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You're F*cking Up in the Game Potna

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Mind you this girl has been doing the decorating at my apartment since she moved in with me and has no job.
Why (pray tel,)l at 24 do you feel the need to have a live-in girlfriend? One without a job to boot. Seriously though, is she that bad? And even if she is, is she taking care of her wifely duties?

1) Does she have breakfast prepared for you before you leave to work, have a lunch packed for you, and does she have dinner ready when you come?

2) Does she put on a load of clothes, drop the dry cleaning off, and do your ironing, INCLUDING your draws?

3) Is your home perpetually spotless without a molecule of dust to be found?

4) Does she make groceries? Or do you go to the grocery store together as a from of bonding?

5) Does she go to gym to in order to keep the weight off and to maintain her girlish figure?

If ole girl isn't doing these things, then what purpose does serve living in your home? Dude, you have a master's degree, you're about to embark on your entrepreneurial journey to financial stability and self made wealth and ole knows this, she's on a 21st Century version of a Jane Austen novel where she's the protagonist that's trying to align with a dude who can improve her life situation. Her hypergamous nature is kicking in like a muthaf*cka and she'll anything to lock you down.

AJ, you're only in your 20's once. You should be using this time to hang out, bang chicks, networking, developing business contacts, figuring, developing, and implementing your business plan. Not doing some Hugh Heffneresque trickin'. AJ cut this b*tch off before she ends up pregnant and you'll have to cash out for the next eighteen years. And that's something you need to ask ole girl, if she winds up pregnant, what would she do? If she says something other than have an abortion, then you're going to have to think long and hard about whether or not you want to be in this situation.
 

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Well I don't eat breakfast but she cooks everyday and has my lunch packed up. She goes grocery shopping by herself and does all types of laundry. She does do all the cleaning in the house and decorates. She is definitely on point when it comes to all that stuff. The problem is just arguing about mundane stuff that she shouldn't even have to argue about. I'm slick breaking my back in life right now to accommodate for everything and the least I can get back is 100% co-operation. The arguing has gone down from what it was a month ago but it's still there. I'm sick and tired of arguing why it's not acceptable to be in the clubs a lot. I tell her every time if it's a habit then I'll drop her straight up. It's just really draining on me... to the point where I don't even care anymore. Let's not count AJ out though. I got options and even though I haven't executed on these options if things get worst then it might be time to bring some bench players off the bench to play.

Life should be better once I start this contract job. More money seems to make me happy.
 

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Well darn my bubble just bust......

With these contract jobs I'm being offered I'm flying to different cities for months at a time and training doctors and nurses at hospitals. If I decided to do this thing full time I would have to quit my current job. At these contracts working a month is going to get me a good 10-12k easily because I am working hourly. Only downside is the consistent travelling.

Just talked to the fiancée about this now she tells me it is bad idea because what if I don't get a contract and that she doesn't want to live hotel to hotel. I understand where she is coming from but bring up us talking on the phone last week where she told me she didn't care if we moved crib to crib. She then gets mad and storms off.

I'm flustered a little bit but not really mad at all. I know not a lot of people would be cool with it. But she gets mad and storms off in the room.

This weekend hasn't been good at all. Arguing all weekend long. Back to the drawing board for me. I thought things was about to turn up but now it looks like a cross road. I can take these contracts a lot and make some serious cash and travel and lose out on a relationship or I can stick with my current job, have stability, and stick it out in this relationship.

The great thing about this contract work is the contracts are monthly. So even if I dumb down and go with option 2 if I ever needed some travel I'll just opt into a contract and travel for free while getting paid.
 

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Just reading back on my thread. I used to be that n*gga! Great game and will definitely have to bump this back up on some Business stuff.

BTW I chose doing Contract work instead of the "Stable" career.
 
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So now A.J. is single again.

If you want to know what happened you can find out in the link here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/we-all-go-through-it.229795/

Looking back on this thread I can honestly say except for the first 3 months of that relationship I was not happy in the relationship. Since that first May everything was a battle between us and fighting non stop like dogs. So now I have a little son to worry about but my ex moved to Florida with him. In that thread above I can see that there were a lot of flaws in the relationship and it should not have lasted so long. I must strive however to learn from the relationship and grow as well.

