Just thought i'd throw my 2 cents in here. I dance salsa as well and I can tell the guys that might be reading this thread and thinking about it to just start taking lessons asap! I consider learning salsa as one of my best decisions which have improved my life side by side with joining this forum.
Some guys aren't fags. All the guys I saw dancing were either fruity or foreign.
Obviously because all the guys you saw in your town dancing salsa looked fruity then every other salsa dancer in this world must be fruity
or maybe you're from san francisco??
"if you think dancing ability translates to sexual ability you're far off",Sorry to hear that was your experience....I always say that if a Lady is a good Dancer,then she will also be good in bed....Dancers have a lot going for them,in general they are fun loving,fit and endowed with a sense of rhythm,that's a good start in the love making business....So Zarky,I think you should let your ferret out for another trot,one Swallow doesn't make a Summer.
As I have said many times some of the best women for dating are salsa dancers
why you ask?
1)
In Salsa the traditional gender roles are reinforced: Women are taught to allow themselves to be led by men on the dance floor. This creates a sense of respect from them towards men that they probably didn't have before they joined classes (due to all the feminist brainwashing going on). And if they already did respect men as their leaders salsa reinforces that.
Salsa sort of brings women back to their roots of allowing men to dominate them.
2)
The women I have met through salsa classes and dancing are some of the friendliest/fun loving women I have ever met: Not just because of men being the leader/them being the followers in dancing but because salsa reinforces other values like positive attitude/smiling/style and just old fashioned feminine characteristics in women. Salsa brings out the best nature in women. If you want b|tches go to the regular clubs but if you want higher quality women go to salsa clubs.
Im late 20s me and my friends are against it. If I had a girl want to go dance in a club with another guy I'd dump her. Dancing to hip hop or salsa,etc. Disgusting thing is, I've met girls who danced with me or wanted to dance with me that mentioned how their ex boyfriend was so insecure about them dancing with other guys. For the right reasons, I've had tons of girls grab my crotch dancing or sometimes just standing there.I dont blame the ex. I blame the chick. Huge red flag. Some women...disgusting creatures.
hip hop dancing is dirty true but you won't see much crotch grabbing in salsa. Salsa is fun/sexy/elegant without being dirty.
and you got it all wrong. In terms of the culture in salsa it's really simple EVERYONE DANCE WITH EVERYONE!
You gotta understand that people go to salsa clubs to dance not to hook up unlike hip hop clubs.
It salsa culture it is rude for a woman to deny a dance to a guy the same goes for a guy denying a dance with a woman. In salsa culture everyone switches partner after the song is done (unless it's beginner couples dancing with each other) but even couples will dance a song or 2 together than be off dancing with everyone else.
All the above creates a culture of everyone dancing with everyone. In salsa people are trying to dance with as many people as they can handle to have fun and improve their own dancing. This is not like hip hop clubs where you got "girls night out" where if a guy tries to get in they will kick his butt out or guy/girl dancing together all night (boring).
Compare that to hip hop clubs with countless guys with drink on hand that won't be dancing with anybody this saturday. I can go to a salsa club and in an hour i can dance with like 8 girls full songs and get my money's worth. To get your money's worth at a club you have to be there early but not in salsa. You can go a a salsa club at 12, dance back to back songs as many as you can handle and get a ton of practice in.
And the reason for that is because there is a huge shortage of male dancers. The female to male ratio is heavily in favor of the females so if you can dance salsa you will never have a shortage of girls waiting for a guy to ask them to dance. So you can arrive late at the salsa club and still have a ton of fun dancing back to back songs as many as you can handle there will always be girls available for that.
The chick I was going out with was Brazilian. Every godd*mned time we went out she wanted to go dancing. The guy she ended up with (and to this day I think they're still together 3 years later)
There's an old saying "couples that dance together stay together." Not just because they enjoy a fun activity together but because of all the heavy kino going on and the sense of domination of the guy towards the girl that is salsa.
Salsa studios are known for producing lots of marriages (it's all in the kino). Salsa studios are known for producing couples because women are just overpowered by the kino and the guy touching the girl so much and being touched by her he develops feelings too. It's a beautiful and natural thing.
Me personally i will not date a woman that doesn't know how to dance (or doesn't want me to teach her). Sure for an ONS this doesn't apply but much like your brazilian gf I don't want just a lover but a dance partner as well. I don't care how hot she is if she flat out told me she didn't want to learn that would be a huge turnoff big enough for me to dump her.
