My girlfriend cheated...

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Hey guys,

Yesterday my ex told me that the previous night her male housemate spent eight hours trying to get her to sleep with him (add this to weeks of similar attempts to get with my girl, fully knowing that she has me as her boyfriend). Such disrespect is outrageous, but I hold true to my own saying: "Cheaters cheat, non-cheaters don't". In her home that night, after a minor argument between us, and one whole bottle of wine drunk in her house to herself, one aggressive guy with a bunch of post-unproven promises, and a "this is how we were" heart-felt phone call from my ex's ex only a few hours before (yes, even her EX is trying to get with her!) she caved in to a guy that lasted five minutes.

Don't rip me to shreds guys for what I am about to say...

I don't believe for a second that this girlfriend of mine of eight months had any bad intentions against me. She came to me almost IMMEDIETLY afterwards (ie a few hours, in the morning) crying and saying I need a better girl. The obvious stuff was said (and she said "I know this is what everyone says..."). She said it meant nothing to her.

My intolerance of cheaters means I have to break up with her and I already have. It's not easy.

That's my pitch - what do you all think?

Nick

Alcohol, drugs, the devil lol etc it's not an argument.

Any one who talks with her ex is grounds for disregard.

 

[Bokanovsky]

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[Focal core]

You have to wonder what happens to OP... Its a 2004 story.

That's what i love about forum and memory... Someone revived a 14 years OLD story.

Did OP forgave her? Did OP dumb her and found the love his life? Is OP a famous bachelor etc..?

I've dropped out of this forum. Life been great to me, and quite busy. Yet all the stories here... Creates memories

Yup 14years ago and now women has more power than lasteryear due to various law change and faminisme and becoming more slick on men, manipulate, faking interest, false charges/accusation, cheating.. Hard to find a quality ltr material nowdays leave the marriages part alone..

Blue pills need to be incinerate altogether for men to survive these ordeals.

 

[ThinkerG]

Hey guys,

Yesterday my ex told me that the previous night her male housemate spent eight hours trying to get her to sleep with him (add this to weeks of similar attempts to get with my girl, fully knowing that she has me as her boyfriend). Such disrespect is outrageous, but I hold true to my own saying: "Cheaters cheat, non-cheaters don't". In her home that night, after a minor argument between us, and one whole bottle of wine drunk in her house to herself, one aggressive guy with a bunch of post-unproven promises, and a "this is how we were" heart-felt phone call from my ex's ex only a few hours before (yes, even her EX is trying to get with her!) she caved in to a guy that lasted five minutes.

Don't rip me to shreds guys for what I am about to say...

I don't believe for a second that this girlfriend of mine of eight months had any bad intentions against me. She came to me almost IMMEDIETLY afterwards (ie a few hours, in the morning) crying and saying I need a better girl. The obvious stuff was said (and she said "I know this is what everyone says..."). She said it meant nothing to her.

My intolerance of cheaters means I have to break up with her and I already have. It's not easy.

That's my pitch - what do you all think?

Nick

You have to go with your gut instinct but first sort through the emotions and never let the fear of loss control you. Only you know what’s best if you don’t fool yourself.
That being said..In my opinion you need to drop her only for the fact that you’ll always have that mistrust in the back of your mind which makes for an unsettled feeling all the time and why put yourself through that?

What gave away her real intentions is that you said her roommate has been trying to get with her for sometime.Think about it this way? If she really didn’t want to f**k this guy there’s no way in hell he would’ve succeeded unless it’s rape and we clearly know that’s not the case here. I’m sorry to say but she wanted it, thought about it and did it. It was a lousy f**k so now she feels bad. If this dude was a 10 and a great f**k she would just leave you for him. Don’t let her manipulate you. Doesn’t matter what she says, No honest loving girlfriend would let this happen tipsy or not.

 

[soulforge]

OP needs to screen better.

His GF is sharing a room with a dude (red flag) and this dude cleary wanted to bang her stupid.

This was a disaster waiting to happen.

I would have dropped this chick ages ago!

 

[Murk]

You have to wonder what happens to OP... Its a 2004 story.

That's what i love about forum and memory... Someone revived a 14 years OLD story.

Did OP forgave her? Did OP dumb her and found the love his life? Is OP a famous bachelor etc..?

I've dropped out of this forum. Life been great to me, and quite busy. Yet all the stories here... Creates memories

Nope. I'm happily married, and have a 2 year old daughter, with another baby on the way!

This was 2015

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/i-kiss-closed-and-nicks-new-reason-for-being-here.28700/page-3

I like how Nick bumps his thread after 12 years to respond.

 

[Nicholas Hill]

Three kids now. 11 years happily married. Haven't yet stopped cringing at all this old stuff!

 

[darksprezzatura]

Good riddance. Cue to make your game tighter. Vet more carefully for LTR status. Next. She was just practice.

Stay strong. There are other girls who are waiting for you to approach them so they can throw themselves at you. Are you up for the task?

 

[sosousage]

Hey guys,

Yesterday my ex told me that the previous night her male housemate spent eight hours trying to get her to sleep with him (add this to weeks of similar attempts to get with my girl, fully knowing that she has me as her boyfriend). Such disrespect is outrageous, but I hold true to my own saying: "Cheaters cheat, non-cheaters don't". In her home that night, after a minor argument between us, and one whole bottle of wine drunk in her house to herself, one aggressive guy with a bunch of post-unproven promises, and a "this is how we were" heart-felt phone call from my ex's ex only a few hours before (yes, even her EX is trying to get with her!) she caved in to a guy that lasted five minutes.

Don't rip me to shreds guys for what I am about to say...

I don't believe for a second that this girlfriend of mine of eight months had any bad intentions against me. She came to me almost IMMEDIETLY afterwards (ie a few hours, in the morning) crying and saying I need a better girl. The obvious stuff was said (and she said "I know this is what everyone says..."). She said it meant nothing to her.

My intolerance of cheaters means I have to break up with her and I already have. It's not easy.

That's my pitch - what do you all think?

Nick

she doesnt respect you

use her for sex only but dont marry

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Good riddance. Cue to make your game tighter. Vet more carefully for LTR status. Next. She was just practice.

Stay strong. There are other girls who are waiting for you to approach them so they can throw themselves at you. Are you up for the task?

+1

A honest fact from game is that, very few are worthy of any callback.

Its a tier. ONS.Fwb rotation.

Ive seen enough to know 99% aren't worthy of the commitment and less thrn 1% are worthy of anything of longevity.

 

[dr.harker]

”Even if one tries to forgive things are never the same.”

Additionally, if you let her slide and take her back, once you ultimately break up down the road and future girlfriends find out that you took back a cheater, then you’ll be sending a message that it’s ok to cheat on you. And every future girlfriend will.

Set yourself up for success. Ditch the b!tch, go for a few jogs, find some new plates to spin.

 

[Exil]

No judgement here. We've all been there at least once in our lives and it sucks hard. Red pill man, boundaries, self respect.

Once a cheater, always a cheater drunk or not. Move on and at very best, downgrade her to a plate if she was that good a fvck.

 

[Nicholas Hill]

With the girl that cheated?

No, of course not.

 

[Nicholas Hill]

There's no need to keep responding to this thread guys. It's from 2004. The situation has been resolved!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

There's no need to keep responding to this thread guys. It's from 2004. The situation has been resolved!

What was the old situation? How did you handle it and how has life unfolded afterwards? How are you today?