Your problem is not your looks, it's your fear and self-consciousness. You need to stop being scared of girls and putting them above you..they can sense that you are a try-hard and this is what makes them uncomfortable. But since we are on the subject of looks, you couldnt have chosen a more bland one ...cmon dude..DOCKERS? LOL.. you need a dash of personality my friend. Put yourself in the shoes of someone who absolutely does not give a sh!t what people think of him. Who does he act? Dress? Hold a conversation?
Let go of your self-consciousness and project an easy-going vibe. Any great seducer will tell you that half the battle is just getting a girl comfortable around you, the other half is leading her as a MAN. Which brings me to the most important point - dont expect the sarge to go on autopilot or for her to do anything dominant. You are a big neo-male advocate..you should know that men and women have their place in the dance of seduction. Grow a pair and get some action, mate :box: