My girlfriend is out drinking with her hoe friend

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She told me on Thursday she's going out with her friend to the theatre on Saturday (today). She left my house this afternnon to go home saying "have a good weekend". I take that to mean I won't be seeing her for a while which I'm happy about. She sends me a picture in the theatre at 8pm then texts me it was good @ 10pm.

I just see her online on WhatsApp at 1am and she sees me come online and messages: "Hello baby... we still out having drinks" I asked how she's getting home "we gonna have to get cab"

I'm not really a possessive type but I don't really have my girlfriends going out drinking without me knowing, on Saturday night at a ****tail bar in central London, without me.

How much am I supposed to care about something like this? I feel aggrieved, I want to confront her tomorrow but I also know it's probably not worth it as I want to leave her anyway.
 

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She told me on Thursday she's going out with her friend to the theatre on Saturday (today). She left my house this afternnon to go home saying "have a good weekend". I take that to mean I won't be seeing her for a while which I'm happy about. She sends me a picture in the theatre at 8pm then texts me it was good @ 10pm.

I just see her online on WhatsApp at 1am and she sees me come online and messages: "Hello baby... we still out having drinks" I asked how she's getting home "we gonna have to get cab"

I'm not really a possessive type but I don't really have my girlfriends going out drinking without me knowing, on Saturday night at a ****tail bar in central London, without me.

How much am I supposed to care about something like this? I feel aggrieved, I want to confront her tomorrow but I also know it's probably not worth it as I want to leave her anyway.
Your girlfriend is out drinking... Alcohol lowers inhibitions & makes you behave out of character... Your girlfriend is out in an environment with a bunch of very horny men... Some of these men are taller than you, more muscular than you, smarter than you, better looking than you... 99% of these men want to fuk... You committed yourself to a woman who puts herself in that environment... Bruv just a matter of time till she starts taking those big 12 inch diicks.. Be a man for once... Tell her you ain't going to a bar/club ever again, or get the fuk outta my house. Bruv, stop being a liberal, and start being a masculine man, as nature intended you to be.
 

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Your girlfriend is out drinking... Alcohol lowers inhibitions & makes you behave out of character... Your girlfriend is out in an environment with a bunch of very horny men... Some of these men are taller than you, more muscular than you, smarter than you, better looking than you... 99% of these men want to fuk... You committed yourself to a woman who puts herself in that environment... Bruv just a matter of time till she starts taking those big 12 inch diicks.. Be a man for once... Tell her you ain't going to a bar/club ever again, or get the fuk outta my house. Bruv, stop being a liberal, and start being a masculine man, as nature intended you to be.
This is literally the first time in years she’s done this.

She’s text me 10 mins ago that’s she’s been waiting ages for an Uber and just text me “in cab” I haven’t viewed any of these msgs.

How do I bring this up? It wasn’t planned (maybe it was) she told me about the theatre at 8pm which I obviously have no problem with. Being text at 1am she’s still out drinking in a bar when I’m about to get some sleep has royally pissed me off.
 

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This is literally the first time in years she’s done this.

She’s text me 10 mins ago that’s she’s been waiting ages for an Uber and just text me “in cab” I haven’t viewed any of these msgs.

How do I bring this up? It wasn’t planned (maybe it was) she told me about the theatre at 8pm which I obviously have no problem with. Being text at 1am she’s still out drinking in a bar when I’m about to get some sleep has royally pissed me off.
Muslims don't have this problem... Ain't no Muslim man panicking at home right now, worrying about his wife/GF getting drunk and taking a big big BBC.. only Western men worry about that kinda shyte

So... Why did she put you in this position.. How many kings throughout history cried and worried about his queen getting smashed in the azz right now, like you currently are doing. Are you a king? Or are just another weak azz femenized western man
 

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If you can't trust your girl to go out one night you probably shouldn't be dating her already.

If I thought a girl would be svcking d!ck whenever I'm not looking, I wouldn't keep her under 24/7 watch, I'd cut her loose.
I'm not really a possessive type but I don't really have my girlfriends going out drinking without me knowing, on Saturday night at a ****tail bar in central London, without me.
Is it really without you knowing if she told you?
 

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If you can't trust your girl to go out one night you probably shouldn't be dating her already.

If I thought a girl would be svcking d!ck whenever I'm not looking, I wouldn't keep her under 24/7 watch, I'd cut her loose.


Is it really without you knowing if she told you?
If you can't trust your girl to go out one night you probably shouldn't be dating her already.

If I thought a girl would be svcking d!ck whenever I'm not looking, I wouldn't keep her under 24/7 watch, I'd cut her loose.


Is it really without you knowing if she told you?
I only knew just now it sounded like they were going home at 10pm when it finished but apparently not.

I don’t even know if I should say anything, she’s for the streets why should I waste my energy at this point
 

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I just want to offer my 2 cents because I see some people are taking the nuclear Andrew Tate approach.

1. I've been cheated on before but my last girlfriend was extremely loyal because I simply didn't care. She's hot but unlike all the other rich handsome guys that want to give her the world to get in her pants my power was in my ability to say "no" to her. She never had a guy who would deny her so I believe she was loyal because she knew how easy it would be for me to leave if she did.

2. As some of these others say, if you don't trust your girl to be out without you, that's another problem. I wouldn't tell her she can never go out again like some of these other guys because that sounds like you're desperate to hide her away from the world for fear of her finding somebody better than you. I WOULD be a little concerned if she made this a regular habit of going out without you while you're there and available, however.

