my old plate (not technically a plate) contacted me just now out of the blue

Plutoman

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That's fair - and if you don't care, it doesn't matter either way. A message like that leaves two options, she's sleeping with him or she won't reply.

Just making the note that it was unlikely, to say the least - even AW's I can't believe would go that fast when she hasn't even seen what he looks like (after a year? woah). I'm not seeing signs that she's an AW, either (nor signs against it, but there's just so little contact here..). I'm just seeing a relatively low interest - and the text out of the blue was to see if any interest could potentially build up (in which tennis -> direct could have been a good route). His reply essentially told her that he's interested in one thing from her, and one thing only - and she's not interested in being a f-buddy.

Not criticism, just analyzing the situation a bit more. When you don't care, anything goes, so there's never a wrong move, but just pointing out the avenues that would have had the most likely success rate vs the easiest route.
 
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