My observations from a day at an amusement park. Why you should work out.

[Yewki]

I wouldn't enjoy the gym without some external reward.

Just like your job. 99.9999999% of us wouldn't work for free, no matter how much we're helping people or pretending to love our jobs.

For me I just want the rewards that come from looking exceptionally fit. I really don't care how strong I am. Or how dense my bones are. The reward of having the best things in life must requires hard work and sacrifice. I view training as a necessary evil. It's not fun, and it's not that enjoyable either.

Muhammed Ali said he hated every moment of training but he constantly reminded himself not to quit because he wanted to be a champion.

I want to be a champion when it comes to attracting women, and looking fit is definitely key.

Yep, while ideally it would be nice to lift just for yourself... it's not realistic, and it's also not really a problem either.

Lifting for yourself > Lifting to be attractive >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Not lifting at all

Being to the left of the "not lifting at all" category is immensely good.

 

[Alexandar]

you got the 20 year olds cause you're single US man in CUBA. they want to get the hell OUT of there, go to US make good money and send it back to help their families. You can be very old, very out of shape and still get such ladies and if you clean up your act, and treat her right and you're careful about your choice, it can be a good deal for you for 5, maybe even 10 years, but then WATCH out, man. get a vasectomy FIRST, but don't tell her about it, unless she's already got a kid, that might an exception. Maybe she doesn't want more. Dont settle for one that's not at least a nurse, who can pay you 100k the first 3 years. Get that money into gold coins and holes in the ground, NOT in your back yard, at night, many places. Use a "one time pad" to record the GPS readings AND a disceription of how to find each place. Nevada corporations for owning property and never use normal phone or pc to contact them, nor leave correspondence just lying around.

you are an idiot.
and learn to phucking spell and use grammar, nobody is going to understand what the phuck you type, so why even bother wasting your time?

you weirdo.

 

[captain55]

I've always heard how out of shape Americans are, but never really payed it any mind. At hershey park amongst 1000s of people in bikinis and swim trunks, I saw 5.

Five guys who look like they worked out. Five.
AMONGST 1000s!!


Its ridiculous! Do you know how much status that means a nice body is? Out of 1000s not even 1% looked like they have touched a weight in years!

Women were a little better. Maybe 50 chicks with nice 2 piece bodies.

Want to stand out in 2015? Get in shape.
If you want to be a donjuan I advise you go join a gym asap.

Dude Im 220 8% bf with 18.5 inch arms at 5'10, and good looking, but I can't get a relationship to save my life. Lots of dates…lots of one night stands yes and a high success rate in the bar and club scene but let me tell you getting jacked will not land you a high quality woman. It will actually make it harder, women are more likely to not trust muscular men because of affairs this is a fact...…..the bigger you get the more your going to have to go out of your way to prove to chicks your really into them and that your long term relationship material. When I was 180 lbs ignoring women actually worked, now that just take it as me not being interested and not giving a ****.

My point is just be careful what you wish for..

 

[cola]

Dude Im 220 8% bf with 18.5 inch arms at 5'10, and good looking, but I can't get a relationship to save my life. Lots of dates…lots of one night stands yes and a high success rate in the bar and club scene but let me tell you getting jacked will not land you a high quality woman. It will actually make it harder, women are more likely to not trust muscular men because of affairs this is a fact...…..the bigger you get the more your going to have to go out of your way to prove to chicks your really into them and that your long term relationship material. When I was 180 lbs ignoring women actually worked, now that just take it as me not being interested and not giving a ****.

My point is just be careful what you wish for..

Wow! 220 at 8% got pics bro? Thats really impressive. Why do you want a relationship so bad? Why not just have sex casually, eventually someone will ask to be exclusive. Don't actively look for a relationship. May as well just write "use me" on your forehead with a sharpie.

Let the casual sex turn into a relationship.

 

[captain55]

Wow! 220 at 8% got pics bro? Thats really impressive. Why do you want a relationship so bad? Why not just have sex casually, eventually someone will ask to be exclusive. Don't actively look for a relationship. May as well just write "use me" on your forehead with a sharpie.

Let the casual sex turn into a relationship.

pic
http://i.imgur.com/JvgV7vr.jpg

To answer your question...on the rare occasion I do come across a chick who won't put out sexually early on for moral reasons, I have a hard time bedding these women because I can't make it past the fourth date. Im narcissistic and women just don't think Im relationship material. …below is a recent fling that came to an end last night.just over 30 days... Look at the date on the texts…

http://i.imgur.com/id8xLYJ.png (when she said the comment about liking someone I told myself yeah thats what she thinks)

one month later...
http://i.imgur.com/uBMraPM.gif

story of my life pretty much

 

[In2theGame]

Dude Im 220 8% bf with 18.5 inch arms at 5'10, and good looking, but I can't get a relationship to save my life. Lots of dates…lots of one night stands yes and a high success rate in the bar and club scene but let me tell you getting jacked will not land you a high quality woman. It will actually make it harder, women are more likely to not trust muscular men because of affairs this is a fact...…..the bigger you get the more your going to have to go out of your way to prove to chicks your really into them and that your long term relationship material. When I was 180 lbs ignoring women actually worked, now that just take it as me not being interested and not giving a ****.

My point is just be careful what you wish for..

This is definitely true.

 

[cola]

Captain.. you look amazing bro. No disrespect, Are you natty?
Bro. Phuck game. You can walk around in a tanktop, approach 100 girls in a day and literally say
"Would you like to have sex with me?" And pull one most days.

