my gf is really starting to talk to my friends?

[stoner1129]

so yeah my gf is starting to talk to my friends and a lot. she talks to one of them like a SH!T LOAD more than me, sometimes he'll call her and sometimes she'll call him but the problem is that she like never calls me. so what should i do about that? is it a problem? and what could i do to change it?

 

[Axcell]

Is he a close friend of yours? If so, talk to him about it.

Be confident though and give your girl space. If it is anything I have learned from this experience, it is that the more you try to be "protective" over your girl, the more she will go behind your back and do things you would not allow her to normally do. Give her some space, and allow her to socialize with him. However, if you are noticing that she is starting to place a higher value with him, talk to her about it.

Relationships are based on COMMUNICATION and TRUST. Without those two, your relationship is bound to fail. Are you in a LTR (Long-term relationship) with her? If so, you should be able to communicate with her and be able to talk to her about these things. Do not confront her, or start an argument. Rather, bring it up casually at first, and simply have a conversation about it while keeping your cool.

Don't assume the worst, talk to her about it. I'm interested in what other people have to say in regards to this matter..

If you have any questions about my post, feel free to PM me.
Axcell.

 

[Drumstick]

Well what kind of relationship do they have? Is it a just friends kind of thing or do you think she is cheating? If they are just friends I doubt you have anything to worry about because she will see him only as a freind, but if not then you better talk to them.

 

[redspicyflag]

Well

Let's see

I hope you're not more AFC than him

emotional tampon anyone?

 

[zinc64]

so yeah my gf is starting to talk to my friends and a lot. she talks to one of them like a SH!T LOAD more than me, sometimes he'll call her and sometimes she'll call him but the problem is that she like never calls me. so what should i do about that? is it a problem? and what could i do to change it?

This is a very easy question. Start talking to another girl on the side for backup. If your girl comes around then great...if not then also great because you can start seriously seeing the new girl who was on the side. Don't put up with any second rate treatment from ANY girl. Trust me. If you do...you are in for a load of heartache. I'd be going out and meeting new girls ASAP if I were you while still keeping this relationship going as well. Once your GF comes around then you can focus on her only...but for now....spin some plates and don't put up with BS...do your own thing a little while acting non chalant about it.

 

[GaryUranga]

This is a very easy question. Start talking to another girl on the side for backup. If your girl comes around then great...if not then also great because you can start seriously seeing the new girl who was on the side. Don't put up with any second rate treatment from ANY girl. Trust me. If you do...you are in for a load of heartache. I'd be going out and meeting new girls ASAP if I were you while still keeping this relationship going as well. Once your GF comes around then you can focus on her only...but for now....spin some plates and don't put up with BS...do your own thing a little while acting non chalant about it.

kudos fort this post

 

[KontrollerX]

She's pulling away from you and will soon (if she's not already) be all over his c0ck.

 

[stoner1129]

alright sh!t thanks guys i'll start talking to other chicks for backup if anything goes wrong and if not then ah well.