My new AFC proof strategy!!!

[DonGorgon]

Well i have found that women are playing more games than ever and giving more and more tests all to see if you will become AFC or fall for them too fast. I have a new "ZERO TOLERANCE RULE" I am using.

1. I NUMBER CLOSE
2. Call within 3 days
3. First call is to make basic connection - If none if delete number (if she says "let me call you back" i delete her number...
4. If she makes no contact I call one more time to set a date - Any BS on this call and I delete her number.
5. If she flakes I delete her number - If the flake was legit that she can call and plead her case..
6. If we go on a date and it goes well I will call within 2 days to say i had a good time etc. IF she does not reciprocate I will delete her number.

Basically I cut down on prolonged BS by deleting their numbers so i cant call them in a moment of weakness and frustration when they are BS'ing...

I used this on a plate that started BSing after we F'ed a few times... I deleted her number and 6 weeks later she calls to F...

The fact is that we men get week and tend to call when we shouldnt but if we delete the number then we are helping ourselves to avoid that huge mistake.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Good premis but how about:

1. Suggest meeting at another time and counter if she's busy. If she doesn't want to get together with you at a later time, NEXT.

Thats it.

• No jerking around with phone numbers which women will give you whether or not they are interested.
• No waiting three days to make a connection. If you can't make a connection with her right off the bat, what makes you think you can do it in three days? Are either of you going to magically change into someone else in three days??!! It may take 10 minutes, it may take a half an hour or more. If you don't impress her right away, you set yourself up to having to play catch up in trying to build her interest later. Why do you think that she doesn't return your call? You didn't interest her enough in the first place! Why should she return your call?
• None of the BS waiting around for her to make contact with you. Why not plan a get together while you both are right there??!!

Your plan makes sense logically but who's really doing the BS's?

• You close but wait three days to call
• You wait until you call to make a basic connection
• You don't ask to get together right off the bat
• If you do go out on a date, you wait a couple of days until you let her know that you had a good time

All of this effort and time could easily be saved by DJing her right off the bat and closing with what you really want, a meeting; not just a phone call. She's either interested or not. Wouldn't it be better to find out straight away instead of taking a bunch of steps with these two and three day waits in between?

Just sayin'....

 

[DonGorgon]

Wouldn't it be better to find out straight away instead of taking a bunch of steps with these two and three day waits in between?

Just sayin'....

I hear you but very often when you move things too fast they sense desperation and or impatience.

Yeh you will have some lucky instant connections but most picky and choosy HB9s and 10s will often be more tricky due to the number of options they have..

My plan is really designed to help us men practice restraint from calling when we should not be..

 

[Kev07]

think of all the opportunities you are missing out from your tactic...

true you'll weed out a lot of bs though, but this to me, just sounds like running away from your problem.

 

[frisco]

Nexting are girl is ultimately, giving in to defeat. Shes won and taken your value.
But if your just going for lays and not actually being natural because that is what you should thrive to learn, you will probably meet allot of girls who don't meet your ideal idea for a women.

 

[Mistic]

If you're trying to cut out the crap and get straight to the point, why not the APOC opener. If she does anything but comply, deleter her ass on the spot. #'s games are for kids.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Nexting are girl is ultimately, giving in to defeat. Shes won and taken your value.

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.... How is deciding (sooner than later) that a woman isn't worth your time and effort devaluing yourself as a man? A man shouldn't make this type of decision? He should put up with BS and games? Is this what you do?

 

[Mistic]

Good premis but how about:

1. Suggest meeting at another time and counter if she's busy. If she doesn't want to get together with you at a later time, NEXT.

Thats it.

• No jerking around with phone numbers which women will give you whether or not they are interested.
• No waiting three days to make a connection. If you can't make a connection with her right off the bat, what makes you think you can do it in three days? Are either of you going to magically change into someone else in three days??!! It may take 10 minutes, it may take a half an hour or more. If you don't impress her right away, you set yourself up to having to play catch up in trying to build her interest later. Why do you think that she doesn't return your call? You didn't interest her enough in the first place! Why should she return your call?
• None of the BS waiting around for her to make contact with you. Why not plan a get together while you both are right there??!!

Your plan makes sense logically but who's really doing the BS's?