But no, in your situation, for a ltr you have to date the hottest of the hot. If you date down they will make your life miserable because they know how nice your body is ..
They will always think your cheating.

 

[AttackFormation]

Captain.. you look amazing bro. No disrespect, Are you natty?

I can already tell you he is not natty.

 

[Alexandar]

whats natty?

edit. i just clued in its probably natural as opposed to juiced haha

and no cola, he would not pull one on most days. im willing to bet a lot of money on that.

 

[AttackFormation]

whats natty?

edit. i just clued in its probably natural as opposed to juiced haha

and no cola, he would not pull one on most days. im willing to bet a lot of money on that.

You're willing to bet a lot of money that he is probably natural? this is a financial opportunity for me...

 

[Alexandar]

seriously? re read what i said one more time , but a little more carefully.

 

[captain55]

whats natty?

edit. i just clued in its probably natural as opposed to juiced haha

and no cola, he would not pull one on most days. im willing to bet a lot of money on that.

Well, I should say that I never really date anything below a 7/10. And due to the fact that I rarely have time to go out to the club these days like i used to and most of these girls I meet are on tinder, the odds of any man locking down a 7 plus on a hookup site competing with hundreds of guys already has the odds stacked greatly against him. (not saying I have the best game of any guy here either, just stating the facts, pulling an 8 in a club is a million times easier than off that dating app IME)

Is my physique optimal for women you want to date (aka 7-8 range) ? No but it will pull you the occasional 9 who is secure enough to handle the attention that it comes with. . Personally I workout for me but if women were my main goal I would keep it at 180-190 lbs, thats big enough for the average 5'10 guy to soak some panties, without coming across as some narcissist meathead.

 

[AttackFormation]

seriously? re read what i said one more time , but a little more carefully.

Woops, I didn't know you were referencing an earlier post. I thought you meant "pull a needle". My bad :yes:

 

[AttackFormation]

the odds of any man locking down a 7 plus on a hookup site competing with hundreds of guys already has the odds stacked greatly against him. (not saying I have the best game of any guy here either, just stating the facts, pulling an 8 in a club is a million times easier than off that dating app IME)

Yeah, the smaller the scale of men she's working with, the easier it is to pull her. You can easier become one of the local alphas. That's one of the reasons why OLD sucks so bad...

 

[dkm]

Eh, it depends on where you are. I live around the Chicagoland area, and kids here mature fast as hell (the midwest in general, but I've noticed the closer you get to Chicago, the crazier it gets). Like about a fourth or fifth of the TEENAGE population lifts weights. The adult population is like one third. If they don't lift, then they're naturally strong. If somehow those naturals lift, then they are mini hulks. Like stupid strong.

I went to Seattle for several days about 2 weeks ago. First thing I noticed (and I'm probably gonna get a lot of hate for this but whatever) is that there are WAY too many homos there. Way too many. The second thing is that NO ONE LIFTS. It's pathetic. Maybe it's my ego speaking for me, but I feel stronger than half of the male population over there. I was over-hearing a convo between a group of 4 college students at some restaurant and 2 were saying how they lost a lot of weight thru exercise and are trying to now gain muscle and how they gained something like 6 pounds again and how exercising is so hard etc. I look at them and I see 2 scrawny dudes probably trying to talk themselves up in front of the other 2 chicks. Not to bash them, but it's like yo, you ain't got nothing to brag about. (also, I'm not bashing anyone who lives in Seattle or areas outside the midwest, just stating what I notice)

Exercising for 1 hour a day is not special at all if you have a 9-5 desk job. 2 hours a day, hey it's definitely something so props to you if you can do that. I just hate it when I see how people are saying how it's so hard to exercise. Those college kids for example, they don't work and have their parents paying for everything. If that's the case, then you oughta be killing yourself by improving yourself. If you have to work, pay rent, do the bills, etc etc. hell ya you have an excuse to not workout for 5 hours a day. But you should still find it somewhere. Plus, you should not include rest as a part of that 1 hour of 'working out'. It should be 1 hour minimum of you having your heart rate elevated or your muscles really strained. Resting between sets does not count as exercising. So don't count it into that '1 hour' of 'working out'.

/end rant.

It's sad that you don't have a single IQ point.

 

[AttackFormation]

A lot of people mistakenly think that just because a guy takes steroids that you don't have to put the work in. As a person who is used high doses of steroids in the past and I'm currently on testosterone 200 milligrams/week for test replacement therapy, I can tell you from first hand experience it takes just as much work as it does a so called natural person. the needle alone does not make for us well-built physique. You still have to eat the right foods and you still got to work your ass off to the gym.

Look, I don't mean to harp on about this and like I've said before I have no problems with drugs but the fact that people lie about using them... but how can you believe that when it's proven that drugs make you bigger than if you train but don't take drugs? yeah your results are gonna be much better if you also train obviously, but the drugs are the biggest factor. They even let you train more and harder...

 

[TTV]

I've always heard how out of shape Americans are, but never really payed it any mind. At hershey park amongst 1000s of people in bikinis and swim trunks, I saw 5.

Five guys who look like they worked out. Five.
AMONGST 1000s!!


Its ridiculous! Do you know how much status that means a nice body is? Out of 1000s not even 1% looked like they have touched a weight in years!

Women were a little better. Maybe 50 chicks with nice 2 piece bodies.

Want to stand out in 2015? Get in shape.
If you want to be a donjuan I advise you go join a gym asap.

Yup. The chick I just started dating is 40 and looks amazing! She does serious kick ass workouts.