My H.S Reputation is ruined.

[dj blass]

Well A friend of mine and I were joking around today, We were trying to get girls' number for me you know just having fun. I must say that this is one of the best ways of getting girls number though! They key is just having fun and not caring.

Now back to my situation.

Well a few girls took me for real, and this girl - friend of mine saw me. She is rather popular too, well she says how I changed, and how bad I have become. I joked around saying how shy I am and how quite I still am. She kept saying how much I have changed, and that shes telling all her girl friends, and that that i was such a turn off to her now. LOL. I was just laughing at this whole situation. I can careless what people think about me.

But this girl has tons of connection, if word gets out I cant do much DJing in my school. And girls will take me as a joke. I got a few numbers, but i wont call any of the girls, because they are ugly.

Well as a result my reputation is ruined in a way. Because, like i said, girls will think just using them and that i will cheat on them and that crap...

(i hope i made sense)

how can I go about from here?

[This message has been edited by dj blass (edited 12-10-2002).]

 

[Kastro]

Lie say what you have been having hard times and you don't mean what you say grab her by the hand in a jokeing sad voice you mad at me, or do what I do embrace the bad rep.

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[Nocturnal]

ok man you messed up big time. you shouldn't have laughed when she said it, she was serious and you blew her off. and she was warning you by telling you how you've changed, and you didn't explain why.

my brain hurts from homework so i really dont know what to tell you, except talk to her SINCERELY and tell her what is really going on.

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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli

 

[Mack Of All Trades]

You need to work on your confidence. You cant degrade yourself, but at the same time you should now when to be serious. You just may have ruined your rep. Hopefully, your a senior so you can get out of this situation, but it sounds like your a freshman...

 

[Arty]

I HIGHLY doubt that anything bad will result from this, if you dont care what people think as you said then it doesnt make a difference. Although being friends with popular girls/guys is the way up in the HS hierarchy.

 

[Nocturnal]

Originally posted by Arty:
I HIGHLY doubt that anything bad will result from this, if you dont care what people think as you said then it doesnt make a difference. Although being friends with popular girls/guys is the way up in the HS hierarchy.

oh it will... in hs everything has to do with rep. it will fall, maybe not right away but if you dont do something about it it will indeed fall.

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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli

 

[Ridingthelightning]

That second post is hilarious

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Get busy livin' or get busy dyin'.

Its a long way to the top if you wanna rock and roll.

 

[CrzyBadBoyDJ]

Dude, so what. You don't need to mack in your school anyways, just find chicks elsewhere. I took the SAT's the other day, and there were lots of hot chicks from this different school and it's easy to fire up a converstation there, just act like your lost or something.

 

[Soshyopathe]

LISTEN! And listen good.

This happens often with DJs. Sometimes we swing too far to the jerk side of the spectrum. It took me about 6 months to realize it, maybe you can catch it earlier. You gotta make sure not to be so pompous, because it will turn off girls that actually respect themselves.

You may even want to apologize sincerely to this chick. Then ask her out.

 

[dj blass]

I am a junior in high school. I messed up and learned from it now i know when to stop. I have noticed that I have become a bit of a jerk lately. (ex. Girls ask me for money to buy her some sh/t, I said NO ) I guess this girl noticed my change from SUPER SHY to more of a DJ. All my old girl-friends have said I have changed, i am not shy to talk to girls since they see me talking to girls all the time now, this can be good and bad.

Thats the problem, these girls, were used to step all over me. Now that they can't they start getting mad becuase they cant have their way with me no more.

 

[xanderbaz]

Originally posted by dj blass:
I have noticed that I have become a bit of a jerk lately. (ex. Girls ask me for money to buy her some sh/t, I said NO )

You call that a jerk? I call that a man with balls. What the **** is wrong with these kids today? You think it's wrong NOT to give YOUR MONEY to GIRLS??? What bullsh!t. Next time, tell 'em to go milk some other money-cow or something.
Cheers.

 

[Nocturnal]

Originally posted by CrzyBadBoyDJ:
Dude, so what. You don't need to mack in your school anyways, just find chicks elsewhere. I took the SAT's the other day, and there were lots of hot chicks from this different school and it's easy to fire up a converstation there, just act like your lost or something.

i guess he does only spend 5-7 hours a day there. and there are only a couple hundred girls his age.

i guess school is a bad place for it.

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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli

 

[Gaming111]

What, are you afraid that girl is going to tell everyone you were macking on girls and getting numbers? And you want to STOP HER?? This is awesome for your rep... Girls will be interested in you, because you look like a guy who can get girls and has options. You should be thanking that girl.

 

[stylespee]

welcome to my world dj blass.... your problem is the only problem i had with this site. When people like you and I go from afc to don juan to quickly old girlfriends and friends will hate it.

It almost seems as though some people hate it so much they somewhat resent you. It took me a while to realize it but you r where uve wanted to be all along. Once high school is over your gonna be in awesome shape,for now just have fun and dont sweat your rep.

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big panties were created by the devil himself

 

[dj blass]

Thanks for the insight guys.

I totally agree with stylespee. Old girl friends hate such a change, simply because, they cant control me anymore. I got tired of being step on all the time, sure i have more to learn, but its a start into the right direction. On top of that being NICE just got me 0 girls. Girls really contradict themselves when it comes to them wanting to meet a NICE guy to be their boyfriend. Come to think about, not even us guys want super nice and/or shy girls. You cant have any fun with them and is sorta of a turn off to me.

 

[silver00]

Do not feel bad about standing up for urlself, and do not fell bad about being a jerk. I was an AFC, now I am closer to the jerk side of the spectrum, and probably the most valuable thing that I have discovered is that people that previously used you will now be mad because they can not take advantage of you. Stand up, be a jerk.

 

[ChillDude6767]

Don't sweat it. Your HS reputation isn't ruined! Go get 'em Tiger!

 

[deaderinred]

This is from 2002 you fuktard. At least post something valuable when you dig up 17 year old threads.