She's just driving there to drink soda pop, play monopoly and gank her brains out on League Of Legends.
No. I don’t know why men willingly accept this behavior from women. By agreeing to an LTR, we are giving up the ability to fvck other broads. What is she giving up? Not having any dudes in the picture is the bare minimum condition for exclusivity. But any guy that wants to end up like OP, feel free to accept whatever scraps she gives you.
If a woman values you and the relationship enough they won't do anything to put it in jeopardy. You feeling the need to say anything shows insecurity on your part and silently tells the women that you are used to being cheated on by previous women. And then they start to wonder why that is...
That is an unnecessary and imprudent risk. Still doesn’t answer the question - what is she giving up to attain your exclusivity?
Sincere question:
She did not ask to see my phone. That’s a smart decision not to go through a single guys phone. She did however ask how many women I was talking to and I answered truthfully. It is a negotiation. Once we agreed to be exclusive, I cancelled the dates with other plates coming up, and informed them it is inappropriate to continue talking. If my girlfriend went through my phone now, she would find no nefarious behavior. I’m not big on social media either (only have a dummy Instagram for searches), so that is a moot point.
That should not be assumed and is not the bigger point. Women will keep their orbiters on standby. More importantly, women are the beneficiaries of male monogamy. Giving up your ability to fvck other girls for free is frankly a naive decision. That is our leverage. If she wants the security of your loyalty, it must come at a price. That sacrifice is the bare minimum.
You shouldn’t trust a girl to do the right thing if boundaries aren’t set in stone. Women hide behind their naivety whenever it is convenient for them. “We have always been just friends! I didn’t know he was going to try to sleep with me!”
The same thing you are. Banging other people.
Your only as loyal as your options, before qomen didnt have 50 guys messaging her on OLD and Social Media everyday. We also live in a society that holds women to no accountability for their actions.
Men are desperate, and when men are desperate women can put whatever price they want on themselves.
fvck no ima drop the bich like you and others have said , its very likely she is telling me upfront with her behavior who she is , there will likely be warning signs EVERYWHERE before you are cucked
Truthfully, there was some unresolved closure since our breakup. I think she was looking for forgiveness from me to her or to “start over”. I don’t want to derail a thread over it. Though I would really enjoy delving more into the female psyche.
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Brilliant.. Most people willing to settledown being less from fullfilling relationship.. Most idiots thinks isn't it lovely this person is being so open and honest with me, and surely he/she is trustworthy" but they're actually cautioning you about what lies ahead. If you stick around, they presume you've made a well-informed choice, they're off the hook for any emotional responsibility, and You're at fault for thinking this could work out!
I agree. It was a dopey cvnt move. It was her idea to go exclusive and that happened about two months after our first hookup.
You put that b!tch on notice that if she does something that disrespectful again, don't bother contacting you again.
Two months is still a little early if......you were only seeing each other once a week and you had other options etc although about the two month mark it's still normal for them to ask the what are we question I suppose. At least it was her idea which may give you some idea of her interest level...
It's true that it takes time to really evaluate someone's integrity and scrutinize their values. Of course you can lay little tests that will reveal her inner workings. But what you want is a consistent pattern over time. Remember if you are not sure....don't commit to them. If it is something long term that you would be open to you should be asking about her values and scrutinizing her character. What she like under pressure? how does she handle adversity? How empathic is she? How loyal is? (does she talk badly about others behind their backs)? is she reactive or proactive? Does she have a victim mentality (talks about the past all the time/blames others) or does she have a responsible attitude (lives in the present with an eye on the future ie working today for a better tomorrow)? What she like with money? (what her money values?)
Right. Not sure if insanely interested is healthy or not!! Remember this could be insanely codependent rather that interest level.....but you must determine that by observing and evaluating her character.
Patience is a virtue. You may have rushed in a little quickly here.
