sylvester the cat
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that's exactly how he came across to me.adam225 said:
My HILARIOUS tinder convo ENJOY!
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In2theGame
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Overall, I'll give OP credit for interacting with females at least and cut him slack since he's only 20yrs old. Over time he will become smoother with his conversation skills. Whenever a female says ANYTHING related to her becoming wet, You capitalize on that big time lol. Plus IMO she was really cute and sassy, those are the best to practice on.
I'm not going to insult you, but I would like to offer some advice.
This seems like a typical recovering nice guy effort to me. The problem is, as I see it, you have probably convinced yourself you're behaving more like a jerk or a badboy by arguing with this chick and standing upto her, but in reality it comes over more like "nice guy doesn't get his way, so he throws a tantrum and gets nasty" type of behaviour. And this is very common in "nice guys".
On the other hand, the type of jerk who attracts women wouldn't waste time arguing like this. He'd just go and focus on one of his other plates or move on to the next pretty girl.
I pulled an unintentional jerk move recently with a HB8 blonde I met on POF. We were getting on well, but she seemed a bit too uptight and full of herself, so I decided to put her on the back burner and keep spinning plates.
A couple of nights ago a very hot brunette caught my eye on POF so I sent her a message. We got talking, then it came out that she was very close friends with the HB8 blonde I'd been talking to and had shown her my photo. Then I got two messages from both chicks explaining how I'd been chatting them up and they were friends.
I made no big deal of it and just laughed it off as being awkward. Now, all of a sudden they both seem to want me more than ever. I'm getting messages from the blonde chick asking me if I prefer blondes or brunettes, trying to qualify herself, then last night she sent me a message telling me she really finds herself attracted to me and asked me out.
I've not had to pick a fight with either of these girls, but by being a player and not giving them my full attention, they've seen that I'm a challenge and they love that.
So my advice mate is not to get caught up with these arguments. Just move on and play the numbers game.
This seems like a typical recovering nice guy effort to me. The problem is, as I see it, you have probably convinced yourself you're behaving more like a jerk or a badboy by arguing with this chick and standing upto her, but in reality it comes over more like "nice guy doesn't get his way, so he throws a tantrum and gets nasty" type of behaviour. And this is very common in "nice guys".
On the other hand, the type of jerk who attracts women wouldn't waste time arguing like this. He'd just go and focus on one of his other plates or move on to the next pretty girl.
I pulled an unintentional jerk move recently with a HB8 blonde I met on POF. We were getting on well, but she seemed a bit too uptight and full of herself, so I decided to put her on the back burner and keep spinning plates.
A couple of nights ago a very hot brunette caught my eye on POF so I sent her a message. We got talking, then it came out that she was very close friends with the HB8 blonde I'd been talking to and had shown her my photo. Then I got two messages from both chicks explaining how I'd been chatting them up and they were friends.
I made no big deal of it and just laughed it off as being awkward. Now, all of a sudden they both seem to want me more than ever. I'm getting messages from the blonde chick asking me if I prefer blondes or brunettes, trying to qualify herself, then last night she sent me a message telling me she really finds herself attracted to me and asked me out.
I've not had to pick a fight with either of these girls, but by being a player and not giving them my full attention, they've seen that I'm a challenge and they love that.
So my advice mate is not to get caught up with these arguments. Just move on and play the numbers game.
Peaks&Valleys
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^^^This. As well as some other posts on this thread.Guy who makes one good post per thousand said:
Perfect opportunity with a seemingly cool and witty chick. She kept giving you chances OP. Well, now hopefully you know what not to do.
narcissist
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I wasn't trying to sleep with her.
Huge misunderstanding fellas. I was merely entertaining myself.
Thanks for the advice though
Huge misunderstanding fellas. I was merely entertaining myself.
Thanks for the advice though
Hah you might have just been entertaining yourself but that was still a lame ass conversation. You could have entertained yourself while still turning her on and eventually blowing her off. That would've been something worthy of posting.
narcissist
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I have noticed that sosuave forums are filled to the brim with guys that pedestal the vagina.
like what ever happened to outcome independence?
what ever happened to the abundance mindstate?
what ever happened to rejection is key to success?
jesus christ, you guys are all butthurt because i didnt take the oppurtunity with a low value slut? haha this is laughable. you guys are supposed to be dj's but **** your pants when i talk **** to a girl, for fun. THATS beta.
we are all forgetting that she initiated contact, and i wasnt interested in her to begin with. OBVIOUSLY if i wanted to sleep with her i would have approached the conversation differently. But i didnt. She automatically starts convo and second reply is a sh*t test, why the hell would i want to go further with this girl. I gauged at the beginning that the whole ordeal from gaming her to sleeping with her would not be worth my time, i have better sh*t to do like work towards my Phd in psychology and work out, and talk to other girls that are already interested in me. So the only reason to talk to her would be for entertainment purposes. it was entertaining to me. Just because it didnt entertain you, doesnt make it "beta"
lol i find it funny how this sight promotes the numbers game. it repeats OVER AND OVER one girl doesnt matter to a dj because there are BILLIONS of girls out there. i dont need to game EVERY fvcking girl i talk to.
a dj would agree that he only games the girls HE WANTS. why the bloody fvck would i game a girl IM NOT ATTRACTED TO?
bahaha this forum gets gayer by the day
final advice before i dip this forum:
work on yourself, its the most important thing in your life. DONT let pvssy run your life and guage how you act, THATS BETA. Dont fall victim to pvssy slavery, be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT, do whatever the fvck you want to do with women, who cares if they like you or dont, you do it to entertain YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU ARE THE PRIZE NOT THEM.
workout, educate yourself, eat healthy, and take the sh*t on this site with a grain of salt. There is alot of contradicting opinions on here, and it can really fxck u up if you take it too seriously.
live for yourself, not for women or anyone else. build a legacy. contribute something to the world. IF you make pvssy the main goal in your life, which most of the dudes on here have done (sosuave personality disorder) by being outcome dependent, putting individual girls on pedestals, being scared of rejection and how girls reply to you and react to your action, then you are a slave, and your life is thus not worth living.