So I own my own consulting firm and work off contracts. I've been fortunate to have many contracts and have made a lot of money this year and I've been traveling a lot out of my home state of Georgia to work.

Here are some goals I want to set up for myself

1. Find some dime honeys to kick it with.
2. I would like to compile a list of everything that I want and not want in a female and promise myself to never settle again.
3. Make more $ then I'm currently making (I make great money but you can always make more)
4. Go to gym at least once a week.
5. Cook More
6. Start another business or invest in something
7. Get my temper under control. This was only a problem when I'm in LTR. Learn how to relieve stress in a better way then yelling or escalating.
 
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At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Went out solo dolo the weekend. I got approached by a hb6 on Friday and took her back to the crib that night. Wont hit her up because she's average looking at best (I would post the approach and encounter but low on time now). Saturday it was raining so not much happening there. I must get more comfortable going out by myself and regaining the confidence I once had especially when I made this journal.

Hopefully, I feel better this week. I'm still feeling bad about the whole breakup I just went through. I've fully gone NC even though we do have a son together. One thing that will make me feel better is some new chicks. I'm in a city that I'm not familiar with though for a month for work but I will make the best out of the situation.
 

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Well it's been a week and a half since the break up. It really got me down to work and it affected my performance. It's time for me to get over this bs and move on before it messes up my money. My baby moms is asking for way too much money and when I'm off I won't get the amount of time I want to spend with my son. But I really can't even fight anymore. I put myself in this situation and if I went to the courts I would probably be in a worst situation because of the lawyer costs. It is a good thing that I didn't tell her how much I really make. So she will only allow me to see my son one week out of the month I guess I will line my contracts to have just one week off per month. I'll also stop paying rent in December and move all my things to my parents house and a storage. So for the next month I'll be paying rent just to store all of my sh*t while I'm out of town working.

Sh*t sucks but life moves on. The next chick is always going to be better then the last. When I get my new spanish/foreign chick life is going to be looking good.


1. Find some dime honeys to kick it with.
Haven't really gone out since last weekend so haven't met anyone new yet.

2. I would like to compile a list of everything that I want and not want in a female and promise myself to never settle again.
Started it up last weekend. I don't plan on settling again.

3. Make more $ then I'm currently making (I make great money but you can always make more)
I've been applying for jobs but quite frankly I don't think they pay more then what I make now tbh. I want to find a way to leverage myself and charge 100+$ an hour.

4. Go to gym at least once a week.
Just left the gym today. I'm out of shape when it comes to running. I could barely run up and down the basketball court. I can still ball though. I guess my age is finally catching up to me.

5. Cook More
I've been eating the hotel food for free Monday through Wednesday. I will go grocery shopping and get food I can cook for this weekend.

6. Start another business or invest in something
Nothing yet. I must come up with a game plan.

7. Get my temper under control. This was only a problem when I'm in LTR. Learn how to relieve stress in a better way then yelling or escalating.
After doing some psychoanalysis today I figured out that my problem was two fold. Firstly I need to learn how to not yell. If I yell then things escalate so if I ever feel the need to yell then I need to walk away. Secondly I've been in a LTR with a girl I wasn't compatible with after the first couple months. During the first couple months (honeymoon phase) we were very comparable. After the first couple of months she changed and we weren't comparable. That is why all the issues and arguing started. I should've left then instead of trying to stick it out and during that time got her pregnant. Now I will pay for it for the next 18 years. Besides that LTR I didn't have a temper except getting mad when losing in sports... and I think thats normal for competitive people.
 

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Wow,

So today I go to work and I'm focused on work today. Literally an hour ago my Project Manager asks to speak with me. She sits me in the room and tells me that I am being released from the project a month early. I ask her Why and she doesn't even give me a reason. So I ask again and tell her that constructive criticism is always good and I would like to no. She then gets an attitude and tells me no again. She then tells me to leave.

So this really sucks. I have nothing lined up until December.
 

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So the weekend was fun. I still have a lot on my mind regarding my past relationship but I have been going no contact. Only thing that is talked about his my son. Very brief.

