My GOLDEN RULE of being a DON JUAN

[TheHumanist]

Sorry man, you shot yourself in the foot the by your previous ideas and writings. It hard to listen when your past advice hurt your credibility. If it any help, your advice doesn't sound that bad. It just basically says go out and lossen up, have some fun, stop worrying so much. Live in the moment and stop thinking about the outcome so much when going out. Also don't forget if it all fall apart somehow, that sucks, but there's more people out there to do better, its not the end of the world.

Though I have to admit I like to see treat them a bit more respect and not just see girl (well people in general) as just something to be use. The rest is pretty sound.

 

[Stéphane]

Lying works, but lying is dishonest, and it shows lack of character. I'd rather stay honest, and get the girl. Like if I want to f*ck someone I straight up tell them.

 

[AFC Savior]

Lying works, but lying is dishonest, and it shows lack of character. I'd rather stay honest, and get the girl. Like if I want to f*ck someone I straight up tell them.

how many girls have u been able to keep around for months and months while being honest?

 

[Stéphane]

Not a whole lot, but I rather do it the right way, like I know that lying works, it's just not for me.

 

[AfRoSwiss-Disiac]

a dj IS a player

no its not ..like i said before ..read the book of pook...and the DJ bible

 

[ChrizZ]

Morals and ethics were developed by REAL men...and many of them got killed or had their "a$$es kicked" defending those said values. But then again, you're 18, so you must know everything.

glad we agree.

 

[Chase12]

I think its cool to treat a girl like shes not really important at first... cuz well.. she actually isnt because you just met her. But if you been with a girl more than 4 months i think its just going too far treating her that way... i mean even if your a robot you gotta have some feelings towards her...

And anyways.. you should always see talking to women as having some fun...its really fun to just go with the flow and bust her balls here and there.. even when you ve been with here a long time.. you dont have to turn into a 40 year old husband if you get to have feelings for her.

 

[comic_relief]

agree with you for 75%, but disagree with it 25%.

I agree with the gist, but I believe that you should care about her.

"if I have not made plans to marry this girl, then who cares, she's just there for some fun, im da shyt, shes just a woman who will bring pleasure into my life, but she is NOT my wife, OR my future wife, so I DO NOT CARE AND THEREFORE I WILL NOT TREAT HER LIKE A WIFE"

Agreed with you on that.

after a while, once you ENGRAIN this attitude within you, you will have lotsa of phone #s, lots of dates, a few girlfriends (tell them what they wanna hear and say you are in love, who cares, its not like it matters if she says she loves you, cuz she'll change her mind in a few months, UNLESS you feel 100% sure she is your future wife)............tell em what they wanna hear so you can keep having them come over and fcuk them 3 times a night

Too manipulative for me to do. I dislike using and abusing someone. I also live by another axiom, "Treat others as you would like to be treated."

If I treat someone like this, then I am not treating them like I would like to be treated like that. Your views have hardened. I have to wonder why you have such a bad view of women and people in general.

loosen up, stop caring so much about the outcome!!!!!!!!!!!!

Agreed and believe that would solve a lot of problems in life.

drink with her, get tipsy together, and fcuk her

Never had sex with a girl while she was drunk. Always completely sober, both of us.

SHE IS NOTHING TO YOU, SHE IS JUST SOMEONE YOU USE FOR FUN, JUST LIKE SHE IS USING YOU

Disagree with that statement to a point. I believe that she in the overall sense is nothing, but she is also something. This statement is paradoxical, but she is a person and as a person she is something. You give her as much meaning as you like. Personally, I give my girlfriend a lot of meaning because she is something that I actually care about.

Out of curiousity, what do you feel like when the girl is hurt and destroyed?

you are forgetting that NONE of these random girls matter, just have fun with it and SHUT THE **** UP WITH YOUR GODDAMN "PROBLEMS"

Agree but disagree, while I agree that random girls do not mean a damn thing, a girlfriend who you spend a significant amount of time with does matter. You choose to give her meaning and she is important because she does become a friend and confidant.

OP: Being outcome independent is spot on. However I would lose respect for myself if I were to ever treat people like mere objects for my enjoyment.

I would have the same problem. Although some of his advice was good, I disagree with lots of it.

a dj IS a player

To some people it is a player, but to most people on this site it is not. It is the ultimate man. A man that lives by his own rules.

so anyone who does not have sex, they automatically have no right to give advice on what to do to have sex

COOL, LOOKS LIKE I CAN GIVE ADVICE.

just tell me, where do i say not to treat women with respect?

you gotta show THEM everything they wanna see and hear.....but in your mind, KEEP IT IN YOUR MIND, that she does not matter, thats all

The overall tone of your posts is very disrespectful to women. People that respect each other don't call each other "bytches" (unless in a playful way) and actually treat each other with some respect and care about the others feelings. You do neither.

