I saw the other post about the guy who lost his job and his wife called him a loser etc. Kind of made me laugh. Anyways I live with my GF been with her for almost 3 years total. I have a masters degree and a bachelors so Im educated well. Im 26 she's 28.
4 months ago I had a really good job right after I finished school. I was getting paid about 51k salary and it had a good career path. I was looking to make about 80k my second year. But my boss was such a pompus fvck and made me set up my desk right in his own office, literally like 5 feet away from him. He was also disrespectful, thought he was right yadda yadda. Basically unpleasant to be around. It would be different if my desk was seperate but it wasn't. I couldn't take it anymore so I quit. I told my GF and she was like do what you gotta do.
She knows I want to run my own business and such. She was like well try to do it. So I did, it man is it difficult. I got pretty far but then started running into road blocks, mainly financial ones.
My bills accumulate to about 1700 before food and gas. Really not that much. Last month my parents had to start helping me out, they make enough so its not a large chunk for them.
A couple of days ago I asked to borrow 100 to put into my account just in case extra bills came through automatically, she gave it to me no problem. Last night she was drinking then all of the sudden started saying stupid sh1t.
She was like well if I were in your position I would move back home for free rent cause theres no point in paying rent(my parents own a house but dont live there but my brother does and he is way to messy for me and we argue constantly). I then asked her where she would live, cause she doesnt want to live with my brother. She was like Ill just find a roomate, well still be together just not living together. To me this was like she wants an out. I was like well you can move I aint going back there. THen she said you have till July otherwise your moving home and im moving around there just not to your house (our lease is suppose to end in july). I got p1ssed somewhat and got defensive. She said calm down I wanna still be with you, not living together is not the end. I was like if Im moving its going to be out to Cali. She said there was no underlying meaning to what she was saying except that she is just looking out for me. I was like yeaaa right.
So she is financially strapped right now cause she cant control her finances correctly and I think shes worried about it and cause I asked her for the 100 she feels insecure about us. Shes such a b1tch Ive given her so much money and paid for a sh1t load of stuff. I was just supporting her azz last month she couldnt even eat with out me lol.
I look for jobs all the time and its hard right now obviously. I went to the bank and gave her back her 100. So my plan is just say hey gave you back your money I dont need it I got things covered. God im confused part of me wants to pack my sh1t and move out of state. Shes selfish and lives in a fantasy world thinking she is great and can threaten to leave me cause I cant find a job and gives me a deadline???
4 months ago I had a really good job right after I finished school. I was getting paid about 51k salary and it had a good career path. I was looking to make about 80k my second year. But my boss was such a pompus fvck and made me set up my desk right in his own office, literally like 5 feet away from him. He was also disrespectful, thought he was right yadda yadda. Basically unpleasant to be around. It would be different if my desk was seperate but it wasn't. I couldn't take it anymore so I quit. I told my GF and she was like do what you gotta do.
She knows I want to run my own business and such. She was like well try to do it. So I did, it man is it difficult. I got pretty far but then started running into road blocks, mainly financial ones.
My bills accumulate to about 1700 before food and gas. Really not that much. Last month my parents had to start helping me out, they make enough so its not a large chunk for them.
A couple of days ago I asked to borrow 100 to put into my account just in case extra bills came through automatically, she gave it to me no problem. Last night she was drinking then all of the sudden started saying stupid sh1t.
She was like well if I were in your position I would move back home for free rent cause theres no point in paying rent(my parents own a house but dont live there but my brother does and he is way to messy for me and we argue constantly). I then asked her where she would live, cause she doesnt want to live with my brother. She was like Ill just find a roomate, well still be together just not living together. To me this was like she wants an out. I was like well you can move I aint going back there. THen she said you have till July otherwise your moving home and im moving around there just not to your house (our lease is suppose to end in july). I got p1ssed somewhat and got defensive. She said calm down I wanna still be with you, not living together is not the end. I was like if Im moving its going to be out to Cali. She said there was no underlying meaning to what she was saying except that she is just looking out for me. I was like yeaaa right.
So she is financially strapped right now cause she cant control her finances correctly and I think shes worried about it and cause I asked her for the 100 she feels insecure about us. Shes such a b1tch Ive given her so much money and paid for a sh1t load of stuff. I was just supporting her azz last month she couldnt even eat with out me lol.
I look for jobs all the time and its hard right now obviously. I went to the bank and gave her back her 100. So my plan is just say hey gave you back your money I dont need it I got things covered. God im confused part of me wants to pack my sh1t and move out of state. Shes selfish and lives in a fantasy world thinking she is great and can threaten to leave me cause I cant find a job and gives me a deadline???
