We've been together for about 6 months now and the relationship is great. Good conversation, good sex, good times. Hands down, the best girl I ever dated.
She tells me everything, which is awesome because I can trust her. But the other day she said something that did not sit well with me...
We were talking about our fantasies and she asked what mine was. I told her that I had already fulfilled it by sleeping with 2 women at one time. She laughed and said that she had the same fantasy...so my first thought is "yay! another 3some!" but then she dropped the bomb on me.
She said her ultimate fantasy is to sleep with 2 GUYS!! She went on to say that she had never done it and probably never will because some things are better left to the imagination, but the idea turns her on immensely.
Now, while I appreciate her candor, I can't help but feel uncomfortable with her when she meets one of my attractive guy friends. In the back of my mind I imagine her fantasizing about the both of us DPing her or sum crazy sh!t. Also, the fact that she has not tried it makes me wonder if her curiosity will one day get the best of her.
Am I being stupid or is my discomfort normal?
Discuss...
She tells me everything, which is awesome because I can trust her. But the other day she said something that did not sit well with me...
We were talking about our fantasies and she asked what mine was. I told her that I had already fulfilled it by sleeping with 2 women at one time. She laughed and said that she had the same fantasy...so my first thought is "yay! another 3some!" but then she dropped the bomb on me.
She said her ultimate fantasy is to sleep with 2 GUYS!! She went on to say that she had never done it and probably never will because some things are better left to the imagination, but the idea turns her on immensely.
Now, while I appreciate her candor, I can't help but feel uncomfortable with her when she meets one of my attractive guy friends. In the back of my mind I imagine her fantasizing about the both of us DPing her or sum crazy sh!t. Also, the fact that she has not tried it makes me wonder if her curiosity will one day get the best of her.
Am I being stupid or is my discomfort normal?
Discuss...