Long story short I was at the eminem concert last night I took my GF with me along with a couple of others. We were leaving and saw people that were in his crew D12. My GF and her friend went over there and so did I (next to the tour buses). They got an autograph or two then I said lets go cause I work early in the mornings. They wouldnt leave. So next thing I know my GF and her friend are asked to go around the security barrier by some guy because they were flirting and sh*t. They start going around I got pissed cause I dont think anyone wants to see there gf hit on some guy or whatever. she was drunk too. I got so pissed and said all this stuff to her like saying shes acting like a little hoochie, slvt, groupie etc. startying saying shes disrespectful mind shes 24. I just kept telling her to shut up cause she was trying to justify with stupid excuse saying that she thought I wanted her to try to party with them so I could which was not the case. We sort of made up but did I do the right thing by letting her know whats up.
My GF was acting like a groupie slvt at the Eminem concert last night!!!
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You did the right thing, in the wrong way...
yeah you did do the right thing... but not in the right way. You got a little over angry and said some things that you should of said in a different way. (Eg: Caller her a slut) ... There are better ways to convey your message to her, but yes, you showed her that you would not put up with her flirting with other guys, regardless of the situation, so well done... next time (lets hope there wont BE a next time) just try and be less "aggressive" in your way of expressing yourself to her
Laterz...
yeah you did do the right thing... but not in the right way. You got a little over angry and said some things that you should of said in a different way. (Eg: Caller her a slut) ... There are better ways to convey your message to her, but yes, you showed her that you would not put up with her flirting with other guys, regardless of the situation, so well done... next time (lets hope there wont BE a next time) just try and be less "aggressive" in your way of expressing yourself to her
Laterz...
To be a big fan is fine. To act like a slut or groupie is another thing. Its up to your discretion to decide which she was doing.
sounds like the second to me. "I was trying to party with Eminem and his boys for you"
LMAO:crackup:
sounds like the second to me. "I was trying to party with Eminem and his boys for you"
LMAO:crackup:
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
HeartlessBtch
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HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
UUUHMMM I'm concerned... How bad was she flirting? Famous a**holes like D12 tend to just want then ones they know they can bang.... anyways was she being THAT sltty?
Frank Zappa
Senior Don Juan
Look Heartless B!tch, everyone's said it in a mean way and it seems to not hold credibility with you, but it's true.
The purpose of the site is to help men improve their game with women. Sometimes these men are extreme pushovers who put women on pedestals. That is why we use the other extreme to help remedy them. Even if the other extreme hurts the honor and character of women.
It is really starting to get god damn annoying every time the honor or character of women is put down, that I have to see a post from you. This site is about men helping men. Not women butting their nosy heads and unsolicited opinions in.
All of your posts question the man and the credibility of the man or defend the honor of women.
I don't know why women have to always be involved and in on everything. Think about how annoying it would be if men went on women's relationship forums and everytime there was a post that said "i hate all men, there all *******s." Instead of posting helpful advice he would make a post defending how not all men are *******s or forcing the woman to quantify how much of an ******* he was or if he even was one.
:crackup:
~Zappa
The purpose of the site is to help men improve their game with women. Sometimes these men are extreme pushovers who put women on pedestals. That is why we use the other extreme to help remedy them. Even if the other extreme hurts the honor and character of women.
It is really starting to get god damn annoying every time the honor or character of women is put down, that I have to see a post from you. This site is about men helping men. Not women butting their nosy heads and unsolicited opinions in.
All of your posts question the man and the credibility of the man or defend the honor of women.
I don't know why women have to always be involved and in on everything. Think about how annoying it would be if men went on women's relationship forums and everytime there was a post that said "i hate all men, there all *******s." Instead of posting helpful advice he would make a post defending how not all men are *******s or forcing the woman to quantify how much of an ******* he was or if he even was one.
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~Zappa
Thinking back, i can actually relate to this.... a chick i was with would LOVE the attention and get it from other guys regardless of if i was around or not.... after a LOT of time and fights I got it into her head that it was wrong, even if all she was doing was being "friendly" ... But yeah... she sounds like an AW (attention Wh0re) and it takes a LONG time and a lot of effort to get them out of that habit, but I believe its doable, if you are willing to put the effort and time in, and she is willing to CHANGE.
Laterz...
gimmeyofonenumba
Master Don Juan
so what happened? did your chick go backstage, if so what'd she say went on?
HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
Read all my posts and come back to me....and for your information and do help other on this website through private messaging so I could really wipe my a** with what you are saying right now...the post was not for you and I was not defending the girl. So if you are not sure or do not undertand what I'm trying to say then shut up...case closed.... as I have said before, I won't waste my time arguing with the idiots on this website
MindOverMatter
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haha you c0ckblocked eminem. good job man.
in all seriousness, if she's acting like a wh0re, NEVER be afraid to call her on it. even the biggest sl*t thinks in her tiny little mind that she's a decent/misunderstood girl, and when you let her know that she's not, it breaks her down inside.
again, you guys need to figure out how to distinguish your girls. there are short fling girls, and then there are women you have relationships with.
