My mother passed!!

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Most of you guys know how much I love this forum.Saved me from alot of heart ache in school.Made me want to join the military although I couldnt get in do to my eyesight .Mom passes and feeling depressed but she was a major force in my life very influential in me keeping an open mind on things.!
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Mom passes and feeling depressed but she was a major force in my life very influential in me keeping an open mind on things.!
No matter how you feel, this is how it should be. Parents have children and if all goes well, they die while their child lives on, and they live on in the child's memory.
You're no longer a child, but as long as you remember your mom, she's alive in your memory.
She did her job raising you.
Now it's your job to take what she gave you, and make something of your life.
That will be the best way to remember her.

My condolences.
 

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Sorry to hear that. My Mom has always been a constant source of encouragement and compassion in my life. I'm not looking forward to the day I have to say goodbye.
 

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Good luck bro.

Use moments like this to REALLY reflect what life means to you. And realize our time is limited.

Make the best out of life.
 

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Most of you guys know how much I love this forum.Saved me from alot of heart ache in school.Made me want to join the military although I couldnt get in do to my eyesight .Mom passes and feeling depressed but she was a major force in my life very influential in me keeping an open mind on things.!
Hi Eli,
Yeah you must be chewing on lifes gristle right now....You only have one Mum its a real kick in the guts when they go....My Old Mum was married in 1940 After Dads ship came back from the Campaign in Norway,from there to mid 1946 she saw him maybe a total of a few months as he was at Sea,The Mediterranean,Russia,the Atlantic then the Pacific,he was sunk three times,twice in one Day LOL...She used carry me in a suitcase to shelter from the German Bombs in the underground Railway where she slept...Bonds like that when broken leave a big hole...Just remember the good times Eli,Commisserations.
 

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Thank you brothers love you all.This forum brought me out of my shell years ago and have been doing good since
 

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Most of you guys know how much I love this forum.Saved me from alot of heart ache in school.Made me want to join the military although I couldnt get in do to my eyesight .Mom passes and feeling depressed but she was a major force in my life very influential in me keeping an open mind on things.!
Sorry for your loss.
 

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Most of you guys know how much I love this forum.Saved me from alot of heart ache in school.Made me want to join the military although I couldnt get in do to my eyesight .Mom passes and feeling depressed but she was a major force in my life very influential in me keeping an open mind on things.!
I am sorry for your loss.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Most of you guys know how much I love this forum.Saved me from alot of heart ache in school.Made me want to join the military although I couldnt get in do to my eyesight .Mom passes and feeling depressed but she was a major force in my life very influential in me keeping an open mind on things.!
My condolences brother. Chin up and be the change you and she would want you to be.

Make sure when you do see her again, that you know she will be proud of you. Make that a driving force to progress on.
 

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You have my condolences.
 

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I think that for the bachelor, losing one's mother is more difficult, as she has been the most important woman in the world for him - and without a replacement woman in the form of a wife.
 

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Hi Eli,
Yeah you must be chewing on lifes gristle right now....You only have one Mum its a real kick in the guts when they go....My Old Mum was married in 1940 After Dads ship came back from the Campaign in Norway,from there to mid 1946 she saw him maybe a total of a few months as he was at Sea,The Mediterranean,Russia,the Atlantic then the Pacific,he was sunk three times,twice in one Day LOL...She used carry me in a suitcase to shelter from the German Bombs in the underground Railway where she slept...Bonds like that when broken leave a big hole...Just remember the good times Eli,Commisserations.
How old are you sir?
 
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