How much am I supposed to care about something like this? I feel aggrieved, I want to confront her tomorrow but I also know it's probably not worth it as I want to leave her anyway.
Also, this part, if you're considering this option from this singular instance where even though she's out she's keeping you in the loop, then I think you have your own insecurity. Alternatively, if this is the last straw for you, it sounds like you're just looking for an excuse for a breakup fight. Neither of which is healthy.
 

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If you can't trust your girl to go out one night you probably shouldn't be dating her already.

If I thought a girl would be svcking d!ck whenever I'm not looking, I wouldn't keep her under 24/7 watch, I'd cut her loose.


Is it really without you knowing if she told you?
You don't understand the biological nature of woman
 

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She told me on Thursday she's going out with her friend to the theatre on Saturday (today). She left my house this afternnon to go home saying "have a good weekend". I take that to mean I won't be seeing her for a while which I'm happy about. She sends me a picture in the theatre at 8pm then texts me it was good @ 10pm.

I just see her online on WhatsApp at 1am and she sees me come online and messages: "Hello baby... we still out having drinks" I asked how she's getting home "we gonna have to get cab"

I'm not really a possessive type but I don't really have my girlfriends going out drinking without me knowing, on Saturday night at a ****tail bar in central London, without me.

How much am I supposed to care about something like this? I feel aggrieved, I want to confront her tomorrow but I also know it's probably not worth it as I want to leave her anyway.
Once a hoe, always a hoe. But you always write about how you intend on leaving her but don't end up doing it. Just accept that you're going to stay with a wh0r3, that goes out to bars at 1am with her slutty friends probably getting d!cked down by a gang of men while you sit at your place alone, and that you like the rush you get from it.
 

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Once a hoe, always a hoe. But you always write about how you intend on leaving her but don't end up doing it. Just accept that you're going to stay with a wh0r3, that goes out to bars at 1am with her slutty friends probably getting d!cked down by a gang of men while you sit at your place alone, and that you like the rush you get from it.
My man panicking at home, while she fighting off big big big ****'s.... Maybe she ain't fighting them off though. Welcome to the Western world
 

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She told me on Thursday she's going out with her friend to the theatre on Saturday (today). She left my house this afternnon to go home saying "have a good weekend". I take that to mean I won't be seeing her for a while which I'm happy about. She sends me a picture in the theatre at 8pm then texts me it was good @ 10pm.

I just see her online on WhatsApp at 1am and she sees me come online and messages: "Hello baby... we still out having drinks" I asked how she's getting home "we gonna have to get cab"

I'm not really a possessive type but I don't really have my girlfriends going out drinking without me knowing, on Saturday night at a ****tail bar in central London, without me.

How much am I supposed to care about something like this? I feel aggrieved, I want to confront her tomorrow but I also know it's probably not worth it as I want to leave her anyway.
She's not your "girlfriend"; she's a skank that simply let you park your sausage in her hot-dog bun. :rolleyes:
 

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Jesus what’s up with your “BBC” fantasy bro? Are you here to build up your fellow man or tear him down?

Your posts are incendiary, meant to cut the OP deep wtf is up with that? You can say “she’s not a good prospect” without the ego assassination.
 

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How many kings throughout history cried and worried about his queen getting smashed in the azz right now, like you currently are doing. Are you a king? Or are just another weak azz femenized western man
Here are some of my ancestor kings that are spread out over my genealogical tree like sperm on a chick's lower abdomen after a money shot.
Charlemagne had eighteen children with seven of his ten known wives or concubines ... By consequence, most if not all established European noble families ever since can genealogically trace some of their background to Charlemagne.
Sons
  1. Robert of Gloucester, born in the 1090s.[333]
  2. Richard, born to Ansfride, brought up by Robert Bloet, the Bishop of Lincoln.[334]
  3. Reginald de Dunstanville, Earl of Cornwall, born in the 1110s or early 1120s, possibly to Sibyl Corbet.[335]
  4. Robert FitzEdith, born to Edith Forne.[336]
  5. Gilbert FitzRoy, possibly born to an unnamed sister or daughter of Walter of Gand.[337]
  6. William de Tracy, possibly born in the 1090s.[337]
  7. Henry FitzRoy, possibly born to Nest ferch Rhys.[336][nb 33]
  8. Fulk FitzRoy, possibly born to Ansfride.[336]
  9. William, the full brother of Sybilla of Normandy, probably also of Reginald de Dunstanville.[338]
Daughters
  1. Matilda FitzRoy, Countess of Perche.[339]
  2. Matilda FitzRoy, Duchess of Brittany.[339]
  3. Juliane, wife of Eustace of Breteuil, possibly born to Ansfrida.[340]
  4. Mabel, wife of William Gouet.[341]
  5. Constance, Viscountess of Beaumont-sur-Sarthe.[342]
  6. Aline, wife of Matthew de Montmorency.[343]
  7. Isabel, daughter of Isabel de Beaumont, Countess of Pembroke.[343]
  8. Sybilla de Normandy, Queen of Scotland, probably born before 1100.[343][nb 34]
  9. Matilda Fitzroy, Abbess of Montivilliers.[343]
  10. Gundrada de Dunstanville.[343]
  11. Possibly Rohese, wife of Henry de la Pomerai.[343][nb 35]
  12. Emma, wife of Guy of Laval.[344]
  13. Adeliza, the King's daughter.[344]
  14. Elizabeth Fitzroy, the wife of Fergus of Galloway.[344]
  15. Possibly Sibyl of Falaise.[344][nb 36]
 
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