• You close but wait three days to call
• You wait until you call to make a basic connection
• You don't ask to get together right off the bat
• If you do go out on a date, you wait a couple of days until you let her know that you had a good time

All of this effort and time could easily be saved by DJing her right off the bat and closing with what you really want, a meeting; not just a phone call. She's either interested or not. Wouldn't it be better to find out straight away instead of taking a bunch of steps with these two and three day waits in between?

Just sayin'....

Wow, that's the longest reply I have ever seen from you. Does this have something to do with the 10 post rule? :crackup: This many words would normally be divided into about 50 of your usual 1 - 2 word replies.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Wow, that's the longest reply I have ever seen from you. Does this have something to do with the 10 post rule? :crackup: This many words would normally be divided into about 50 of your usual 1 - 2 word replies.

Some threads merit a bit of dissection. I'm not one for long drawn out diatribes but I have a handful of posts scattered about that use bulletpoints.

 

[Mavrick]

I don't belive you should ever "NEXT" a girl. Simply shift some effort from that girl to other plates you are spinning. When that prior girl makes contact again, simply add her back to the mix. "Oneitis" and "nexting" are two sides of the same coin; both options give the girl way too much power. HB9's and up have many options and you will have to give and take for a while to see if they come around.

Please explain why contact is all she has to do to get back on your good side. Do you mean that we should start spinning them as plates once they've shown that they are trying as apposed to just contacting us? I have plenty of exes that contact me, but that doesn't mean I'm going to add them into the fold. I'm not that easy.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...I have plenty of exes that contact me, but that doesn't mean I'm going to add them into the fold. I'm not that easy.

Amen brother.

 

[MacAvoy]

I have plenty of exes that contact me, but that doesn't mean I'm going to add them into the fold. I'm not that easy.

No you just let your ex wife LIVE with you. HAHA

 

[Mavrick]

No you just let your ex wife LIVE with you. HAHA

No, fvcknuts, she lives in my house and she pays me rent, and I live in an apartment. That's the way I wanted it. So, fvck you and your mother, too.

Get your sh!t straight before you try to put someone down.

 

[MacAvoy]

No, fvcknuts, she lives in my house and she pays me rent, and I live in an apartment. That's the way I wanted it. So, fvck you and your mother, too.

Get your sh!t straight before you try to put someone down.

HAHA for someone who has all the answers & talks so inspirational, you seem to have anger issues. Another KBJ shows his true colours.

 

[Mavrick]

HAHA for someone who has all the answers & talks so inspirational, you seem to have anger issues. Another KBJ shows his true colours.

For someone who knows it all, you sure do like to put others down to make yourself look better.

Well, you don't look good to me, and to me, that's all that matters. So, I'm done with you.

It's funny how you learn little silly acronyms (and KBJ is one you've learned recently) and try to look cool on a little forum. Leave me be, little man.

 

[frisco]

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.... How is deciding (sooner than later) that a woman isn't worth your time and effort devaluing yourself as a man?

In context as you wrote it yes if you date a girl and realize she is not adding to your lifestyle then by all means next her. But In context as i wrote to the thread starter if you next a girl simply becuase she wont go on a date with you by the second call you are missing out on allot of good women and learning experinces at the very least.

 

[DonGorgon]

Wow, that's the longest reply I have ever seen from you. Does this have something to do with the 10 post rule? :crackup: This many words would normally be divided into about 50 of your usual 1 - 2 word replies.

The 10 post rule sucks and needs to be changed..:cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:

 

[DonGorgon]

I don't belive you should ever "NEXT" a girl. Simply shift some effort from that girl to other plates you are spinning. When that prior girl makes contact again, simply add her back to the mix. "Oneitis" and "nexting" are two sides of the same coin; both options give the girl way too much power. HB9's and up have many options and you will have to give and take for a while to see if they come around.

Well if they call me an a progressive vibe i will add their number back but delete it again as soon as they BS the perpose is to keep me from calling her over and over when she is BS'ing

 

[DonGorgon]

No you just let your ex wife LIVE with you. HAHA

WOW!!!:crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

No, fvcknuts, she lives in my house and she pays me rent, and I live in an apartment. That's the way I wanted it. So, fvck you and your mother, too.

Get your sh!t straight before you try to put someone down.

DAMN!!!:crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

 

[DonGorgon]

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.... How is deciding (sooner than later) that a woman isn't worth your time and effort devaluing yourself as a man? A man shouldn't make this type of decision? He should put up with BS and games? Is this what you do?

Thats what i was wondering..

But keep in mind its all about not calling her so if the number is not available i cant dial it...