TheHumanist is on a distinguished road

Sorry man, you shot yourself in the foot the by your previous ideas and writings. It hard to listen when your past advice hurt your credibility. If it any help, your advice doesn't sound that bad. It just basically says go out and lossen up, have some fun, stop worrying so much. Live in the moment and stop thinking about the outcome so much when going out. Also don't forget if it all fall apart somehow, that sucks, but there's more people out there to do better, its not the end of the world.

Though I have to admit I like to see treat them a bit more respect and not just see girl (well people in general) as just something to be use. The rest is pretty sound.

Spot on advice. If AFC Savior said it like this, I would have totally agreed with him.

Lying works, but lying is dishonest, and it shows lack of character. I'd rather stay honest, and get the girl. Like if I want to f*ck someone I straight up tell them.

Exactly, I don't like being dishonest AND your character speaks volumes. It will catch up with you and is what you are judged on by people.

how many girls have u been able to keep around for months and months while being honest?

My first girlfriend lasted 1.5 years. Current girlfriend (second) is 8 months and counting. Trust me, being honest can get you pretty far. Plus being strong (being honest) is what keeps my girls with me. I may not have had sex as much as yourself, but I can still trust and treat girls with respect. Your posts reak of disrespect.

you are making my point

what YOU feel is the "right way" is the AFC within you, and your results back this up - using the "right way" barely gets you any pvssy

tell me if im wrong or not?


YOU are here to GET RID OF that mindset that you need a right way to treat girls, read into my post a little better, theres alot for you to learn in it

Actually it is your inner conscience. The purpose of this site is to make up your own inner conscience, not live by other peoples. A person should analyze their consciences to see if they are correct or not. Each person makes their own choices and that is a product of your upbringing and nurture.

how many girls you got going right now using your morals and ethics?

One girl, but at the same time, she is willing to follow me across the country to help me achieve my dream. Girls like that only come once and a great while.

comic_relief

 

[Erasmus]

If your absolute number one goal in life before anything else is to have sex with the largest number of women possible, then I'm sure that's good advice. *Shrugs* Might not get as much action, but I still prefer real connections and caring relationships.

 

[Sandow]

AFC is right. It's the right mentality to have. You will see big changes in your game if you care less. Too many people here overanalyze, all this stuf is so simple, people are just making it complicated.

Again, its just a mentality. the person who cares the least has the most control.

 

[comic_relief]

AFC is right. It's the right mentality to have. You will see big changes in your game if you care less. Too many people here overanalyze, all this stuf is so simple, people are just making it complicated.

Again, its just a mentality. the person who cares the least has the most control.

very true, but he is too radical about it.

comic_relief

 

[DonGorgon]

men take this stuff so hard cause most men have to goo through alot just to get alitle attention form women. They spend lots of time alone so when an opportunity comes up they get excited and stressed, unlike women who are constantly being offered companionship.

 

[AFC Savior]

i think some people need to take the advice that i give from my own experience and just use it to better themselves, instead of playa hating like total nerds

 

[Last Man Standing]

You are correct Skippy, treat a hor as a hor, if you want to succeed in getting them!!

 

[AFC Savior]

You are correct Skippy, treat a hor as a hor, if you want to succeed in getting them!!

they are all hors unless they are your wife, correct?

 

[DonJuan11]

"if I have not made plans to marry this girl, then who cares, she's just there for some fun, im da shyt, shes just a woman who will bring pleasure into my life, but she is NOT my wife, OR my future wife, so I DO NOT CARE AND THEREFORE I WILL NOT TREAT HER LIKE A WIFE"


thats my quote i been living by for a few years now........if you arent marrying the girl, then shut up with your issues and just have fun with her.......or call her and tell her she's a *****, who cares? shes nothing to you


after a while, once you ENGRAIN this attitude within you, you will have lotsa of phone #s, lots of dates, a few girlfriends (tell them what they wanna hear and say you are in love, who cares, its not like it matters if she says she loves you, cuz she'll change her mind in a few months, UNLESS you feel 100% sure she is your future wife)............tell em what they wanna hear so you can keep having them come over and fcuk them 3 times a night

I like it, but can't you only say that until after you sleep with them?

 

[jacob]

AFC Savior you know the game and how to get into the mind set. thanks for the advice bro.

 

[Last Man Standing]

they are all hors unless they are your wife, correct?

if they ARE HAVING SEXUAL CONTACT WITH YOU, THEN YES!!!