my journal =)

[lolxP]

i saw a thread that suggested somethin called a seduction journal and i decided to start one since im still pretty AFC like and today was the first day of school. so y not track my progress eh? also it would be appreciated if people commented from time to time if i like ask questions or somethin. so here goes

day1, 9/5/06
since i came to this site in the summer i hadnt really had a chance to use any of the tips till today. so basically i tried out some basic stuff like smiling and goin up to the girl i wanted to talk to. not much to say today, but some basic stuff really does work =) this girl i know said hi to me and i turned around (since i was talkin to a different friend atm) and said hi *her name* and put on a genuine smile. oddly enuf right after BAM she smiled right back and got all uh smiley like. i was actually a bit thrown off by her reaction so i looked at her a bit teasingly like she was some weirdo and she started laughing. my friend and i were sorta leavin atm so i decided to make eye contact, smile, slight wave and i said bye. pretty sure i left with a good impression.
havent found a girl i like yet so i think imma jus experiment with different techniques and c how different girls respond to them until i find a girl i like. no questions for today i guess.

 

[Black Circle]

Don't spell "with" like "wif". Not to be rude but that's how a toddler speaks and yea son you need work if you consider that to be your sex life highlight haha.

 

[lolxP]

i guess ill edit some stuff into correct spelling -.-'' and no those arent like highlights of my day or anything >.> u act like ive never talked to any girls before. jus felt like reinforcing a basic principle like smiling incase anyone out there might feel it doesnt work.

 

[lolxP]

i dunno what day this is lol ^_^;;. anywayz today i was chattin with a girl i used to like. (lol guess i kinda like her again) i dunno if anyone read my old thread, but she was the girl i was kinda havin oneitis for. i havent really been talkin to her much lately, but today i decided to cuz she had a sad away msg on her aim sn. i dont know if i shoulda done this or not, but i started by sayin somethin like "u can always talk to me if u wanna talk about something." i know that doesnt make me look like "the prize" and also makes me more of the older brother type but i jus had to say it cuz i actually was wondering wuts wrong. well anywayz we have a long convo. i try not to ask questions that she could answer with just a yes or no, i was C&F (lols thas how i normally am actually), and oddly enuf after awhile she asked ME if i wanted to chill with her sometime afterschool. then i ended by sayin i had to do homework, which i actually did have to do. i told her to msg me when she wants to hang out. i prolly shoulda set a date myself but i couldnt really think of anything.

i dont know wuts going on guys >.> first of all i dont really wanna take advantage of her if shes like vulnerable or something. she got a boyfriend a lil bit after i told her i liked her a long time ago, but now hes gone to college (we're in high school) and i think thas why she might be sad. i dont know if anything is goin on between the two of them but i get the feeling that she still likes him alot... i was wonderin if any of you know why she asked me to hang out with her. is it cuz she was feeling a bit lonely or cuz she likes or for any other reason?

 

[Void]

i dunno what day this is lol ^_^;;. anywayz today i was chattin with a girl i used to like. (lol guess i kinda like her again) i dunno if anyone read my old thread, but she was the girl i was kinda havin oneitis for. i havent really been talkin to her much lately, but today i decided to cuz she had a sad away msg on her aim sn. i dont know if i shoulda done this or not, but i started by sayin somethin like "u can always talk to me if u wanna talk about something." i know that doesnt make me look like "the prize" and also makes me more of the older brother type but i jus had to say it cuz i actually was wondering wuts wrong. well anywayz we have a long convo. i try not to ask questions that she could answer with just a yes or no, i was C&F (lols thas how i normally am actually), and oddly enuf after awhile she asked ME if i wanted to chill with her sometime afterschool. then i ended by sayin i had to do homework, which i actually did have to do. i told her to msg me when she wants to hang out. i prolly shoulda set a date myself but i couldnt really think of anything.

i dont know wuts going on guys >.> first of all i dont really wanna take advantage of her if shes like vulnerable or something. she got a boyfriend a lil bit after i told her i liked her a long time ago, but now hes gone to college (we're in high school) and i think thas why she might be sad. i dont know if anything is goin on between the two of them but i get the feeling that she still likes him alot... i was wonderin if any of you know why she asked me to hang out with her. is it cuz she was feeling a bit lonely or cuz she likes or for any other reason?

Dude you gotta cut down on the video games. I know ^_^;; is a GAMER term because I used to play those games. Sc, Wc3 tft, cs. Etc. The list goes on. Gaming it up isn't good for the ladies in LARGE doses.