Thursday
So on Thursday I figured out I was fired from my job so I went out with some coworkers for dinner. These two chicks. So they keep buying me shots. So they get turnt up and then one of them starts kissing me. I was a little tipsy so I just went with it. She isn't ugly but she isn't light skinned and I only deal with light skinned and lighter colors. She was brown skinned. After the bar I didn't press any issues at the hotel. I did not wanna smash her. lol

Friday
Friday I go to New Orleans with the same chick from Thursday (she knows I just wanna be friends). She keeps buying shots and then I go around Frenchman Street and Bourbon Street looking for girls. I bag a bunch of honies that night. I remember making out with an asian chick at one of the clubs. So around 2:30AM I run into this Mexican/Guatemalan chick who is very cute. After I see her and her friend, I talk to her and one of my homies I just met talked to her friend. So we go to several different clubs and then someone from my group wanted to go to the Casino. So this chick needs to get something from her hotel room before we go to the Casino. So I head back to her hotel with her and start making out with her. I try to get her on the bed but she wants to go to the casino so I say OK. So we went to the casino and I'm holding her hand the entire way through. We go to the casino and play poker. I was so drunk I lost 200$ but I really didn't care. I wasn't even worried about it. After I walk out of the Casino its daylight!!! It was like 8 AM so I'm like sh!t. I need to go ahead and seal this deal. So we go back to her house and fool around. After that I have to head to the airport because to make my flight.

Saturday
So the only sleep I get is like 30 minutes with the Mexican chick and an hour on the plane. I run errands all day and then I meet up with some of my old boys. The boys that I used to go to the club with all the time when ever I'm single. Got a lot of numbers but I feel like the majority of the girls you meet at the club are on the defense. I got a few numbers but they were average. I'm definitely leaning towards the bar scene when going out from now on as opposed to clubs.

So I definitely had an entertaining single lifestyle weekend. Today, I've been moving and plan on moving all my things in storage and my parents house tomorrow. I'll be saving some money by not paying rent/utilities. My next concern is my next job. I have nothing lined up officially and I don't like to sit at home doing nothing. Especially living with my parents. I'm going to be looking for Full Time jobs as well as contract jobs (travel). Contracts do pay way better though. I'm undecided how long I want to live with my parents but know I will get a 2 bedroom apartment eventually.

On a side note. A lot of my boys were telling me to get Tinder but I don't have a Facebook. I may make one in the future just for it but now now. Does anyone have a lot of success with it?
 

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Well all week I have been applying for jobs. I don't have anything lined up until December 6. Hopefully I can get some calls in the next couple days because living at my parents is not the move and I don't plan on moving out because I travel so much for work. So anyways earlier this week I was able to move out my house. I didn't pay rent but gave the keys to the company. Hopefully a skip doesn't hurt my credit too bad. Prior to this I had absolutely excellent credit. I'll be saving a lot of money though not having to pay rent and utilities. For the past 12 months I've probably been there for a total of 4 months and I've been paying it day in and day out. I had to put the majority of my things in storage. I'll move in an apartment when I see myself not taking as many traveling contracts.

I am able to see my son for the next 7 days so that makes me happy. Get to spend time with him during the day and then let my parents see him in the evening.

So today is Thursday and this weekend is going to be another wild weekend for A.J. I can feel it. It is kind of weird however because I stay in my parents house now. Hopefully, I don't hear any crap when I go out. I'm trying to build up a new team A.J. in Atlanta and I'm recruiting now.

So here are my new goals.

1.) Build up a new team of bad b!tches. Certified dimes.
2.) Get a contract for November and start planning out my first quarter of 2016.
3.) Workout at least 1x a week.
 

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Well went out Friday and Saturday. I was able to get a lot of numbers but to be honest I don't like black chicks like that. When I mean black I mean brown and dark skinned. I've always been attracted to light skin girls and latinas. Didn't have the opportunity to meet too many light skinned chicks this weekend. It was raining all weekend so hopefully it is better next week. I got a lot of numbers but I'm not really interested in any of those girls.

Friday night went out to some bars in Atlanta. It was raining all weekend but I was able to bag a few honies. I went to the first bar alone. It was majority girls and it was a small place too. The drinks were very expensive so I went across the street to get cheaper drinks. By the time I came back to the first place they were charging 20$ so I didn't go back in. I do notice though that I don't have the same confidence I once had a few years ago. I must build it back up to what it was. Back in my prime I was hollering at every chick I thought was attractive. I never questioned myself ever. This is one of the main reasons I'm bringing this thread back. I gotta make sure I step my game up.

