Hi guys.
Just found this forum.
Going to do a fast forward:
I was 18. Never had a girl (no kiss/sex). The first girl that was into me, I was too scared to kiss her, and after the 3th date she just gave up on me.
At this moment I started reading DYD and stuff.
Then I got into a lucky LTR. First time sex after 2 days.
I felt in control, broke up after 1 year, because I was bored of her. Stupid me, I felt sorry 1 day later, and she didn't want me back.
This was 3 months ago. Immediatly after the breakup I started reading up on PUA again, especially mASF.
It helped my inner game, or state, I feel/look better, I can now hold eyecontact, and am more social.
Still I can't just approach someone I don't know, without having a reason to approach (like I have to ask something, or there's just something going on at the moment that I can talk about) - and IF I open, I often don't have any followup. Yes, I know routines, but I never really use them.
So that's basically it. People on mASF are more advanced, people told me to come here because this place is more noob friendly.
Been going out as much as possible with my wing, but usually we just stand there at the party, and don't do much besides social circle stuff. He's doing better then me though, he already kiss closed a girl.
Like I just came back from a party, my ex-LTR was there and I got thrown out of state every time I saw her making out with her new BF. Ignored her. It's probably in my head, but it seemed she was trying to make me jealous, making out in front of me, I'd turn around, and she would just stop doing it. Or coming standing near me every moment. It's not because she still likes me,I made a fool of myself by getting all mellow when she didn't want me back, crying on the phone and such. Right after we broke up she said she didn't care anymore, she didnt think about me anymore etc.
At moments I still wish it was me instead of that new BF and stuff. I just need to **** someone.
Didn't do any approaches on completely unknown girls, couldn't figure out something to say, although I know some default openers. I'm still not sure what this is, approach anxiety or something else.
Flirted a bit with the 1st girl I dated with (the one I was too scared to kiss) ,and some drunk UG was kinda in to me.
Another UG chickfriend was kinoing me, like she always does, we talk about sex alot, so I figured I'd **** her.
I isolated her, and ... we talked.
My wing drove us home, and put us off at my place. But she didn't want to come in, she was walking home. Didn't make much sense.
But then again, girls just don't make sense. ASD/LJBF
This is my story. I hope someone has some advice on how to get to the next level of PUA. (Which is, probably, the first level. lol)
Just found this forum.
Going to do a fast forward:
I was 18. Never had a girl (no kiss/sex). The first girl that was into me, I was too scared to kiss her, and after the 3th date she just gave up on me.
At this moment I started reading DYD and stuff.
Then I got into a lucky LTR. First time sex after 2 days.
I felt in control, broke up after 1 year, because I was bored of her. Stupid me, I felt sorry 1 day later, and she didn't want me back.
This was 3 months ago. Immediatly after the breakup I started reading up on PUA again, especially mASF.
It helped my inner game, or state, I feel/look better, I can now hold eyecontact, and am more social.
Still I can't just approach someone I don't know, without having a reason to approach (like I have to ask something, or there's just something going on at the moment that I can talk about) - and IF I open, I often don't have any followup. Yes, I know routines, but I never really use them.
So that's basically it. People on mASF are more advanced, people told me to come here because this place is more noob friendly.
Been going out as much as possible with my wing, but usually we just stand there at the party, and don't do much besides social circle stuff. He's doing better then me though, he already kiss closed a girl.
Like I just came back from a party, my ex-LTR was there and I got thrown out of state every time I saw her making out with her new BF. Ignored her. It's probably in my head, but it seemed she was trying to make me jealous, making out in front of me, I'd turn around, and she would just stop doing it. Or coming standing near me every moment. It's not because she still likes me,I made a fool of myself by getting all mellow when she didn't want me back, crying on the phone and such. Right after we broke up she said she didn't care anymore, she didnt think about me anymore etc.
At moments I still wish it was me instead of that new BF and stuff. I just need to **** someone.
Didn't do any approaches on completely unknown girls, couldn't figure out something to say, although I know some default openers. I'm still not sure what this is, approach anxiety or something else.
Flirted a bit with the 1st girl I dated with (the one I was too scared to kiss) ,and some drunk UG was kinda in to me.
Another UG chickfriend was kinoing me, like she always does, we talk about sex alot, so I figured I'd **** her.
I isolated her, and ... we talked.
My wing drove us home, and put us off at my place. But she didn't want to come in, she was walking home. Didn't make much sense.
But then again, girls just don't make sense. ASD/LJBF
This is my story. I hope someone has some advice on how to get to the next level of PUA. (Which is, probably, the first level. lol)