ill tell you what, I know deep inside, your feeling upset. My Approach would be....... to be real nice to her.. if she says she cant hang out or cant meet because shes "getting ready to go home and stuff" just simply say...... Ohh i understand Sweetheart, you have things to do, i dont wanna get in ya way. By you saying this... she will be content because now that ur outta the way, she can do whatever she wants without feeling guilty.. try and Catch her...... try calling her up at a time shes out.. if something sounds off.. or if she speaks to you differently or... acts too busy for u.. or even worse... u call a couple of times and her phone rings and then gets turned off... Just think to yourself.. "Shes playing herself, i dont have time for this.. I can bag a better chick, one whos gonan wanna hang out with me, without making up bull****" Im telling you right now, Women play the BS game when they are trying to hide something.. and even tho shes with you.... if she found someone more interesting to her, she will hold on to you as insurance,, incase the other guy doesnt work out.. But ur a man, a man with options.. and shes not the Only girl out there. Theres always someone better and nicer. Pay attention to her excuses, her voice, her actions.