scrouds said:
To start, I am an ardent supporter of abortion. Personally I think that's probably the best deal here. That being said, I get the sense that OP doesn't think outside the box. He believes there are 2 options:
1) Abortion
2) Marriage
It also seems to me that he wants another alternative, for her to raise the kid and him pay child support and visit weekends. I submit to you and the the forum,
THE THIRD OPTION
Lie your ass off, say you'll get married after the kid is born, then ditch her. Call the wedding off. You can't kill it once its born, and you avoid the abortion you find distasteful.
She played you to get the best deal she could. I wouldn't feel bad playing her to get your most desired outcome.
You make it sound so easy. If you've read the rest of this thread and some of his others, what he finds most distasteful, terryfing was his word, is not the abortion or paying child support, but the possibility of never sticking it inside another woman's pu$$y. His words, not mine.
Sounds like he wants HER to be the one to make the abortion decision, and he go along with it and justify it to his mom. In other words, he cannot publicly push her into having an abortion. His parents won't allow it.
She needs to come to her senses and realize no other Albanian guy will marry her with an out of wedlock child. Given they are both irresponsible and are just thinking of theselves, and the damage has alerady been done, that might be the best thing to do at this point.
Btw, this thread is a trainwreck, and there is really nothing more to add until further updated, but one just can't help himself and respond to this stuff. I mean, I guess you can't make up stuff like this. Fellow "nerds", pay attention and learn from this.