My next move...

[BxPrince24]

Ok, so I've been talking to this girl for a while. She's seeing someone, but I still wanna get with her. So right now things are just ok with me and her I guess, but she's cautious about what she does because of the fact that she's with someone and she doesn't want them to get upset. For example, I can't just go over to her house whenever I feel like, she doesn't want to come over to my house, etc... stuff like that.

I just need more tips/advice on where to go from here. I almost feel like things may go stale between me and her. But I feel we're kinda close now and she has some interest in me, she's brought me over to her house and I met her family, showed me pics of her, i can rest my hand around her waist with no problems, etc... I'm going to do more reading around the forums and see what else I can come up with, but can you guys offer some advice aswell? thanx.

 

[BrotherAP]

Every day we answer the same damn questions - do you know what we do with girls who have boyfriends? Have you ever heard of one-itis? Do you think she'd let you put your hand on her waist if she didn't think you were so non-threatening that she wasn't concerned? Do you want to be a DJ, or an AFC little *****? Think it over.

 

[BxPrince24]

Definately my goal is to be a DJ. I've seen how far she'd let me go, touch wise. She knows that I'm interested in her sexually, I tell her alot of things that let her know that.

For instance, we were on the train and she was singing to one of the songs we were listening to.

I said "you got a real sexy voice, I can picture you screaming my name" she had that shocked look then kinoed me saying i can't say things like that. I said "it doesn't hurt to fantasize". I've just been dropping things like that, saying how sexy she looks, etc... not often but every now and then.

I've also been trying to get some mental kino going on, I've teased her a few times and we have good convos. I can ask her anything.

But like I said, there must be something I still need to learn. So I'll continue looking for the answer, and leave more advice/tips. thanks.

 

[BxPrince24]

Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
My advice is that there are millions of other girls that don't have boyfriends. Go find one of them.

If she cheats on him with you what's stopping her from cheating on you??

I've thought of that one myself. But then again maybe I have what he lacks (or will soon have). she's pretty much a 9 out a 10, very attractive and a naturally fun girl. I don't wanna just pass that by.

But yea, I definately need to start building up my fan base lol. She's one of the few girls that I hang out with. So rather than spending my time doing nothing I'm gonna go out and meet more girls. But I still wanna hook up with this girl if possible.

 

[BxPrince24]

by the way, she wants me to go with her to six flags on her b-day. And for me, rollercoasters are fun while they're going up but the feeling going down is just "uncomfortable" lol. The last time I've been on a roller coaster was about 2 years ago. So, should I seize the opportunity, face my fears, and go with her or should I not and find something else to do?

 

[BrotherAP]

Does she want you to go with just her, or are there other people (i.e. her boyfriend) coming? If it's just you two, make sure there's a 'happy ending', and don't get too attached - she's not girlfriend material if she cheats. She's not friend material if she doesn't.

 

[BxPrince24]

she said her and her family. And I'm sure she wouldn't had invited me if she was going to bring her bf.

 

[BrotherAP]

Eh, I wouldn't really want to go with her and her family - and that definitely seems 'friends zone'

 

[BxPrince24]

yea, thats what I was just thinking. I should be aiming for something more alone with her. So I'll cancel then follow up with something like i'm going to lazer park on saturday, you're welcome to join me. Something like that.

 

[BxPrince24]

well... last night me and her were leaving a meeting and we live close to each other so i brought her to the train stop. I pretty much ignored her half the time we were at the meeting. Right after we left she was telling me she's hungry, she want's mc donalds or pizza. So I said get whatever you want, I'm not paying. So we went to mc donalds and we grab a seat then she procedes to calling her lover, i felt like just getting up and walking off right there, but it was like 12 AM and I didn't want her taking the train home by herself.

So she's there talking with her lover until we get on the train. Then she starts talking to me, kinoing me, resting her head on me, etc... I'm sitting there thinking to myself, do I look like your man? I was just slightly pissed and annoyed of the whole situation. Anyways I wait with her at the bus stop, when the bus comes we hug/kiss on the cheek, leave.

This morning we had to meet up to go n see one of our Assistant Managers. And today I was just like I'm going to ignore the hell outta her. We meet up and she's all like "Hi sweety? How are u doin? etc.." I play along but I really didn't pay her much attention. when we got to my AM's house, we sat in a couch and she was kinoing me again, touching my leg, pretending to punch me in my face, resting herself over me, etc... When we leave her lover meets up with us, I didn't even look at them even though they weren't hugging or nothin like that, but i guess I was a little jealous. they left, i went home.

I don't know man. I shouldn't be wasting my time no matter how good she looks. It just sucks tho. Today I was just like fvck it... What I really need to do tho is meet more girls.

 

[HeartlessBtch]

:cuss: OK THIS IS IT!!!! I've about had it with these posts.... GENTLEMEN DO NOT APPROACH WOMEN THAT ARE TAKEN!!!! RED FLAGS WARNINGS AND OTHERS MIGHT APPEAR....is it a male thing to want what you cant have?!?!! STOP!!!! Put it this way, if there's a million of fish in the sea why would you want to go for the one that's in the sharks mouth?!?!?! unless you want to settle bing the cleaning fish who sucks and eats the sh*t and the leftovers ....case closed!

 

[Ebach]

hey, someone take this ***** outta here.... she's ruIning the boards

 

[Ebach]

or maybe i should put my big **** in her mouth so she shuts the hell up... that's what she wants anyway

 

[HeartlessBtch]

Originally posted by Ebach
or maybe i should put my big **** in her mouth so she shuts the hell up... that's what she wants anyway

:crackup:

 

[HeartlessBtch]

I love these boards....we always get the jokers ...Heres dear :flowers:

 

[Ebach]

jokers eh? open your mouth