New relationship after a recent breakup with a different girl. The girl is hot, put together, well-off, etc. Long story short, laying in bed, she asked me my sexual fantasy. I told her. I asked her why she asked, she said to make sure she pleases me. Next morning after we wake up she said she is going to arrange it for me on a trip in a few months [she clearly thought about it since she didn't say it until the next morning]. Said I can choose to have her involved or two other girls. I asked her why she would do this, allow me to be with other women and even arrange it for me. She said she wants to make sure I'm pleased and she'd rather know about it since she arranged it rather than me doing things behind her back.
I didn't say no. I wasn't sure if it was a test. I don't think it was since I didn't say no exactly and she didn't try to say she now knows I want other women, aha, caught you, etc.
I've periodically joked with her about a threesome with her and her friends or her sister (married). Literally was just teasing her. Not sure what to make of this.
My takeaways are:
1) High interest (she also handed me nearly 1K worth of gifts as part of my holiday gifts, she has more but she wanted me to have these now to wear for her).
2) For her it's about our connection and relationship not sex (as is the case with most women). She'd rather see me happy with other women on the side than me leaving for another woman. I think.
3) It COULD be a test, but we've texted and talked since then and spent an entire day together the day she mentioned this plan. Her interest and initiation of communication is as high as ever. There's no indication that she's upset I'm even entertaining the idea.
Part of me feels like this sounds interesting. Part of me thinks, we're a couple, I shouldn't do this to her. I've had affairs in the past while in relationships and it's not something I wanted to do again, especially with her. But is it cheating if she's arranging it? OK with it? I mean sure, I'd love to have a threesome. With my girl and another girl or two other girls. But if I had to choose between that and my girl, if doing such a thing would cause us issues in the future, I'd choose my girl. I certainly would NOT be ok with the idea of HER being with other guys...
