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My interview with a stripper

bigneil

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Tonight I went to a strip bar and interviewed a stripper (paying her for info in lieu of her dancing for me). This woman offered some amazing insight over a drink:

First note that 70% of strippers are prostitutes.

1) It makes no difference if the guy is attractive to them or not.
2) Sometimes they ARE attracted to their clients (they "can't help it").
3) Sometimes they DO have orgasms with clients!!
4) They rarely leave with, kiss, or date clients.
5) They rarely give their real name or facebook.
6) Sometimes they date clients (even after he paid for sex) but it's rare.
7) The most money is made from one guy paying per song for hours.
8) Some girls make up to $5000 per night (usually from one guy paying a lot).
9) $300 is rock bottom for service (plus overhead for lounge, valet, etc.)
10) Their boyfriend probably knows what they do but she pays his rent so he's ok with it.
 

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wait... you paid a stripper to get an interview???? I think that would be worse than paying for a lap dance!!!!

The points you make do make sense, but I think most people understand it.
its kinda obvious to me that the kind of guy who dates a stripper is gotta be a very mentally unstable dude (azzhole) who could care less what she does.. and takes advantage of her.

"attractive" guys go to stripclubs and get lapdances, so it makes sense that the girl might be attracted to them every now and then.

and of course tehy are going to very rarely give real info to desperate guys out there, they know that even there are codes to follow for personal safety even in the lowest of professions such as prostitution.

the people willing to pay more are the more desperate, lonely type of guys who spend lots and lots of money in exchange of artificial attention from them.

I just really strongly dislike the way how these women are REALLY good at making guys believe they are smiling, being attracted to them. strippers are good at making dummies believe they actually give a damm about what they have to say, tehy make it so convincing that you enter THEIR world, and they own you.... you just let yourself go, and before you know you are asking for a lap dance or anything else, when all its done, they disconnect and proceed to ask for their money in a very serious way... and they will count it in front of you....

yes i've seen it too many times, and i just feel discusted at having to pay... or the fakeness of this.
last time i went to a strip club, I actually told one of them... " are you genuinely interested in coming here to talk to me, or do you just want money? I came here to talk, not to pay for sex, I can get that out there for free, so if you wanna talk, stay... if not just go make some money... she actually stayed lol
 

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Ah the old x thousands per night lie. Lol you actually believed her. That makes the rest of her statements questionable at best. And don't forget the female tendency to view their surroundings and project their reality as if it applies across the board.
 

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here's my thing on strippers and the old ever so popular statement of how much they make. why is it then at the 4 strip clubs near me, I can count on ONE hand how many NICE/DECENT/DRIVEABLE cars these money making strippers own. if i'm making $5000 a night, I'm not leaving in a 1980 toyota hatchback that smokes and backfires every 2 feet. at least buy a car made in the 2000's! hell, even waitresses own cars like those. sure those girls out at the Bunny Ranch in Vehas make the $$$$ but this ain't Vegas, this is small town USA tits and @$$ show, the small time. your audience ranges from horny old golfers on vacation to college dude's with no money looking to see some boobs and butt's.

Let's just say this gal makes $5,000 for 26 times out of the whole year. that means she's pulling in $130,000 a year. now I bet if you saw where she lived and what she drove you'd be like damn what's she do with that money.
 

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Robert28 said:
here's my thing on strippers and the old ever so popular statement of how much they make. why is it then at the 4 strip clubs near me, I can count on ONE hand how many NICE/DECENT/DRIVEABLE cars these money making strippers own. if i'm making $5000 a night, I'm not leaving in a 1980 toyota hatchback that smokes and backfires every 2 feet. at least buy a car made in the 2000's! hell, even waitresses own cars like those. sure those girls out at the Bunny Ranch in Vehas make the $$$$ but this ain't Vegas, this is small town USA tits and @$$ show, the small time. your audience ranges from horny old golfers on vacation to college dude's with no money looking to see some boobs and butt's.

