Canadian Catnip
Senior Don Juan
I've been reading about NLP and re-framing for a few years now and I have been working on re-framing myself from a AFC to a PUA.
The PUA I try to be is laid back, at ease, funny and non needy etc. This new frame seems to attract more women than the AFC I used to be, but the problem is that my frame is of a AFC putting on an act of being a PUA.
As you can tell it's not a good frame to have. Has anyone else fallen into this trap and if so how did you work it out in your mind to finally kill the AFC frame?
I'm still AFC at my core wrapped in a PUA cover. Sort of like a Peanut M&M. I am afraid that if the women I'm with bites into me she will find the AFC peanut inside. Perhaps it's a bad metaphor but It's all I could come up with at this time.
Anyone know how to change this thinking?
The PUA I try to be is laid back, at ease, funny and non needy etc. This new frame seems to attract more women than the AFC I used to be, but the problem is that my frame is of a AFC putting on an act of being a PUA.
As you can tell it's not a good frame to have. Has anyone else fallen into this trap and if so how did you work it out in your mind to finally kill the AFC frame?
I'm still AFC at my core wrapped in a PUA cover. Sort of like a Peanut M&M. I am afraid that if the women I'm with bites into me she will find the AFC peanut inside. Perhaps it's a bad metaphor but It's all I could come up with at this time.
Anyone know how to change this thinking?