My Journal from mChode to mPua

Young Money

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About me:
  • 18 Years of Age
  • Known about the game for a year, but never bothered to fully commit to it. Lazy attitude in general.
  • 0 FK Closes
  • Hardly any Kiss Closes
  • Suffer from terrible AA.
  • I get the attention from chicks in clubs but never act on it. Can't even do anything when a girl gives me clear signals she wants to be approached. Can't even grind on a girl when she's blatantly wanting it in front of me.
  • Have poor inner game when it comes to girls, but generally quite confident (through travelling and working on my body language a bit).
  • Started the first year of university.
  • **** game with girls stems from going to an all boys school so little exposure and a ****ed up religious and cultural upbringing. One in which talking to girls seemed wrong.

Target:

To turn from a mChode to mPua and I am going to document every book I read, every field trip clubbing. I would appreciate if everyone here goes hard on me, pushes me in the right direction.

As you can see I have a lot of work to do. By the end of my journey though I need to be able to bang or get whoever I want.
 

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Tuesday 20th December

Changes so far:
  • Wanking day is on a Sunday from now on. Once a week.

Books Read:
Generation Slut
Interesting read taught me all teenage girls are gaging to be ****ed.

There's demand, I am going to be that supply!

Wednesday 21st December

Wasted the day procrastinating, gyming and doing college work.

Tomorrow there should be some decent progress! 1 of my targets is to stop procrastinating all the time!
 
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I'm interested to see where you're at in terms of talking to girls. I'll be watching for the first field report. Read my journal if you ever want to know where my advice comes from.
 

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Young Money said:
About me:
  • 18 Years of Age
  • Known about the game for a year, but never bothered to fully commit to it. Lazy attitude in general.
  • 0 FK Closes
  • Hardly any Kiss Closes
  • Suffer from terrible AA.
  • I get the attention from chicks in clubs but never act on it. Can't even do anything when a girl gives me clear signals she wants to be approached. Can't even grind on a girl when she's blatantly wanting it in front of me.
  • Have poor inner game when it comes to girls, but generally quite confident (through travelling and working on my body language a bit).
  • Started the first year of university.
  • **** game with girls stems from going to an all boys school so little exposure and a ****ed up religious and cultural upbringing. One in which talking to girls seemed wrong.

Target:

To turn from a mChode to mPua and I am going to document every book I read, every field trip clubbing. I would appreciate if everyone here goes hard on me, pushes me in the right direction.

As you can see I have a lot of work to do. By the end of my journey though I need to be able to bang or get whoever I want.
All you need to do is talk to girls. All this "upbringing" etc doesn't mean anything, 99% of guys are brought up to be afraid of talking to girls.

The reason you have 0 FK closes is because you have yet to properly try or make a move on a girl (my guess), if you just start talking to them and making an ACTIVE EFFORT to get them to bed, everything else will sort itself.

By active effort I mean literally asking a girl to go out, showing a girl you want her as more than a friend, inviting her to your place, making moves etc. If you just do that, I promise everything else will work out for you. Most people are only virgins because they haven't tried, well it's moreso the case with younger people anyway.

You can already "bang" or "get" any girl you want as long as you are okay in all areas. Sadly if you are fat/ugly/foreign you could be at a disadvantage (sorry! But it's true despite what anyone says... Although the foreign part could give you an advantage depending on the country you're from)...

But if you are acceptable in all areas you can pretty much screw any girl you want. Girls just want a guy to come and take them, in the same way you wouldn't say no if an average girl approached you offering you sex.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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LearningSlowly said:
I'm interested to see where you're at in terms of talking to girls. I'll be watching for the first field report. Read my journal if you ever want to know where my advice comes from.
****ing ****!

Girls approach me a few times but my conversation is so dry and boring things always fizzle out!

Thanks for the tips guys the responses make me want to continue going.

I should have my first Field Report up tomorrow night after my return from a club.
 

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Thursday 22nd December

Changes so far:
Going out tonight done all the grooming possible, eyebrows, shaving back of neck. Even went to the gym to get up the libido.

First Field Report tonight, let's see if I finally get over my AA.

It will be embarrassing if I don't succeed!

Books Read:
Conquer your Campus (20 pages left)
Nothing I didn't already know to be honest, but certainly some eye opening things. Such as how everyone on campus is there to be social say things like 'I've seen you around quite a bit what's your name' in a innocent non gaming way to chicks. Certainly my aim for next semester, to meet more women.
 

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Thursday 22nd December - Field Report

Bit of a late post but finally have my first Field Report. Nothing special though.

Made the fatal mistake of getting too drunk, totally ruining my game and my thinking of girls! NOTE TO FUTURE SELF GO AND STAY SOBER IN THE CLUB.

Approached a girl who came and sat in front of me. Now I come to think of it this is my first approach ever? :rockon: Found common ground but I was too drunk to really make it work, even though I could tell she was digging me.

I messed up later on though when a real hot chick came near me with her back turned against me a few cm's away. Assuming I should of grinded on her? Problem was my brain thought she was way too hot for me! Need to work on my inner game more - blueprint coming out soon!

Hopefully I will get a non-drunk proper report coming this week.
 
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