Anyways i cant tell you why she wants to hangout with you. But I can tell you that, if she's good looking, there's nothing wrong if you try to do her while she's in a slump. That's the best time actually. Then think about this, after you hook up/go out with her, all her friends will know about you! Definitely hangout with her.

 

[GaryUranga]

lol you have a long way to go.. dont leave it up to her to set dates.

 

[Mr_rogers]

get a livejournal or blogger. the forums aren't a place for journals.

... the hell is this? I'm almost positive we're allowed to put our progress/field reports in one big thread.

 

[lolxP]

oks i talked to the girl agains. once again i kept with the humor and wutnot. lols she was even callin me a ****y ***** and laughin her ass off seconds later. usually i would be nervous around this girl and try to be nice, but im tellin you guys if you're naturally ****y and funny jus act like yourself cuz it'll work wonders. i also decided to tell her when we should hang out. i told her monday cuz she wanted to hangout afterschool. i decided to leave at a good point in the convo and when i did she was like "you're leavin nows? will you sign on tmr?" i can tell she was wanting me to stay . well anywayz she asked if i had her number and I told her i didnt. then i told her to give it to me. i didnt say anythin about wut i was leavin for so she could have more for her brain to chew on and then i jus signed off.

sounds good right? but its not.... on monday im gonna take her to buy a present for her brother's bday, and also for her boyfriend thas in college..... i guess they still together? dunno... but jus when i thought i had her going and sayin how she should buy me somethin too cuz my bdays comin up she brings up that she also has to buy somethin for *bf's name*. guys do you think im tryin too hard and should jus not pursue it much further and keep it in the friendship zone or should i keep tryin to get her?

 

[Bballer7389]

oks i talked to the girl agains. once again i kept with the humor and wutnot. lols she was even callin me a ****y ***** and laughin her ass off seconds later. usually i would be nervous around this girl and try to be nice, but im tellin you guys if you're naturally ****y and funny jus act like yourself cuz it'll work wonders. i also decided to tell her when we should hang out. i told her monday cuz she wanted to hangout afterschool. i decided to leave at a good point in the convo and when i did she was like "you're leavin nows? will you sign on tmr?" i can tell she was wanting me to stay . well anywayz she asked if i had her number and I told her i didnt. then i told her to give it to me. i didnt say anythin about wut i was leavin for so she could have more for her brain to chew on and then i jus signed off.

sounds good right? but its not.... on monday im gonna take her to buy a present for her brother's bday, and also for her boyfriend thas in college..... i guess they still together? dunno... but jus when i thought i had her going and sayin how she should buy me somethin too cuz my bdays comin up she brings up that she also has to buy somethin for *bf's name*. guys do you think im tryin too hard and should jus not pursue it much further and keep it in the friendship zone or should i keep tryin to get her?

LEAVE HER ALONE, seriously dude, getting mixed up w/ a girl that has a man isn't the best thing, I know that from experience. The girl just likes your company and that is all, because that happened to me over the summer, I was chillin w/ this chick until i hear her say to me: "my BF's the same way"...I was like chill, and broke off contact. TRY TO FIND OTHER GIRLS, it actualyl works out better for you man.

 

[lolxP]

yeh ur probably right. i was kinda hoping that it was over with her and her boyfriend cuz he was in college. guess not =( she probably jus enjoys my company cuz we used to go out before and then alluva sudden she asks me if i would care if she was interested in someone else. gotta snap outta this oneittis. like they say, there are plenty more fish in the sea right?

i guess i'll post wut happens on monday tho. do u guys think i should ask about her boyfriend on monday or should i ask before or should i jus not ask at all?

 

[Bballer7389]

true man, we all thought we could change their mind in the beginning, then eventually you just notice that they're dumb for not picking you . But anyways do not ask about her BF, and if you really want to see if she cares for you, read the Bible on the part about trying to get out of the LJBF zone. However, be prepared to lose her forever contact and everything, I did that to the chick and she hasnt talked to me since, meaning she doesnt give a **** and I went on w/ my life.

 

[lolxP]

yeh u guys r right. today we were supposed to hangout, but when i called her afterschool she said that she was with other people (4 girls) and if i still wanted to come. basically i told her i didnt want to cuz there would be nothing for me to do while they go shop for like bras and stuff. yeh i dun think she likes me... oh well plenty more to go around.