Let's just say this gal makes $5,000 for 26 times out of the whole year. that means she's pulling in $130,000 a year. now I bet if you saw where she lived and what she drove you'd be like damn what's she do with that money.
it depends on the stripper.

one stripper who I used to talk to when I visited one strip club very often drove a 1 year old gray mercedes C class and from what I understand it was paid off. lol she wasn't even the best looking one there but you could tel she had a half ass head on her shoulders, wasn't ***** or a druggie or anything.

i know another that would make about 400-600 a night on avg, which is pretty damn good in reality that's damn near 10 grand a month, but spent about 200 a night on coke and alcohol if not more. lived pretty much day to day. She was absolutely banging. PERFECT body.

I know another one, actually quite well that made I would est about 7-8k a month but spent her money on stupid ****. wasn't a druggie, but spent money on stupid ****. I went with her one day in my spare time with her to a car lot because she wanted to buy a used lexus SUV, and she had on hand with her like 5k to put down on it, but had like a 450 credit score lol and because she worked at a strip club she couldn't prove her income.


with that said, i long grew out of the facnation with strippers. most aren't even THAT good looking, most.. you have no idea how much most of these women spend on makeup. not the standard stuff your mom puts on every morning. I went with the lexus girl to the mall one day a long time ago and watched her drop 300 dollars on base, lipstick and eye liner and didn't think twice ab out it. the very very high end ****.

most are bat **** crazy. most have serious issues and most are only strippers because they have no or very few morals. I'm not saying I wouldn't or don't enjoy tits in my face but they are no better if even than your avg HB7 you see standing in line at the grocery store.


lol strippers and car saleman, are like women when it comes to sex. whatever they say, divide byt 2 and you are much closer to the truth to how much they make.
 

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bigneil said:
Tonight I went to a strip bar and interviewed a stripper (paying her for info in lieu of her dancing for me). This woman offered some amazing insight over a drink:

Why would anyone pay to talk to a stripper?

Sh!t...pay me. At least I'll give you the truth for your money.
 

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i assume the vast majority are cokeheads.

thats probably the quickest path to their snatch.
 

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Iceberg said:
Why would anyone pay to talk to a stripper?
Because I started dating one of the hottest strippers in the city and (after 3 months) it started getting to me and I wanted to find out what goes on when I'm not there. Plus, these girls threw some free boobs in my face for the $20. My GF is so hot I could never look at another girl. After 3 months, no one compares.

When I asked the first one last night "Would you ever leave the club with a customer?" (which my GF did after I met her there), she said "If it's you I do." but the second one said it hardly ever happens.

I was like the guy in Swingers who was with one girl but talking about the other girl.
 

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I'm sure the strippers are better looking down there in Florida. I've seen Southeast Louisiana and Georgia strippers. I run game on these girls. I've had nights where I've gotten numbers and beyond. I've even had the occasional stroke of luck where I've gotten free dances and pu$$y.
 

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I'm no longer in Florida - now in Texas. Having lived in both states twice I can say that the formula is:

Florida: Add 2 points to her rating (an 8 becomes a 10).
Texas: Subtract 2 points from her rating (a 10 becomes an 8).

Most strippers really are evil, but I found the rare sweetheart who was only 19 when we met. She gave me her real name, real number, a real romance, real FB, real kisses, real dates and the best sex of my life (women can't pretend to love it). Now she wants to go someplace tropical. God, I'm in for a world of hurt.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
Strippers are evil.
And lots of men are dumb and horny. Demand, meet supply.

I've never been to a strip club but I did go to a girlie bar when I was in Asia. These places are brothels in all but name; you pick a girl you like and then pay a 'fine' for taking her away from her 'job' as a waitress.

No, I didn't fvck any of them. I was just curious...the whole experience kind of creeped me out honestly. But it's easy to see how guys get suckered in.
 

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I take strippers for what they are, hustlers and expert liars. They lie to me and I lie to them, always trying to score freebies, trying to break the rules, etc.Don't see anything wrong with exchanging money for services.... Here in Van, they make around $500 on a Friday night for an average place like 'Penthouse', not all though, some are average, some are Vegas quality strippers touring, not all are addicts or prostitutes. I also gotta say there are places with very pleasurable and may I say even gentelmenly enviroments, where even women themselves find erotically stimulating and enjoyable.
 
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