, and this first of all does LOADS for your social proof if u ever need it, along with other benefits that were mentiond above.
I never applied this, as i NEXT or tell off any girl who flakes or disrepsects me and man im left with only like 5 girls rite now who i am "friendly" with.
NOT following what my friend said and BURNING BRIDGES, it now turns out that outta the 50 or so girls that ive fvcked, I have no contact with about 45 of them due to them getting bfs and me erasing their #s, or them standing me up on a future date, or them cheating on me or dumping me, or flaking of course - all these led to me BURNING BRIDGES by erasing their #s aka NOT PLAYING IT COOL LIKE I SHOULD HAVE.
If I had been doing what my friend told me, I could prob be getting loads and loads of pvssy from some of these girls and if I ever needed, I could have dates lined up for weeks.
KEEP THE POWER, IGNORE FLAKING AND *****Y BEHAVIOR, PRETEND YOU ARE THE MAN AND NOTHING A ***** DOES MATTERS, AND THAT WILL DRAW THE GIRLS IN THAT YOU WERE READY TO NEXT
What i just capitalized above seems to be the whole point of the speech my friend gave me.
Let me know what you think of all this.......THIS is a very different perspective I know, but do think about it for a second
