I’m still young 29 but in a year ltr. My gf had a big juicy ass and let’s me do whatever I want so I got lucky there, I’m not a huge believer in relationships but if a girl hot, the sex is great, and she supports your ambitions and dreams go for it. She has to tick all the boxes not just one. Now, back to advice for my single friends.
Good accomplishment.
1. You need to approach. Sounds simple but I regret not approaching more hot women I missed in my early 20’s. . Women are a game of numbers. You should be approaching 20-30 women a week. And no don’t rely on clubs and bars for this.
Approaching is your best option if you don't have a social circle capable of arranging dates for you. The best overall means of developing a healthy relationship and consistent sex life is a good social circle. Having that social circle takes a lot and often can take years to build from scratch, if it can even be built. When you're horny now, you can't wait 2-5 years on a social circle to start producing dates. The men who use social circle the best often didn't relocate much in their lives. Their parents did not relocate them before high school graduation, so they got to grow up in the same area AND they've remained in that same area as adults. These types of guys are not guys on SoSuave as they typically find a relationship, stick with it a while (maybe put a ring on it), and go on with their lives.
Approaching is better than swiping. Swiping is a great way to waste time and find some "one date, no sex, no second date" type interactions.
2. appearance appearance appearance!. Make yourself as muscular and lean as possible, eat animal based diet full of fruits honey and meat. Get out in the sun regularly! Women like tanned jacked men! Nobody wants your pale weakling ass. Being tan is a sign of a man that is outside and hunts regularly...it’s evolutionary attractive! Being pale tells women you were not strong enough to hunt so you hid in a cave. Sun is also crucial for hormone production.
All accurate. Probably the most important thing you can do.
5, move to a city that Gives Your smv a fair shot. Now I know a lot of guys will knock me for this and I don’t care ....if you can’t move because your “work is here” tough **** sparky. If your in the wrong city you will not do well! Case in point- I have friends n Los Angeles that are good looking in shape and struggle badly with women. Meanwhile I have friends in Charleston and Charlotte making $20 an hour with an abundance of women!! If you live in la or Manhattan and your making 60- 100k a year you ain’t going anywhere. Move to a city where the hot chicks aren’t looking for you to get them into Hollywood and where you don’t have to compete against directors and millionaires everywhere.
Where to relocate? Logistically I would say Imo the south has the best women. I’ve met 6/10’s in la and Manhattan that are more stuck up than 9/10’s in Charlotte Charleston Florida etc. Colorado is great too as is Texas. Miami is great but there are so many thirsty desperate rich men there the 6/10’s get a big head and think they are hotter than they are. Proceed Miami with caution. northeast is hit or miss
The competition is intense in big cities. At the same time, if you're in an area with 100-150k or less of a population, there might be too few choices. The ideal situation is a mid-size metro area with just enough choice that you aren't lacking but not an overwhelming amount of choice that women get extremely selective/fussy. Better yet, have a solid social circle in a mid-sized area. Every metro area has its specific features so it can be tough to generalize.
Los Angeles and New York City are tough places to compete. I would not recommend either.
The San Francisco Bay Area, Seattle, and Portland (Oregon), are some of the worst options in the US due to too many men and some of the biggest SJW/feminist influences. Washington DC is similar in that regard. Avoid all 4 of those places if you're able to avoid them.
In Florida, Orlando or Tampa (slightly smaller options) often lead to better outcomes than Miami-Fort Lauderdale.
I disagree about Colorado. Colorado has too many men. Denver has the "Menver" reputation due to an oversupply of males. Colorado Springs is home to the US Air Force Academy, leading to another oversupply of men issue. Denver and Colorado Springs are the two biggest metros in Colorado.
In Texas, Fort Worth might be the best option. Big enough, yet less competition and less pretentious than nearby neighbor Dallas. Dallas is a difficult environment due to intense male competition and highly pretentious females. Austin has a bit of the SJW/feminist San Francisco-Washington DC type I mentioned earlier. It's not a coincidence that feminist dating app Bumble chose Austin as its HQ. Houston and San Antonio are better big city options than Dallas/Austin due to better female attitudes, but Houston and San Antonio have less good looking women than Dallas or Austin.
6. exposure! Everywhere you go you are closing and getting numbers. Coffee shops, malls, etc. assuming you meet the girls physical standards from there it’s all personality and game. Be cool! Women what men that are cool/chill/mysterious. If you work the same 9-5 for years and have hit the same bars and clubs every weekend and have never traveled women are going to find you boring! Take up salsa dancing, join group gym classes, travel to Europe with just a backpack and post pics of your epic Adventurous lifestyle. If you can’t afford it find a way to where you can or travel with a friend. Get out of your ****ing house!!!!
You do have to mix up your venues if you're approaching. That will get you exposure to new people. Outdoor approaching is still the most viable form of approaching. Some cities are better for outdoor approaching than others.