So I had a date Saturday night with this brown skinned girl. She was ok looking. Went out for drinks and food. The bill was 60$ and I felt bad for paying it. If I was feeling her then I would have no problem but I just feel like I wasted my money. Tom Leykis has a 40$ rule and I broke that. I know next time I go out with any chick it's going to be for the cheap. Couple of drinks and thats it. No food, no nothing. I actually felt used because I wasn't even feeling her like that. I don't know what I was thinking.

Saturday night was a blur. I got messed up and got a lot of numbers but I don't even remember what they look like. I even lost my car keys and had to pay 380$ for a new one. That sucks but o well. Nothing I can do about it.

Here are my goals for the week.

1.) Build up a new team of bad b!tches. Certified dimes.
2.) Get a contract for November and start planning out my first quarter of 2016 for work.
3.) Workout at least 1x a week.
4.) No soda. Eat more healthy. I have to get more fit.
 

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Ok the week is going my fast. Past couple days I've just been spending time with my 6 month old. Feels good to spend time with him. Sucks that he lives in a different state :/. My ex called me a couple days ago and asked why I didn't try harder to get her back. I'm not the type of guy to chase a chick, either she wants me or she doesn't. She then asked me the next day to move to Florida and get back together with her. I have been thinking about it to be honest but it doesn't make sense to follow a woman. It would never worked. The relationship didn't even work out when we were in Georgia. I don't think it would work out in Florida. It's funny how she didn't have a job for 2 years and we she goes to Florida she is already substitute teaching. While we were together it was big fights over her not working and she never even thought about getting a job. She never appreciated being a stay at home mom and when she starts working for little money she is gonna be look back and appreciate how she had it made. So tomorrow I gotta drive a long way to drop off my son and I won't see him until Christmas. If anyone is out there reading my thread don't have children out of wedlock. This is what will happen when you break up.

So I've had no success getting a contract for November but I have multiple contracts lined up for the beginning of next year. Only problem is the only contract I have in January is low balling me by 10-15$. I'm trying to play tough but it's better then staying at the house not making anything. I got offered an extension in August for the hospital I've worked for 5 months in Boston and the extension would have lasted me until March. I declined it so I could come back to Georgia and spend time with my then fiancee. Biggest financial mistake I made this year, the people on that project are flying to Dominican Republic off the clients money. I messed up big time. Next contract I have for sure is in December.

If any guys here are big on travel and plan on making trips anywhere let me know. I've pretty much have time to kill from tomorrow (November 12) until December 6. I'm down to go anywhere that has beautiful women.

So heres my goals and the progress on them

1.) Build up a new team of bad b!tches. Certified dimes. (Nothing yet)
2.) Get a contract for November and start planning out my first quarter of 2016 for work. (Nothing yet)
3.) Workout at least 1x a week. (Spending time with my son, I've had no time)
4.) No soda. Eat more healthy. I have to get more fit. (I've been eating better, haven't drank any soda)
 

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Well it's Sunday. Went out with my Frat brothers both on Friday and Saturday.

Friday was an alright night. I was talking to this Puerto Rican chick that one of my frat brothers know. I was trying to bag her but didn't. She liked one of my other brothers so its all good. Went to a bunch of different bars and got one number but really wasn't interested. Was cute but not light skinned. Not my cup of tea. It was cool seeing my frat brothers though since I haven't seen them in almost two years.

Saturday night was cool too. Went to a club and as soon as I get into the spot I meet this older chick (42). We talk for a little bit and then she buys me a couple of drinks. After a couple drinks and talking for about an hour we leave the spot. So mind you she came with her friend and I came with my frat brother. He was entertaining the friend but after we left they wanted to come to the house. So I was thinking it was an easy smash. Turns out my frat bruh wasn't too interested in her so he didn't want them to come through. My chick was trying to come through but because my brother didn't want them to come through we just charged that to the game.

This girl would be an easy smash anytime I want. We will see if I'm ever in the mood to hit it.