If you want a relationship, find a decent girl you can be proud of, and be with her. If you want a fling, then hook up with whoever. What you can't do is turn a sl*t into a relationship girl.
I said it before, you can freeze it, heat it up, melt it, cool it down, hammer it, but in the end, you can't turn sh!t into gold.
in all seriousness, if she's acting like a wh0re, NEVER be afraid to call her on it. even the biggest sl*t thinks in her tiny little mind that she's a decent/misunderstood girl, and when you let her know that she's not, it breaks her down inside.
again, you guys need to figure out how to distinguish your girls. there are short fling girls, and then there are women you have relationships with.
If you want a relationship, find a decent girl you can be proud of, and be with her. If you want a fling, then hook up with whoever. What you can't do is turn a sl*t into a relationship girl.
I said it before, you can freeze it, heat it up, melt it, cool it down, hammer it, but in the end, you can't turn sh!t into gold.
Peace and Quiet
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Not Quite There
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i'm just listening to westwood on the radio live in magaluf, spain. Dunno if you americans know of him, but hes pretty big in hip hop, knows all the main rappers/groups, has the main show on radio 1 in the UK,but still that don't make him good.
anyhow, it just sounds like the club he is broadcasting from is full of slaaags, groupie wh0res, a bit like your situation, i wouldnt touch therm with a barge pole.
if a girl i was with turned into a groupie like that, i would let her have her night of fun, but it would be the end of any relationship that was going on.
anyhow, it just sounds like the club he is broadcasting from is full of slaaags, groupie wh0res, a bit like your situation, i wouldnt touch therm with a barge pole.
if a girl i was with turned into a groupie like that, i would let her have her night of fun, but it would be the end of any relationship that was going on.
HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
Very true
The hidden message behind all of this is.....
She will only be your girlfriend until someone better comes along.
Women can preach about their character and honor all they want.
Plain truth is, she'll tell you that she'll love you till the end of time one day.
The next day she'll meet Mr. Famous or Mr. Rich and all of the sudden you are Mr. Chump.
If Brad Pitt really wanted your girl and laid the mack down on her hard, what do you think would happen?
Its a reality that all men must face. Its why sites like this exist. Its why you must wear a layer of titanium around your heart always.
I wouldn't be too hard on your girlfriend over the Eminem thing. She was just acting like 95% of the women in the world.
She will only be your girlfriend until someone better comes along.
Women can preach about their character and honor all they want.
Plain truth is, she'll tell you that she'll love you till the end of time one day.
The next day she'll meet Mr. Famous or Mr. Rich and all of the sudden you are Mr. Chump.
If Brad Pitt really wanted your girl and laid the mack down on her hard, what do you think would happen?
Its a reality that all men must face. Its why sites like this exist. Its why you must wear a layer of titanium around your heart always.
I wouldn't be too hard on your girlfriend over the Eminem thing. She was just acting like 95% of the women in the world.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Sadly enough, I agree. Now it's time to play "Reverse the situation!"
You and your girlfriend just got done watching Britney Spears and Jessica Simpson perform in the big city nearby. On your way out, you see some of her friends and start DJ'ing them. Before you know it, you're invited past the gate and into backstage. You've got the opportunity to nail two of the hottest girls in the media eye right now (for the sake of argument, let's all agree on this one). Now perhaps it's presumptuous of me to think that you'd ditch your girlfriend in hopes of bringing home a few pictures and stories, but that's what I would do. Thing is, the girl I'm with currently would understand - because she'd do it too (yes, she's bi).
Anyway, point is that girls get a lot more worked up over music than guys do... It's common knowledge, and has been proven in scientific studies. So, if it takes flirting to get to meet whatever big-name musician/artist/rapper/whoever, that's what they'll do. She should have discussed it with you before and gotten the go-ahead, but being drunk I'd have just blown it off, put my arm on her shoulder, and gotten carried in through security along with her and her friends.
You need to make a sex exemption list or something of that nature just for the kicks of it so your girl will know how to behave.
In that list you need to name one celebrity from a movie, music and sports/model that if by any chance any of you get the oppertuinty to sleep with them and thus fulfill a small fantasy of yours, you will be allowed to do so and it will not count as cheating ( You sleep with anyone else on that list and it is considered cheating)
Example:
Movies: Angelina Jolie
Music: Mandy Moore
Model: Petra Nemcova
By making this list you will know that 99.99 percent you and her would not even meet those people let alone sleep with them.
In that list you need to name one celebrity from a movie, music and sports/model that if by any chance any of you get the oppertuinty to sleep with them and thus fulfill a small fantasy of yours, you will be allowed to do so and it will not count as cheating ( You sleep with anyone else on that list and it is considered cheating)
Example:
Movies: Angelina Jolie
Music: Mandy Moore
Model: Petra Nemcova
By making this list you will know that 99.99 percent you and her would not even meet those people let alone sleep with them.
