To the original poster.....you heard of Gabrielle Union right? In the movie, Deliver Us From Eva, she told LL Cool J, "Love is not some disease that infects you, it's a choice...."
You need to understand, BE MORE SEXUAL AND SEDUCTIVE....leave the Fred Flintstone happy family shyt for when you two have BUILT to that point.
Guys rush the relationship building part tooooo fast, it must built, just have sex with her.
You don't QUIT A BUSINESS that's "too good" or "too successful." That's like me telling Beyonce, "Baby...you just too sexy for me, I don't deserve you." Shyttt.....
She's no longer physically attracted to you, and she'll say whatever man, I mean, you're 21...grow up.
If you want further assistance pm me...because this is soooo far back and low on the scale, it's not even worth discussing. There's a million things wrong here.