Looking back on yesterday, I should have just got her number and moved on to other chicks. She was a 6.5/10 at best. I thought it was an easy smash and I would've smashed her easily in my car but I didn't drive to the club and my brother wouldn't let me smash her in his car. It's all good though. That's what happens when chicks buys you drinks and gets you too turn up.

This week I'm looking to go out to more happy hours in the daytime. I want to meet a fine chick that's got some paper. Time to establish a good team in Atlanta.

I still haven't got a project in November and it doesn't look like I will get one in November. I do have projects lined up however for December, January, February, and March already so I'll be just fine. I've also done some side hustles doing remote training for people that are wanting to get in the game. Already have one customer and made 1500$. Nice little side hustle.

So here is my goals and how they are coming.


1.) Build up a new team of bad b!tches. Certified dimes. (Nothing yet, got some chicks but not dimes)
2.) Get a contract for November and start planning out my first quarter of 2016 for work. (Nothing yet)
3.) Workout at least 1x a week. (Been hitting the treadmill lately. Plan on making this a habit)
4.) No soda. Eat more healthy. I have to get more fit. (I haven't drank Soda by itself. I'm feeling healthier since I've been on the treadmill and mostly drinking water.)
 

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So I guess it's time for me to get back into the approach game during the day too!

So yesterday I dropped one of my coworkers to the airport in Atlanta. She wanted to try this seafood restaurant so I said OK cool. So at the restaurant the waiter is a light skinned chick. She was 7/10 but she could be easily smash able. So heres how the conversation went.

AJ: So where are you from?
W8R: I'm from (forgot where lol) but I moved to Atlanta recently.
AJ: *So I started talking to her about her NFL team*
W8R: *Banter about NFL team*
AJ: So what brings you to Atlanta
W8R: I came here for school and (whole bunch of crap that I forgot now)
AJ: That's cool, we need to kick it.
W8R: Yea, we should
AJ: You have your phone on you? Pull it out and take my number down.
W8R: I can't pull out my phone because my manager is right behind us. *She then proceeds to write down her number on a piece of paper and give it to me*
AJ: Ok cool, I'll hit you up and we can go from there.

I gotta start going out more during the day and picking up woman. Some of the most cooperative females I've ever had were picked up in the day. To anyone reading my thread where do you guys go to get your macking on during the day?
 

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Been a chill week. I have work lined up until April so I'm just getting everything lined up for the next couple of months. Besides that I've been chilling. Was able to knock down the puerto rican chick I met last weekend. She is very co-operative. Feels good to have a chick take me out and pay for things. I really kinda enjoy it. This is how it's supposed to be. So here are my goals and how I've fared so far.

1.) Build up a new team of bad b!tches. Certified dimes. (No dimes yet,)
2.) Get a contract for November and start planning out my first quarter of 2016 for work. (Nothing for November, Got projects lined up until April)
3.) Workout at least 1x a week. (I've been hitting the treadmill everyday so I've been more healthy)
4.) No soda. Eat more healthy. I have to get more fit. (I haven't drank Soda by itself. I'm feeling healthier since I've been on the treadmill and mostly drinking water.)

Going out this weekend again. I know it's going to be a good weekend in Atlanta to meet some dimes. I'm only in Atlanta for two more weeks until I go to Kentucky. I need a strong Point Guard for Team A.J..
 

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Been a chill week. I have work lined up until April so I'm just getting everything lined up for the next couple of months. Besides that I've been chilling. Was able to knock down the puerto rican chick I met last weekend. She is very co-operative. Feels good to have a chick take me out and pay for things. I really kinda enjoy it. This is how it's supposed to be. So here are my goals and how I've fared so far.

1.) Build up a new team of bad b!tches. Certified dimes. (No dimes yet,)
2.) Get a contract for November and start planning out my first quarter of 2016 for work. (Nothing for November, Got projects lined up until April)
3.) Workout at least 1x a week. (I've been hitting the treadmill everyday so I've been more healthy)
4.) No soda. Eat more healthy. I have to get more fit. (I haven't drank Soda by itself. I'm feeling healthier since I've been on the treadmill and mostly drinking water.)

Going out this weekend again. I know it's going to be a good weekend in Atlanta to meet some dimes. I'm only in Atlanta for two more weeks until I go to Kentucky. I need a strong Point Guard for Team A.J..
Sounds like your doing a lot better then before. Congrats. Definitely quit the soda. I quit soda 4 years ago and my life's been great without it. I also gave up fast food earlier this year. Every once and a while, I still get the taste for soda, but I stay strong and ignore it.
 

