There's a lot of married cucks who are cut off by their wife's. It's absolutely ridiculous. The other portion can be men who are failing as you mentioned. Others may have a stupid high sex drive. I am the latter.
I have made it a lifestyle for spinning plates pulling random baaaaae, nutting, and going out to get more girls. Getting home and still fapping. 100% srs!
I allocate testosterone to the gym, to my ambitions, biz and lifestyle. I still fap after a chick catches hell lulz!
My wing and i went back to a chicks place. 1 was being a **** so, we froze her out. As in, ***** is dead to me/us (we are venom now). I took the other girls hand, led her to the bedroom, i took it out, and she started choking up. My wing and i devil's triangle/eiffel tower'd her. We left after midnight, hit the clue, and went down to get more baeeeees. We left with another girl. She was not dtf for eiffel tower. My wing kicked her out. We went to go get grittz and get more baeeeees. I chatted up more but no pull. I straight up fapped after getting home and I went to bed.
As for porn I have been meaning to post about it. A lot of trad cucks, Christians and other religious people demonise porn. RooshV called it out more recently. I at 1st thought its gay and lame by the call outs. I concur now.
It seeds cuck. It literally conditions cuckoldry. It normalised the notion of fap to other people smashing. It is ****ed.
Again, its niche. It is forbidden. Its something that you come across as a kid. As a young boy. You are indoctrinated by the endless porn of all kinds of women and nasty acts. The fact that you are told its bad reminds me of South park calling out Disney on the Jonas bros and purity rings. They sell sex to under age girls by emphasis on the purity rings. Its reverse psychology. South park is brilliant.
Its not bad. It's not ideal. The only thing is that, being aware of the social engineering thr matrix behind the matrix. It is cuck. It is similar to the proud single mom promos and pedaling high kill count don't need a man rubbish, Crater SMV on carousel and chasing career cat lady Lifestyle running up student loans in major in left handed sock puppetry and minor in lesbianism dance therapy. Women are cheered off a cliff.
We men have our blindspots too. Women are exploited by their solipsism and their delusional assumption of men wanting to smash for being special (till the decay). Men are exploited by their sex drive, blue pill idealism and ego.
The first step to recovery is unplugging and becoming aware. I limit porn. I fap. I am looking to abstain from porn long term.