I wish you all the best, good luck to you all, even my haters.
but im done with this forum. its whack as fxck. Except for the dj bible.
like what ever happened to outcome independence?
what ever happened to the abundance mindstate?
what ever happened to rejection is key to success?
jesus christ, you guys are all butthurt because i didnt take the oppurtunity with a low value slut? haha this is laughable. you guys are supposed to be dj's but **** your pants when i talk **** to a girl, for fun. THATS beta.
we are all forgetting that she initiated contact, and i wasnt interested in her to begin with. OBVIOUSLY if i wanted to sleep with her i would have approached the conversation differently. But i didnt. She automatically starts convo and second reply is a sh*t test, why the hell would i want to go further with this girl. I gauged at the beginning that the whole ordeal from gaming her to sleeping with her would not be worth my time, i have better sh*t to do like work towards my Phd in psychology and work out, and talk to other girls that are already interested in me. So the only reason to talk to her would be for entertainment purposes. it was entertaining to me. Just because it didnt entertain you, doesnt make it "beta"
lol i find it funny how this sight promotes the numbers game. it repeats OVER AND OVER one girl doesnt matter to a dj because there are BILLIONS of girls out there. i dont need to game EVERY fvcking girl i talk to.
a dj would agree that he only games the girls HE WANTS. why the bloody fvck would i game a girl IM NOT ATTRACTED TO?
bahaha this forum gets gayer by the day
final advice before i dip this forum:
work on yourself, its the most important thing in your life. DONT let pvssy run your life and guage how you act, THATS BETA. Dont fall victim to pvssy slavery, be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT, do whatever the fvck you want to do with women, who cares if they like you or dont, you do it to entertain YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU ARE THE PRIZE NOT THEM.
workout, educate yourself, eat healthy, and take the sh*t on this site with a grain of salt. There is alot of contradicting opinions on here, and it can really fxck u up if you take it too seriously.
live for yourself, not for women or anyone else. build a legacy. contribute something to the world. IF you make pvssy the main goal in your life, which most of the dudes on here have done (sosuave personality disorder) by being outcome dependent, putting individual girls on pedestals, being scared of rejection and how girls reply to you and react to your action, then you are a slave, and your life is thus not worth living.
I wish you all the best, good luck to you all, even my haters.
but im done with this forum. its whack as fxck. Except for the dj bible.
sylvester the cat
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^ OP throwing a tantrum again. Geez.
narcissist said:I have noticed that sosuave forums are filled to the brim with guys that pedestal the vagina.
like what ever happened to outcome independence?
what ever happened to the abundance mindstate?
what ever happened to rejection is key to success?
jesus christ, you guys are all butthurt because i didnt take the oppurtunity with a low value slut? haha this is laughable. you guys are supposed to be dj's but **** your pants when i talk **** to a girl, for fun. THATS beta.
we are all forgetting that she initiated contact, and i wasnt interested in her to begin with. OBVIOUSLY if i wanted to sleep with her i would have approached the conversation differently. But i didnt. She automatically starts convo and second reply is a sh*t test, why the hell would i want to go further with this girl. I gauged at the beginning that the whole ordeal from gaming her to sleeping with her would not be worth my time, i have better sh*t to do like work towards my Phd in psychology and work out, and talk to other girls that are already interested in me. So the only reason to talk to her would be for entertainment purposes. it was entertaining to me. Just because it didnt entertain you, doesnt make it "beta"
lol i find it funny how this sight promotes the numbers game. it repeats OVER AND OVER one girl doesnt matter to a dj because there are BILLIONS of girls out there. i dont need to game EVERY fvcking girl i talk to.
a dj would agree that he only games the girls HE WANTS. why the bloody fvck would i game a girl IM NOT ATTRACTED TO?
bahaha this forum gets gayer by the day
final advice before i dip this forum:
work on yourself, its the most important thing in your life. DONT let pvssy run your life and guage how you act, THATS BETA. Dont fall victim to pvssy slavery, be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT, do whatever the fvck you want to do with women, who cares if they like you or dont, you do it to entertain YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU ARE THE PRIZE NOT THEM.
workout, educate yourself, eat healthy, and take the sh*t on this site with a grain of salt. There is alot of contradicting opinions on here, and it can really fxck u up if you take it too seriously.
live for yourself, not for women or anyone else. build a legacy. contribute something to the world. IF you make pvssy the main goal in your life, which most of the dudes on here have done (sosuave personality disorder) by being outcome dependent, putting individual girls on pedestals, being scared of rejection and how girls reply to you and react to your action, then you are a slave, and your life is thus not worth living.
I wish you all the best, good luck to you all, even my haters.
but im done with this forum. its whack as fxck. Except for the dj bible.
Seriously man, you need to get these temper tantrums and defensive behaviour under control and handle this kind of stuff like a man.
This reply and your messages with the girl make you look like a spoilt brat and this is very unattractive to women. Trust me, this same kind of behaviour has cost me big in the past.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
I dunno man, I think you came off as too abrasive, that convo went south real fast, and that chick was pretty cute. However it was funny as fück reading it!