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This weekend was pretty good. I got a lot of chicks numbers for the two days.

Friday

Went to a club and wasn't feeling it so immediately went to some bars downtown Atlanta. As soon as I walk in this chick tells me to sit by her. We have a brief conversation then she asks me to buy her drink. So, I said to her that she needs to buy the first round then I'll buy the second round. She then says that I should buy the first round then she will buy the second round. I say ok cool. So after I talk to her for a little bit more she gets tangled up with her friends and pretty much curves me.

I felt dumb for falling for that one. From now on I actually will refuse to buy a chick a drink if just met her.

After that I go upstairs to the bar thats upstairs and try to talk to a couple chicks. Some of the chicks didn't seem interested but I see this Peruvian chick but she is overweight so I was really just occupying myself because all the girls I was tryna talk to there wasn't having it. Have a cool conversation with her and she wants to come home with me but I wanted to go on the street and street mack before I thought about doing anything. After I leave her I go outside and then talk to this white girl thats with her friends. They were in a hurry to leave so I just slid her my number and she texted me immediately and said she wanted to hang out so I'm like cool.
 

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Saturday

All day Saturday I was at my frat brothers house watching College Football. We went to an apartment complex because they had free food. While there I see this nice looking light skinned chick. So she approached me and asks to sit at the table I was at. I told her yea, but she has to sit next to me. So she then proceeds to sit next to me and we have a small little conversation. After I find out she has her own company I was a little bit more interested in her. Before I leave I tell her to take my number down and then she texted me immediately. I texted her back saying I enjoyed our conversation and that we need to finish it some other time.

As night time approaches I go to my boys house and then we hit the club. I was able to get 4-5 numbers all from white and Spanish girls. So my conversation started is always the same thing. I start with a hey how are you doing? and then proceed to say let me get a conversation. It's all about confidence when you go up into a spot. I must've hollered at like 15+ girls in that club.

After the club the girl from the previous night which was Peruvian 1 was blowing my line up trying to come see. As I'm talking to her I see a car full of Phillipina and one spanish chick. This is right outside my friends apartment. So I rolled to the club with three of my boys and its three of them so I think that its a good matchup considered one of my boys went with a chick he met at the club. I walk up to the car and ask them what they are doing. They said they just came home from the club and I told the spanish chick who was driving if they want to hang out with us. She says yea that she wants to hang out with us and asks do I smoke. Now if everyone knows me they know that I don't smoke at all. I tell her that I can't smoke for my job but I'll drink and she can smoke.

When we head up to their apartment we really just chilled. My chick was smoking and I was drinking. I was trying to isolate her and everything. She was kissing me and everything but she wouldn't let me take her to the bedroom. After about an hour of kissing and feeling on her I get tired and give her my number and then head home. It was fun though because it was 3 on 3 with my boys and we were all tryna smash.

I think my night game is pretty good. I really want to work on my day game though however. I went to the mall yesterday and let a couple nice looking chicks walk past me. My night game I felt was solid and I got a lot of nice looking chicks. My next goal is to smash some of these girls.

Here are some of my goals for this week specifically:

1. Do some day time approaches. I want to set up 2x this week where I focus on day macking.
2. Hit the treadmill 5x this week (Monday through Friday.
3. Hit the gym and lift weights once this week.
4. Knock down at least one of the chicks I met this past weekend.

So I'm in town until December 1st. I got another contract in Maryland so I'll be leaving after next weekend.
 

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Heres my goals and how I've fared.

1. Do some day time approaches. I want to set up 2x this week where I focus on day macking.

(I went to the mall 2x this past week. First time I didn't holla at anything as there were no options. Second time was the same exact thing. I somehow went to the mall that was so family orientated.)

2. Hit the treadmill 5x this week. Monday through Friday.

(I did good, Ran actually Monday-Saturday.)

3. Hit the gym and lift weights once this week.

(Did not hit the gym or any weights)

4. Knock down at least one of the chicks I met this past weekend.

(Had a bunch of dates but didn't smash any new chicks this past weekend)
 

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