my phone game is weeeeaaaaaaakk

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yes its a behavior

Iqqi such a behaviro is called being patient and in self control.

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Originally posted by hb
alright, i bagged this girls last week at the pool hall. She was with 3 other friends, all girls. She gave me her number. I called her about an hour ago. From the start this conversation was pretty boring. I asked her how old she is and i told her i think she looks maaaaad good. She wasnt really talkin much. After that i had another line so i called her back. I wasnt feeling good about the way the convo was going. It was too boring, so i just asked her what she was doin tommorow night and she said she had plans. I replied in a bad way. I told her, yo straight up tell me if you really wanna hang out or am i just wasting my time. she replied, " i'll chill with you, we'll hang out sometime"
i was like alright i guess i'll call u some other time then.
Forget her man. She's gone. NEXT

It's learning experience.

I have tens of thousands of numbers. I could just open the yellow pages - but none of the girls are interested in me.

Is your intention to get her to go out with you or to get her number?

If you want to go out, you have to attract her BEFORE you take her number. If you do, then the "phone game" as you call it, is easy.

Why the hell would she want to go somewhere to chill with you if you were a boring talker? She won't.


So next time, attract first. Then say: "hey, you're really cool. I'm gonna be at place X at [date] and would like to see you there. Do you wanna come?"
yes
ok then, gimme your digits

Neat, eh?
 

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Re: yes its a behavior

Originally posted by tiburon
Iqqi such a behaviro is called being patient and in self control.

Tiburon
so why not 2 days or 3 days or 10 days? or when ever you want to call, why do you need a system?

do you really think it would make a difference if you waited one more or less day? or even 3 or 4 more or less days?

do you really think that most woman just sit around waiting for you to call?

if their lives are that pathetic i hope i would lose their #s
 

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Its my experience

Its my experience that 5 days should be the minimum ....its not based on any system but rather that i feel its that it shows you are in control of your life and a patient individual who may not be all that interested. Even tough 4 is my favorite number for everything....there is something about calling in 4 days that just doesnt feel right...maybe too soon...woman need separation. Calling in 5 to 9 days has worked for me so i have kept it over the years and now is a behavior.

Woman dont wait on the phone for you to call them, but they sure wonder why it took you so long and while they are wondering only one thing happens...their IL goes up. More than a game is a from of seduction. to the newbie my appear as a gmae ...to the master is just the way he lives by and the way he conducts himself. I am not a master but i feel its a beahvior more than a game.......


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If the girl liked you and was worth dating, you would NOT have had such a bad phone experience.

When a girl likes you and isn't crazy, she is happy to hear from you. End of story.

Unless she's very young, in which case, it'll get better in a few years. Maybe.
 

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I disagree with most of you.

If you become too next-happy ,you will end up alone .You have to have SOME patience and persistence.

You shouldn't next because of 1 bad phone call. Now 2 bad phone calls and her brushing you off every time...that's a different story.


B1tches are hella stupid and they like getting chased so i usually give them 2 chances .


I'm not saying be "Steve Urkel" or nothing like that ,but if you get upset and give up every time she doesn't take off her clothes when she sees you . You WILL end up alone.Beleive Me.



BTW. I usually wait a 2 or 3 days(if i even remeber ,yes i have a personal life) before calling but then not call again for AT LEAST 1 week.
 

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i believe i shouldve called in 2 or 3 days so that she had a better memmory of me. I called her a week later..........

there is no possible way for me to work on attracting her if i only saw her once in my entire life, there fore shes either attracted to me or shes not.

Plus one bad thing that this site has taught me is to next a girl as soon as she shows u a single negative sign.

i know manyyyyyyy people who hadnt gave up on a girl and in the end they got her.............

now im not sayin that im gonna be callin this girl everyday till she agrees on a date

i believe one more time is good.
 

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OK LISTEN UP

I AM TIRED OF TALKING ABOT THIS......


YOUR A$$ SHOULD HAD WAITED 5- 9DAYS TO CALL ....EVeRY OTHER GUY IN TOWN CALLS IN 2-4 days........

If she had any good interest in you ...she will not forget who you were......she would be wondering why you havent call.

Your problem is that your ego is too big for the bad stuff and too small for the good stuff.

So you got her number and now you think that if you call a week later she is going to forget who you are....---ok-----you need to do some studying brother.........IN THIS CASE YOUR EGO IS PATHETIC AND LETS NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR CONFIDENCE>


And then you feel that if a girl gives you a negative sign at first you shouldnt next............SH!T DUDE ...THE ONLY WAY SHE IS NOT GETTING NEXTED IF THE INITIATIVE COMES FROIM HER THE NEXT TIME>>>>>>>ITS ALL ABOUT HER INTEREST LEVEL. WiTH SO MAY WOMAN IN THE WORLD WHY GO AFTER A B!TCHY ATTITUDE ONE WHO GIVES YOU A BAD INTEREST LEVEL. YES MANY GUYS HAVE GOTTEN THE GIRL ( PRTESIDENT BUSH) AND HAVE ALSO GOTTEN USED BY THE GIRL.........THERE IS A BOTTOM LINE TO THIS ...and is her INTEREST LEVEL ...ABOVE 49% you can wrok your magic below......you are screwed ...if it goes above its based on some non beneficient interest.


WAKE UP s...she gives you a bad sign on a phone call...show that you respect yourself and that now she must come to you ...if not you are telling her the following message: " OHHH its ok that you had a bad day and for you to bow me off....I will call you one more time too see if you are in a better mood"....GOOODD WAY TO BEGING ...SHOW THAT BACKBONE PROUD.....


GOOD LUCK ROOKIE>


TIburon

p.s remeber the devil is wiser because of his age than because he is a devil...you should read the bible COMPLETELY and then listen to those who have gone through experiencces like yours before.....SOME TALK OF THEIR A$$ES OTHER TALK OF THEY KNOWLEDGE>!
 
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